I'm not sure why this bugs me so much..

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ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Feb 3, 2011 8:42 AM
Fab4Runner;662942 wrote: He could also say please don't call me. I will call you when I want to talk.
Fab4Runner;662942 wrote: If he wants to keep "seeing her" .

I'm not sure these two lines belong together.
Feb 3, 2011 8:42am
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Fab4Runner

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Feb 3, 2011 8:54 AM
ZWICK 4 PREZ;662946 wrote:I'm not sure these two lines belong together.
I agree. But I was just responding to IWP. I wouldn't think it's too much hassle to call her when you leave work or get home..but he was saying you shouldn't have to. And that is true you shouldn't. But if you want to keep seeing her and she wants you to what is the big deal?
Feb 3, 2011 8:54am
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ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Feb 3, 2011 10:13 AM
It's not a huge deal. I guess I just dont see a point. We don't live together. She's not there waiting on me. Just feels like she needs to check up on me.
Feb 3, 2011 10:13am
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Con_Alma

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Feb 3, 2011 10:14 AM
Sounds as if she has insecurity issues.
Feb 3, 2011 10:14am
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Feb 3, 2011 10:19 AM
Cat Food Flambe';662595 wrote:Lady D'Friskies quickly realized that positive reinforcement works amazingly well. The ""I'm naked, horny, and waiting for you" call usually rearranges my priorities rather quickly - even after 30 years. :)

My favorite call especially since I work out of our home (sometimes do paperwork at night) and can run up two flights of stairs in 8 seconds.
Feb 3, 2011 10:19am
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Scarlet_Buckeye

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Feb 3, 2011 11:51 AM
Originally Posted by Flash: She doesn't have anything to do. Marry her and have some kids. She'll bug them and forget about you. That's what I did.

Zwick: solid advice.


Yea, only problem with that philosphy is, with someone like her, once the kids come, the sex stops!
Feb 3, 2011 11:51am
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thavoice

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Feb 3, 2011 11:54 AM
Does she also question ya if you are late?

Pester you all day long? Do not know what the deal is.....many women feel that if you are not in contact with them then you are doing something wrong.


ZWICK 4 PREZ;661929 wrote:But this drives me fucking insane.

Like most people, I don't always (or usually) get out of work on an exact time. If I plan to leave at 5 it'll usually be a quarter after or whatever. This girl Im talking to will always call to see if I'm still there. for everything....

If I'm supposed to meet her for lunch and I'm supposed to leave at 11:30, she'll call at 11:32. Or if I tell her I'll prolly only work till 5, she'll call at 5:03. No matter how many times I explain that I can't just leave at a certain time, and theres stuff that must be completed before I go (mainly billing hours that day), she continues to call a few minutes after to see if I left yet.

I know it doesn't seem like a big deal.. and realistically it probably isn't.. but would that bother anyone else?
Feb 3, 2011 11:54am
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Nate

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Feb 3, 2011 2:22 PM
My fiance was like this for a while. I'd say I'm off at 5:30. I'd get a text at like 5:32 saying "Are you on your way home?".

#1) When I have to work until 5:30 that's the earliest I can get out. I have to wait for everyone else so I can run the finish process to our backend system.
#2) If I'm on a roll when working on something, I'm not to stop right at that time.

Eventually, she got the point. I tell her when I'm almost out the door and that solves a lot of these types of annoyances.
Feb 3, 2011 2:22pm
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Ender Wiggin

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Feb 3, 2011 4:23 PM
Why do you take things so seriously? I mean why does it matter? Why take things seriously?

/O-Traps dumbass
Feb 3, 2011 4:23pm
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hasbeen

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Feb 3, 2011 6:52 PM
One thing I like about my new girl, we both have shit to do. I call/text her and she doesn't respond? I wait. She'll get back at me. And vice-versa.
Feb 3, 2011 6:52pm
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Feb 3, 2011 10:24 PM
Ender Wiggin;663618 wrote:Why do you take things so seriously? I mean why does it matter? Why take things seriously?

/O-Traps dumbass

Oh thank god. This thread consisted of a normal, productive conversation. I was hoping king dick of the trolls would come along to ruin it.
Feb 3, 2011 10:24pm
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tuskytuffguy

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Feb 3, 2011 10:43 PM
Stage 5 clinger. Ditch the bitch.
Feb 3, 2011 10:43pm