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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 4:10pm
It is a personal choice.
When I see someone who is greedy, selfish or bigoted, I try to point it out to them, in the hope they will consider changing for the better.
If I were more of a pessimist and I observed these people openly showing these characteristics, it would either be depressing or cynically amusing.
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sleeper
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Jun 27, 2012 4:42pm
isadore;1213239 wrote:It is a personal choice.
When I see someone who is greedy, selfish or bigoted, I try to point it out to them, in the hope they will consider changing for the better.
If I were more of a pessimist and I observed these people openly showing these characteristics, it would either be depressing or cynically amusing.
isadore, there is still time for your redemption.
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Con_Alma
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Jun 27, 2012 5:09pm
isadore;1213215 wrote:it begins with individual choices and then move toward a more communal hope for the effort toward redemption.
I would agree and that was part of my first comment. Without the choice nothing will happen even if hope form another is present.
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O-Trap
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Jun 27, 2012 5:11pm
isadore;1213239 wrote:It is a personal choice.
When I see someone who is greedy, selfish or bigoted, I try to point it out to them, in the hope they will consider changing for the better.
If I were more of a pessimist and I observed these people openly showing these characteristics, it would either be depressing or cynically amusing.
No dispute from me, but as we were dabbling in the area of "ought-ness" or obligation (by saying "should"), I questioned whether this is a topic to which such "ought-ness" can even be ascribed. That's all.
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 5:39pm
sleeper;1213280 wrote:isadore, there is still time for your redemption.
gosh a ruddies I am already a nice person, could be a little better, but already nice.
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 5:42pm
Con_Alma;1213303 wrote:I would agree and that was part of my first comment. Without the choice nothing will happen even if hope form another is present.
you don't think the hopefulness of others, that small contribution to a positive environment an aid.
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Con_Alma
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Jun 27, 2012 5:46pm
isadore;1213364 wrote:you don't think the hopefulness of others, that small contribution to a positive environment an aid.
Lol. no I don't.

I have stated several times....hope doesn't create the change, the choice of the individual does.

It's my observation on here that your "hope" is doing the exact opposite to those you express "hope" for. It isn't lending to a positive environment but rather is stirring an opposition to your wishful desires for them. I come to that conclusion by nature of the comments and threads directed towards you.
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 5:51pm
O-Trap;1213305 wrote:No dispute from me, but as we were dabbling in the area of "ought-ness" or obligation (by saying "should"), I questioned whether this is a topic to which such "ought-ness" can even be ascribed. That's all.
“oughtness” interesting term. As an optimist I believe people are redeemable. If a person has that view of mankind he\she ought to try to aid in redemptions.
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 6:03pm
Con_Alma;1213371 wrote:Lol. no I don't.

I have stated several times....hope doesn't create the change, the choice of the individual does.

It's my observation on here that your "hope" is doing the exact opposite to those you express "hope" for. It isn't lending to a positive environment but rather is stirring an opposition to your wishful desires for them. I come to that conclusion by nature of the comments and threads directed towards you.
Not every attempt to show the error of people’s ways and offer the hope of redemption will have success.
Better to light one candle than to curse the darkness.
Someone has to go among the most seemingly reprehensible reprobates and offer the truth and the hope of redemption. That is my small mission. When offering hope to those so twisted, quick positive feedback is not expected.
But as an optimist there is always very long range hope.
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O-Trap
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Jun 27, 2012 6:06pm
isadore;1213378 wrote:“oughtness” interesting term. As an optimist I believe people are redeemable. If a person has that view of mankind he\she ought to try to aid in redemptions.
Why, though?

I may believe people are redeemable, but inasmuch as that were true, what is the connection between a person BEING redeemable, in and of himself or herself, and my ability to aid in redemption? Perhaps they are redeemable, but I am powerless to redeem anyone but myself.

Moreover, why is it perceived as the "good" thing to want redemption for others? What is it that makes it good?
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 6:18pm
O-Trap;1213392 wrote:Why, though?

I may believe people are redeemable, but inasmuch as that were true, what is the connection between a person BEING redeemable, in and of himself or herself, and my ability to aid in redemption? Perhaps they are redeemable, but I am powerless to redeem anyone but myself.

Moreover, why is it perceived as the "good" thing to want redemption for others? What is it that makes it good?
Part of this could be definition. When I talk about someone being redeemable, it is not strictly a religious statement but the idea that a person can find the “good.” Away from selfish, greed, bigotry and other “bad” personal characteristics. I think a society where those characteristics are in decline would be a “good” society and one which we should work toward. By pointing out those characteristics and discussing redemption we can be helping others to be “redeemed.”
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Devils Advocate
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Jun 27, 2012 6:27pm
isadore;1213399 wrote:Part of this could be definition. When I talk about someone being redeemable, it is not strictly a religious statement but the idea that a person can find the “good.” Away from selfish, greed, bigotry and other “bad” personal characteristics. I think a society where those characteristics are in decline would be a “good” society and one which we should work toward. By pointing out those characteristics and discussing redemption we can be helping others to be “redeemed.”
are Muslims redeemable?
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DeyDurkie5
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Jun 27, 2012 6:29pm
isadore;1213239 wrote:It is a personal choice.
When I see someone who is greedy, selfish or bigoted, I try to point it out to them, in the hope they will consider changing for the better.
If I were more of a pessimist and I observed these people openly showing these characteristics, it would either be depressing or cynically amusing.
What if no one wants your wisdom?
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 6:35pm
Devils Advocate;1213405 wrote:are Muslims redeemable?
when they understand the biography of the Prophet and reject the more violent and immoral parts of it
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 6:40pm
DeyDurkie5;1213408 wrote:What if no one wants your wisdom?
It would be selfish of me not to continue to offer the possibility of redemption.
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sleeper
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Jun 27, 2012 6:50pm
isadore;1213357 wrote:gosh a ruddies I am already a nice person, could be a little better, but already nice.
And yet there is still hope for redemption.
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Con_Alma
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Jun 27, 2012 7:29pm
isadore;1213389 wrote:Not every attempt to show the error of people’s ways and offer the hope of redemption will have success.
Better to light one candle than to curse the darkness.
Someone has to go among the most seemingly reprehensible reprobates and offer the truth and the hope of redemption. That is my small mission. When offering hope to those so twisted, quick positive feedback is not expected.
But as an optimist there is always very long range hope.
Hope does not light the candle in this case. There's evidence it is having the opposite effect.
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 7:49pm
sleeper;1213416 wrote:And yet there is still hope for redemption.
yes there is for you,
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 7:52pm
Con_Alma;1213446 wrote:Hope does not light the candle in this case. There's evidence it is having the opposite effect.
For those buried so deep in selfishness, greed an bigotry, the road to the light can be long and tortuous. It must begin with them being told the real truth about who they are.
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Con_Alma
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Jun 27, 2012 7:54pm
isadore;1213458 wrote:For those buried so deep in selfishness, greed an bigotry, the road to the light can be long and tortuous. It must begin with them being told the real truth about who they are.
You just don't get it. They already know...and your hope is amplifying their desire to continue.
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 8:06pm
Con_Alma;1213459 wrote:You just don't get it. They already know...and your hope is amplifying their desire to continue.
they know snarkiness, surface cynicism, greed and selfishness worked into an ideology, bigotry disguised as supposed humor all supported by a cliquish fake comraderie. Efforts at the truth will of course arouse an extreme reaction from the deluded. But as the truth is repeated again and again there will in the long run incremental movement toward redemption
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O-Trap
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Jun 27, 2012 8:55pm
isadore;1213399 wrote:Part of this could be definition. When I talk about someone being redeemable, it is not strictly a religious statement but the idea that a person can find the “good.” Away from selfish, greed, bigotry and other “bad” personal characteristics. I think a society where those characteristics are in decline would be a “good” society and one which we should work toward. By pointing out those characteristics and discussing redemption we can be helping others to be “redeemed.”
Not that I disagree, but by what do you establish those things which are "good" and "bad," differentiating between the redeemable and the redeemed?
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isadore
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Jun 27, 2012 9:16pm
O-Trap;1213498 wrote:Not that I disagree, but by what do you establish those things which are "good" and "bad," differentiating between the redeemable and the redeemed?
An examination of theology, philosophy, history and intuition frrom the Seven Deadly Sins to the effects of bigotry on human history.
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O-Trap
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Jun 27, 2012 9:20pm
isadore;1213512 wrote:An examination of theology, philosophy, history and intuition frrom the Seven Deadly Sins to the effects of bigotry on human history.
Though vaguely put, that does lend something to it.
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Con_Alma
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Jun 27, 2012 9:23pm
isadore wrote:... But as the truth is repeated again and again there will in the long run incremental movement toward redemption
This is the hope that is proving to be false hope.