snyds113 wrote: I have been trying really hard for something like that.I have catered him his whole life.Which is weird because he is not loveable at all.He is just here.He doesn't cuddle or jump on you.He doesn't like to be brushed or petted.He's nuts.
My cat chases the dog around the house.GoChiefs wrote:snyds113 wrote: I have been trying really hard for something like that.I have catered him his whole life.Which is weird because he is not loveable at all.He is just here.He doesn't cuddle or jump on you.He doesn't like to be brushed or petted.He's nuts.
That's all cats do! They are just 'there'. If you want someone to cuddle and jump on you..you should have but a dang puppy. Most cats I know don't go around anyone. That just strut around the house acting like they own everything.
He is fine that way.I have a dog in my avatar.My cat chasas the dog around also.He does strut around the house and everything he sniffs he pees on.GoChiefs wrote:snyds113 wrote: I have been trying really hard for something like that.I have catered him his whole life.Which is weird because he is not loveable at all.He is just here.He doesn't cuddle or jump on you.He doesn't like to be brushed or petted.He's nuts.
That's all cats do! They are just 'there'. If you want someone to cuddle and jump on you..you should have but a dang puppy. Most cats I know don't go around anyone. That just strut around the house acting like they own everything.
Have you tried the calming aromatic plug ins for cats? Those work wonders. He is probably peeing out of stress.snyds113 wrote:He is fine that way.I have a dog in my avatar.My cat chasas the dog around also.He does strut around the house and everything he sniffs he pees on.GoChiefs wrote:snyds113 wrote: I have been trying really hard for something like that.I have catered him his whole life.Which is weird because he is not loveable at all.He is just here.He doesn't cuddle or jump on you.He doesn't like to be brushed or petted.He's nuts.
That's all cats do! They are just 'there'. If you want someone to cuddle and jump on you..you should have but a dang puppy. Most cats I know don't go around anyone. That just strut around the house acting like they own everything.
Like I said..you are putting him down for being a cat. He's just marking his territory. It's instinctive to them.snyds113 wrote: He is fine that way.I have a dog in my avatar.My cat chasas the dog around also.He does strut around the house and everything he sniffs he pees on.
depends on if he is spraying or peeing...GoChiefs wrote:Like I said..you are putting him down for being a cat. He's just marking his territory. It's instinctive to them.snyds113 wrote: He is fine that way.I have a dog in my avatar.My cat chasas the dog around also.He does strut around the house and everything he sniffs he pees on.
http://www.petmedsonline.org/comfort-calming-remedies-for-cats.htmlsnyds113 wrote: No haven't tried that.(plug-ins)But stress and a chemical inbalance is what is causing this.In the last year or so we haven't been able to pin point it though.
That is what I am saying but what am i to do live in a house that smells like cat urine.the molecules in cat urine spread like wildfire when rubbed or stepped on.i live in a nice house and have nice things.i don't want it to stink anymore and having family or company over can be an embarresment.Is a cat that I given my time and love and money to really worth anymore?I am not a cruel person and i love animals but I don't know if i want to take 12 more years of this.Does anyone at all understand where am coming from?GoChiefs wrote:Like I said..you are putting him down for being a cat. He's just marking his territory. It's instinctive to them.snyds113 wrote: He is fine that way.I have a dog in my avatar.My cat chasas the dog around also.He does strut around the house and everything he sniffs he pees on.
No, cause my gf is a vet and has taken the moral oath and it just pisses me off what your vet wants to do.snyds113 wrote:That is what I am saying but what am i to do live in a house that smells like cat urine.the molecules in cat urine spread like wildfire when rubbed or stepped on.i live in a nice house and have nice things.i don't want it to stink anymore and having family or company over can be an embarresment.Is a cat that I given my time and love and money to really worth anymore?I am not a cruel person and i love animals but I don't know if i want to take 12 more years of this.Does anyone at all understand where am coming from?GoChiefs wrote:Like I said..you are putting him down for being a cat. He's just marking his territory. It's instinctive to them.snyds113 wrote: He is fine that way.I have a dog in my avatar.My cat chasas the dog around also.He does strut around the house and everything he sniffs he pees on.
Get a shittier house, obviously.snyds113 wrote:That is what I am saying but what am i to do live in a house that smells like cat urine.the molecules in cat urine spread like wildfire when rubbed or stepped on.i live in a nice house and have nice things.i don't want it to stink anymore and having family or company over can be an embarresment.GoChiefs wrote:Like I said..you are putting him down for being a cat. He's just marking his territory. It's instinctive to them.snyds113 wrote: He is fine that way.I have a dog in my avatar.My cat chasas the dog around also.He does strut around the house and everything he sniffs he pees on.
I guess that's something that should have been thought about before buying a pet? And no..I don't think anyone understands where you are coming from. You want to kill a cat for..well..being a cat. Just seems to me like you don't want the responsibility anymore and you are looking for an easy way out. Otherwise..this wouldn't even be an option.snyds113 wrote: That is what I am saying but what am i to do live in a house that smells like cat urine.the molecules in cat urine spread like wildfire when rubbed or stepped on.i live in a nice house and have nice things.i don't want it to stink anymore and having family or company over can be an embarresment.Is a cat that I given my time and love and money to really worth anymore?I am not a cruel person and i love animals but I don't know if i want to take 12 more years of this.Does anyone at all understand where am coming from?
YES!!! Call and cancel.snyds113 wrote: Do you think i should call her office?
I am not the bad guy here.It may sound that way but i didn't lie about why this is happenning.I am simply looking in desparation for anything i haven't already done.I have spend upwards of 2000 dollars on my cat and it's problems another 500 dollars replacing everything that has been damaged.I tthink saying I'm not taking responsibilty is out the door.I cried last night and today over this i'm not ashamed to say.GoChiefs wrote:I guess that's something that should have been thought about before buying a pet? And no..I don't think anyone understands where you are coming from. You want to kill a cat for..well..being a cat. Just seems to me like you don't want the responsibility anymore and you are looking for an easy way out. Otherwise..this wouldn't even be an option.snyds113 wrote: That is what I am saying but what am i to do live in a house that smells like cat urine.the molecules in cat urine spread like wildfire when rubbed or stepped on.i live in a nice house and have nice things.i don't want it to stink anymore and having family or company over can be an embarresment.Is a cat that I given my time and love and money to really worth anymore?I am not a cruel person and i love animals but I don't know if i want to take 12 more years of this.Does anyone at all understand where am coming from?
pm me with her number.LJ wrote:YES!!! Call and cancel.snyds113 wrote: Do you think i should call her office?