FairwoodKing;1354165 wrote:Since you are so high and mighty, what would you call her? She's a teenage girl who is known to be promiscuous. She lied to her parents about where she was going. She got herself so drunk she couldn't stand up. And you're blaming me for calling her what she really is? Remember, at no time have I taken blame away from the boys. If they are guilty, I hope they rot in prison. The girl is not equally guilty. Lying to your parents and getting drunk do not come close to the crime of rape. I have simply said she needs help. Her parents obviously aren't capable of giving her the help she needs. They have done a very poor job of raising her. I still say and will continue to say that she needs to spend some time in a rehab center to dry out and learn how to behave.
I repeat: Her misconduct doesn't come close to the misconduct of the boys. But she needs help. Am I such a terrible person for suggesting that?
Why would you judge me to be "high and mighty"?
To answer your question directly, I wouldn't call the teenage girl anything other than a victim.
Your determination of her "need for help" isn't convincing when the explanation is inclusive of her being a "drunken whore" and that none of this would have happened if she didn't do certain things. You will never, ever be excused for such comments. That's what makes you such a terrible person.