I would continue not thinking about what they do behind closed doors. Also, don't go to a gay pride festival if you're already uncomfortable with your gay friends/family.
I have several friends including a family member that gets all hyped up over a Pride Festival They dress the part really well very flamboyant. I have never been comfortable when they do but it brings a good laugh and they are really good at dressing up. I give them credit. But I went to one for the first time with them. They said it would be fun and I enjoy people watching but felt really awkward when a company was offering lube products and other suggested pleasurables for the anal area to them..There slogan Eat Sleep Lube and Repeat or something like that. I started looking at my friends and family member differently. I never really thought about what they do behind closed doors before . Now I feel a little awkward around them. Any thoughts .