ernest_t_bass;1162122 wrote:First let me state that I don't know much about Alzheimer's, only what I've briefly seen on TV, so I don't know the full affects, or how realistic TV is. I saw a scenario on Grey's Anatomy (watch it with the wife, STFU), and I was wondering how people thought about the situation. I'd like to get your opinions.

Situation:

Dr. Webber's wife has Alzheimer's, and it's to the point where she NEEDS to be in a home. He puts her in a home, and within a short time, she seems to forget who he is, and has fallen in love with another man; an Alzheimer's patient as well. Dr. Webber walks in on his wife (she has little idea who he is, not to mention that he's her husband) and her new boyfriend doing it in her room. You can tell it is devastating for him, but almost like he's happy that she's happy.

Cut to the next week's episode, and you find Dr. Webber with another woman, one with whom he has flirted in the past (and she reciprocated), but he would not touch her because he was committed to his wife. Now that he has seen that his wife is with another man, he goes ahead and does the deed with this other woman.

What would you do? How do you feel about it? (Let's forget about the fact that I was watching Grey's Anatomy)

like_that;1162124 wrote:I googled Dr. Webber's wife. I would be pretty happy with that outcome so I can bang somebody else better looking.

like_that;1162124 wrote:I googled Dr. Webber's wife. I would be pretty happy with that outcome so I can bang somebody else better looking.

pnhasbeen;1162128 wrote:Plus uno.

Raw Dawgin' it;1162137 wrote:My wife doesn't know who I am and is banging other men, yes I'm going to start banging other women and not feel bad.

like_that;1162140 wrote:This.

What else am I supposed to do. QQ the rest of my life?

Con_Alma;1162164 wrote:Others before self.

The difference between the actions of the husband and wife is that one knew they were breaking their agreement while one did not. There' no way I would be physically intimate with another person after vowing to my wife that I wouldn't. It wasn't a conditional agreement.

Raw Dawgin' it;1162175 wrote:You'd be a ghost to your wife but still be faithful? She'd be a stranger to you and you'd still not try and find someone else?

ernest_t_bass;1162181 wrote:Con, you didn't vote.

like_that;1162165 wrote:LOL. I was waiting for Con_Alma's post.

Raw Dawgin' it;1162175 wrote:You'd be a ghost to your wife but still be faithful? She'd be a stranger to you and you'd still not try and find someone else?

Raw Dawgin' it;1162199 wrote:the relationship at that point is over. I'll visit her, but i'm moving on.

Con_Alma;1162201 wrote:I disagree. It's simply a different relationship than before.

sleeper;1162202 wrote:I'm an atheist so I have no morals. I would bang whoever, whenever, however regardless of any vows or conditions.

like_that;1162205 wrote:The relationship is over. She moved on and is banging another guy.



STFU.

Con_Alma;1162209 wrote:Her moving on and banging another guy doesn't end the relationship. It changes it. The relationship ends at physical death.

Con_Alma;1162201 wrote:I disagree. It's simply a different relationship than before.

Raw Dawgin' it;1162213 wrote:Do you have relationships with strangers? What kind of relationship would you have with someone who will never know who you are? It have a great relationship with kate upton, she just doesn't know it

like_that;1162212 wrote:Well, maybe if you are a sackless ****, but if my gf or wife is banging another guy, that means the relationship is over.

like_that;1162205 wrote:The relationship is over. She moved on and is banging another guy.



STFU.