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thavoice

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Jul 29, 2011 12:21 PM
O-Trap;845589 wrote:The best-laid plans of mice and men ...



Actually, if she comes with you, and your phone comes with you, I'd say there is DEFINITELY someone who would get into your voicemail ... perchance while you're in the restroom or out running. ;)

Good point. Just got home from a 9 day vacation.

My phone was turned on for a total of 3-5 minutes a day. Each evening I would turn it on to set the alarm for the next day, and then back off. Dont think she turns it on and peeps when I have it off and am not around as I never notice any calls and such that I didnt make.
Jul 29, 2011 12:21pm
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enigmaax

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Jul 29, 2011 1:04 PM
Yeah, when you find out who she's banging let us know. Oh and...is she hot?
Jul 29, 2011 1:04pm
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Steel Valley Football

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Jul 29, 2011 1:48 PM
dwccrew;845503 wrote:Doesn't have to lock his doors at his house when he's on vacation either.

Nor does he care about curb appeal for his house...because it sits far enough back off the road that no one can see it. LOL.
Jul 29, 2011 1:48pm
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Con_Alma

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Jul 29, 2011 1:52 PM
Steel Valley Football;845691 wrote:Nor does he care about curb appeal for his house...because it sits far enough back off the road that no one can see it. LOL.
Wrong. It's because he wont ever sell it. Lol. It doesn't sit back off the road so that the lot has a large back yard with multiple docks on the lake.
Jul 29, 2011 1:52pm
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Steel Valley Football

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Jul 29, 2011 2:55 PM
Con_Alma;845698 wrote:Wrong. It's because he wont ever sell it. Lol. It doesn't sit back off the road so that the lot has a large back yard with multiple docks on the lake.

Except that's not what you said originally!!!
Jul 29, 2011 2:55pm
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Glory Days

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Jul 29, 2011 7:40 PM
thavoice;845594 wrote:Good point. Just got home from a 9 day vacation.

My phone was turned on for a total of 3-5 minutes a day. Each evening I would turn it on to set the alarm for the next day, and then back off. Dont think she turns it on and peeps when I have it off and am not around as I never notice any calls and such that I didnt make.

turn your phone off or put it on sleep? your alarm works when the phone is off?
Jul 29, 2011 7:40pm
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Bigdogg

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Jul 29, 2011 9:12 PM
thavoice;845590 wrote:No truer statement has ever been spoken.

Favor bud, dont be blabbing this at all.

I know that may seem odd to say but no one knows me here.......and last thing I want is it to get back to her ya know.
No worries I just only told Hoot. Just kidding, I feel for ya. No biggie most wife's check on their husbands activities. Let it go, you got other things to worry about.
Jul 29, 2011 9:12pm
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thavoice

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Jul 30, 2011 9:24 AM
Glory Days;846081 wrote:turn your phone off or put it on sleep? your alarm works when the phone is off?

Yeah. Pretty much every phone has an 'auto on' option when you have the alarm set so you can have your phone off and the alarm will still sound.
Jul 30, 2011 9:24am
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Swamp Fox

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Jul 30, 2011 10:00 AM
Perhaps it would be better if we just took a step back in history and returned to the time of party lines, no cell phones, no I-pods, etc etc. Then when we were talking on the phone, anyone on the block that wanted to listen in could, and if we were messing around the word would be out instantly and we wouldn't need to come up with all these possible excuses when the truth is pretty clear in this example. I'm really old fashioned but I think that while technology has afforded us a very convenient method of communication, it has opened the door to problems such as the one described here, not to mention sexual predator problems, identification theft made ridiculously easy, massive computer generated telemarketing schemes, other types of solicitation on practically a 24-7 basis even though there are supposed to be numbers we can call to "end" the annoyances,and the technological age crashes forward, but not without some very real dangers that were unheard of in previous generations.
Jul 30, 2011 10:00am
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Jul 30, 2011 10:24 AM
thavoice;846454 wrote:Yeah. Pretty much every phone has an 'auto on' option when you have the alarm set so you can have your phone off and the alarm will still sound.

except my smart phone i guess :(
Jul 30, 2011 10:24am
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thavoice

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Jul 30, 2011 11:08 AM
Glory Days;846488 wrote:except my smart phone i guess :(

It should.
Jul 30, 2011 11:08am
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bwcomet89

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Jul 30, 2011 3:27 PM
My first question is if your wife is cheating or hiding something, why would it make it on your phone? Have you tried to call, contact, or look up the missed number? If your wife was really hiding something she would have deleted the evidence of any of it taking place. My guess is a kid did something wrong and an authority of some sort was trying to contact you about it and that kid tried to delete the voicemail so you didn't get it. Your wife seems too innocent in this case as shes far too casual. So either she's innocent or a master liar, where if it's the latter this incident is the least of your worries.
Jul 30, 2011 3:27pm
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Jul 30, 2011 7:33 PM
bwcomet89;846670 wrote:My first question is if your wife is cheating or hiding something, why would it make it on your phone? Have you tried to call, contact, or look up the missed number? If your wife was really hiding something she would have deleted the evidence of any of it taking place. My guess is a kid did something wrong and an authority of some sort was trying to contact you about it and that kid tried to delete the voicemail so you didn't get it. Your wife seems too innocent in this case as shes far too casual. So either she's innocent or a master liar, where if it's the latter this incident is the least of your worries.

You totally didn't get the story, did you? Re-read the story.
Jul 30, 2011 7:33pm
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bwcomet89

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Jul 30, 2011 8:30 PM
Probably not. I read through it and although I don't have my contacts in I don't believe it was the wife. I think she would be smart enough to cover her tracks if she did it.
Jul 30, 2011 8:30pm
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Steel Valley Football

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Jul 30, 2011 11:24 PM
bwcomet89;846885 wrote:Probably not. I read through it and although I don't have my contacts in I don't believe it was the wife. I think she would be smart enough to cover her tracks if she did it.
Read it again, contacts in.
Jul 30, 2011 11:24pm
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Jul 31, 2011 9:28 AM
thavoice, I thought I posted on this yesterday, but apparently I'm losing my mind. Given the last message I received from you awhile back and this, I'd say there are some significant issues. Checking up is one thing and is cool if you're up front about it, but the fact that she's denying doing it at all is totally different.
Jul 31, 2011 9:28am
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Jul 31, 2011 9:30 AM
Burn her house down.
Jul 31, 2011 9:30am
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bwcomet89

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Jul 31, 2011 3:38 PM
Steel Valley Football;847148 wrote:Read it again, contacts in.

Contacts in. Still don't think it was her.
Jul 31, 2011 3:38pm
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enigmaax

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Jul 31, 2011 3:47 PM
bwcomet89;846670 wrote:My first question is if your wife is cheating or hiding something, why would it make it on your phone? Have you tried to call, contact, or look up the missed number? If your wife was really hiding something she would have deleted the evidence of any of it taking place.

I'm confused. The thought that his wife is cheating or hiding something isn't specifically about his phone, it is about the fact that she is snooping in his shit. As in, she wouldn't lack trust in him to the point of snooping through his shit unless she's trying to catch him doing something....so she can feel okay about what she is actually doing. It's kind of a wild theory, but not an uncommon behavior. It seems like you interpreted it as our thinking that she was conducting her own affair on his phone?

He knew the number and got both the voice mail and text, but only after someone had already heard/read them.
Jul 31, 2011 3:47pm
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Con_Alma

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Jul 31, 2011 7:28 PM
Steel Valley Football;845796 wrote:Except that's not what you said originally!!!
No it's not what I said at all.

I, originally, never mentioned where my home stood with relationship to the road. I have in the past mentioned that you can't see the house from the road. Why in the world should I care about curb appeal and why have you injected it into this thread?
Jul 31, 2011 7:28pm
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Jul 31, 2011 10:19 PM
Con_Alma;847726 wrote:No it's not what I said at all.

I, originally, never mentioned where my home stood with relationship to the road. I have in the past mentioned that you can't see the house from the road. Why in the world should I care about curb appeal and why have you injected it into this thread?

The fact is you DO care about curb appeal - you just don't call it that.

It's in this thread because, once again, you have telegraphed your "uniqueness" and some of us find it comical.
Jul 31, 2011 10:19pm
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bwcomet89

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Jul 31, 2011 10:46 PM
enigmaax;847608 wrote:I'm confused. The thought that his wife is cheating or hiding something isn't specifically about his phone, it is about the fact that she is snooping in his shit. As in, she wouldn't lack trust in him to the point of snooping through his shit unless she's trying to catch him doing something....so she can feel okay about what she is actually doing. It's kind of a wild theory, but not an uncommon behavior. It seems like you interpreted it as our thinking that she was conducting her own affair on his phone?

He knew the number and got both the voice mail and text, but only after someone had already heard/read them.

The more I read into it the more of a non-issue I think it is. It was seeming like that's where the scope of the thread was going that she was, which I questioned why it would end up on his phone. Even if she was snooping, it's kind of what girls do. Which makes it a non-issue if he has nothing to hide. Haven't heard from the OP lately, he's probably gotten over it, least he should have.
Jul 31, 2011 10:46pm
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ernest_t_bass

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Jul 31, 2011 10:48 PM
Voice, what's the update?
Jul 31, 2011 10:48pm
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Jul 31, 2011 11:23 PM
bwcomet89;847924 wrote:The more I read into it the more of a non-issue I think it is. It was seeming like that's where the scope of the thread was going that she was, which I questioned why it would end up on his phone. Even if she was snooping, it's kind of what girls do. Which makes it a non-issue if he has nothing to hide. Haven't heard from the OP lately, he's probably gotten over it, least he should have.

It's what insecure little girls do, not a woman that you are married to. It is most certainly an issue which is why he posted this thread in the first place.
Jul 31, 2011 11:23pm
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Con_Alma

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Aug 1, 2011 5:11 AM
Steel Valley Football;847894 wrote:The fact is you DO care about curb appeal - you just don't call it that.

It's in this thread because, once again, you have telegraphed your "uniqueness" and some of us find it comical.


I truly couldn't care any less what the appeal or lack there of is to anyone viewing my property from the street. I wouldn't ever even think to create an appearance in a such a way that it may appeal to anyone else except me and my family. After all, it's mine.

If not lying to your spouse is uniquely comical then laugh away! I'll go on being honest with my spouse, which I think is what the voice wanted in his relationship, honesty.

Seems to me it would be odd if there was anyone on this forum not uniquely themselves.
Aug 1, 2011 5:11am