gut;1477240 wrote:And when the used car salesman tells me that lemon is a great buy? It's his fault if I flush my money down the toilet?
Um ... yeah. If he deceived you, it is indeed his fault.
gut;1477240 wrote:Although I do agree with you about irresponsibility of the guidance counselors, etc. Which is why it was so shameful to see Romney (or was it whats his name?) torched for suggesting college isn't the path to success for everyone.
I know a few dozen who are walking examples of that, so yeah, it was dumb to be on his case about saying that. He was right.
gut;1477240 wrote:I don't expect 18-yr olds to have the savvy to make that tough ROI decision, but they are old enough to know better.
Know better about what? Whether or not to go to college? Hell, we were told we should ALL go to college and pick a focus "that interests us." We were told to learn about what we loved. And there's nothing inherently wrong with doing that, but what we weren't told was that it would make careers more difficult, particularly in light of having this hefty school loan.
An 18-year-old has no frame of reference on whether or not college is a sound investment, let alone what college and what study. He's old enough to know better
if he's given the facts.
However, if he's been told the number is between 1 and 5 the last two years of his high school career by everyone he knows and trusts, I'm not sure how anyone would suggest he should know that it's really 7.
gut;1477240 wrote:I certainly knew better than to pursue a degree in art history from Columbia. It is, again, the stupid people that are making the bad choices and I'm not an advocate of lowering the bar of responsibility.
Working in an industry that is flush with scam artists and thieves, I have got to tell you that they wish more people were like you. They could hoodwink people all day long and convince the people that it was their own fault for buying anything.
A bad choice cannot always be known prior to being made. If every respectable "adult" in your life tells you that something is so, and you're just turning 18, you have no reason to believe every one of them is lying to you.
Make no mistake, I'm not advocating student loans being forgiven or forcing college to be less expensive or anything like that. I'm simply saying that being scammed is not the scammed person's fault if they'd had no reason to be skeptical.