Con_Alma;1162216 wrote:I'm not married to strangers. If I were married to someone and they then became unable to know who I was, I would still have a relationship with them, yes. My role would be very different in their lives but it wouldn't change the commitment I made to them.

Con_Alma;1162209 wrote:Her moving on and banging another guy doesn't end the relationship. It changes it. The relationship ends at physical death.

sleeper;1162217 wrote:Yes like_that, I even bang your mom.

Con_Alma;1162218 wrote:I'm sure it would mean it was over for you. I'm not answering for you. I am answering for me. Being married isn't solely about who I choose to be intimate with.

Raw Dawgin' it;1162219 wrote:You're a stranger to them - be more vague, it helps your argument a lot. I'd like to know how you carry on a relationship with someone who doesnt know who you are.

Raw Dawgin' it;1162219 wrote:You're a stranger to them - be more vague, it helps your argument a lot. I'd like to know how you carry on a relationship with someone who doesnt know who you are.

like_that;1162221 wrote:You can do better than that little guy. Come on.



Yes, I know. Please refer to the "sackless pussy" portion of my post. Thanks.

like_that;1162222 wrote:According to Con_Alma you are commited to her until death. So, even if she gets creeped out by a "stranger" that she gets a restraining order on for stalking, con alma will still press on.

sleeper;1162227 wrote:And you can do better than "STFU".

Con_Alma;1162225 wrote:...by looking out for them and assisting them in anyway possible as it relates to their ongoing medical needs....by being certain that the issue that still plagues them is handle with respect and the utmost reverence and honor. It's a provider relationship at that point...one that was vowed and would be a privilege to make available if required to do so.

Con_Alma;1162229 wrote:Why would she creeped out? She may not ever even see you.

Con_Alma;1162229 wrote:Why would she creeped out? She may not ever even see you.

like_that;1162230 wrote:Reps, you are right.

I was just making sure this convo didn't turn into one of your religious shit fest threads. There is already a 60+ page thread for that.

Manhattan Buckeye;1162220 wrote:The relationship ends when one person isn't capable of relating anymore. Early stage Alzheimer's is extremely rare, but it does happen even to people in their 30's.

I can't imagine anyone counseling their children that if their spouse develops this at say, age 35 (again extremely rare, but it happens), that they should be guilted to live decades with someone that doesn't recognize them, doesn't recall any memories of their relationship, is unable to create any type of relationship going forward and needs professional care 24/7. Alzheimer's is difficult enough for spouses to live through even after a lifetime together, I can't imagine what it would be like to have it happen at a far earlier age.

like_that;1162232 wrote:So you are going to watch her from a distance, while she is banging other guys?

Raw Dawgin' it;1162231 wrote:What if she doesn't want you around because she has no clue who you are? What if you go to where she is being cared for an she is carrying on a relationship with another man and requests you never come by again because it scares her to hear someone she doesnt know say they're her husband?

Con_Alma;1162236 wrote:The relationship does not legally end.

It's an awful scenario for certain. One with which I would hope noone at any age has to experience. I sympathize with those that ave.

Con_Alma;1162237 wrote:Visibility, mine nor hers, has never been implied in my posts.

Watching her isn't necessary.

Con_Alma;1162238 wrote:Who said I would be "around". Why would you assume that?

like_that;1162241 wrote:So, she has moved on with her new life, and you are going to be miserable and lonely for the rest of your life? LOL.

"Being miserable was never implied. My faith will always keep me happy"
/Con_Alma'd

Con_Alma;1162246 wrote:Happiness comes from giving to the one you love. Giving the woman I vowed my life to the care and continued needed oversight of her medical needs is not a recipe of a miserable life.

Con_Alma;1162236 wrote:The relationship does not legally end.

It's an awful scenario for certain. One with which I would hope noone at any age has to experience. I sympathize with those that ave.

Con_Alma;1162246 wrote:Happiness comes from giving to the one you love. Giving the woman I vowed my life to the care and continued needed oversight of her medical needs is not a recipe of a miserable life.

Raw Dawgin' it;1162243 wrote:0_o - how do you care for someone without being around? why is it in quotes? Why can't you give a straight answer? How does someone put up with you 24/7?