Should my Friend Be Worried?

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pmoney25

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Aug 19, 2010 10:28 PM
So one of my friends told me the other day an odd story about his wife to me. For the past few months she has been going out at least once a week with her friends from work. Usually out to the bar, she gets drunk and either comes home at like 5 in the morning or not until around 9 as she ends up staying the night. The odd thing is that she stays the night at a guys house. Now she says that she is not the only one staying, that after the bars, they all end up there and multiple people stay.

Now to top that off, he works late on Wednesday Nights, so on Wednesdays she takes the kids (two kids, like 5 and 1 Year olds) out on play dates.) Now sometimes on the play dates there are other Girls there with their kids but sometimes it is just her and another guy(single) kid that go out. They go to the park and out to dinner.

Now maybe I am strange but in my opinion, that is not the behavior of a "Normal" Married person guy or girl. Granted the guy who coincidently she stays the night at his house and goes on solo "play dates" could really just be a friend but seems fishy to me.

He has confronted her, straight up asking her. She said no, then said since it bothered him she wouldn't do it, yet she still goes on the play dates every week alone with this guy.
Aug 19, 2010 10:28pm
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fan_from_texas

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Aug 19, 2010 10:29 PM
Your friend should be worried. This isn't normal, and it wouldn't fly here.
Aug 19, 2010 10:29pm
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RelsonGracieBJJ

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Aug 19, 2010 10:33 PM
He should only be worried if he cares that his wife is a ho and is cheating on him. If not. Nothing to worry about.
Aug 19, 2010 10:33pm
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dave

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Aug 19, 2010 10:36 PM
yeah that's not normal
Aug 19, 2010 10:36pm
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Aug 19, 2010 10:36 PM
Whore!!

:-)
Aug 19, 2010 10:36pm
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Aug 19, 2010 10:37 PM
Fab1b;456620 wrote:Whore!!

:-)

+1
Aug 19, 2010 10:37pm
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Mulva

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Aug 19, 2010 10:37 PM
Seems like an ideal time to employ a 'two can play this game' mentality.
Aug 19, 2010 10:37pm
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wildcats20

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Aug 19, 2010 10:41 PM
She's bangin' the single dad.
Aug 19, 2010 10:41pm
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like_that

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Aug 19, 2010 10:41 PM
I would be pretty pissed. Even if nothing is going on, I don't understand why females see nothing wrong with these types of things.
Aug 19, 2010 10:41pm
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Aug 19, 2010 10:43 PM
like_that;456630 wrote:I would be pretty pissed. Even if nothing is going on, I don't understand why females see nothing wrong with these types of things.

This.

Because it is totally unacceptable for a guy to do the same EXACT thing.
Aug 19, 2010 10:43pm
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Aug 19, 2010 10:43 PM
pics?
Aug 19, 2010 10:43pm
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Aug 19, 2010 10:47 PM
I'll bang her best friend, then upper deck single guy's toilet.
Aug 19, 2010 10:47pm
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fan_from_texas

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Aug 19, 2010 10:50 PM
like_that;456630 wrote:Even if nothing is going on, I don't understand why females see nothing wrong with these types of things.
I've never met a girl in my life who would see nothing wrong with this. It's very clearly not something that's okay, and any girl who'd act like it wasn't objectionable should be kicked to the curb.
Aug 19, 2010 10:50pm
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Aug 19, 2010 10:53 PM
Yeah, that wouldn't fly with me. Something is definitely going on.
Aug 19, 2010 10:53pm
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Aug 19, 2010 10:54 PM
wildcats20;456631 wrote:This.

Because it is totally unacceptable for a guy to do the same EXACT thing.

Exactly, unfortunately the whole thing is a lose-lose situation.
Aug 19, 2010 10:54pm
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gport_tennis

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Aug 19, 2010 10:55 PM
I dont know anyone who would think that that is acceptable for her to do that. I dont think your buddy is going to be happy when he finds out what is really going on.
Aug 19, 2010 10:55pm
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Aug 19, 2010 10:56 PM
If he has money and doesn't have a pre-nup he should be worried. Of course the whore is getting dicked on those play dates. It's time for him to go out and get some pussy and find a divorce lawyer.
Aug 19, 2010 10:56pm
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Aug 19, 2010 10:56 PM
fan_from_texas;456637 wrote:I've never met a girl in my life who would see nothing wrong with this. It's very clearly not something that's okay, and any girl who'd act like it wasn't objectionable should be kicked to the curb.

Maybe not to the extremes of sleeping over at another guys house, but you never met a girl who hung out with other guys, even while in a relationship?
Aug 19, 2010 10:56pm
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Timber

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Aug 19, 2010 11:05 PM
Not only is this not normal behavior... but really unbelievable with two children ages 5 and 1. Wow is all I can say... Your buddy is one poor, unfortunate person that I feel incredibly bad for... not even knowing him. I was gonna make a joke about all of us kicking in $ 12.00 each .... for this poor guy's undercover PI. But, it just wouldn't be right to make light of the situation.

Even if this gal isn't out "sporthumpin"... she should not be doing what she is doing to this poor guy. Prediction... there is no way this ends well for him.

Wish him the best.
Aug 19, 2010 11:05pm
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Aug 19, 2010 11:18 PM
Time to hire a PI.
Aug 19, 2010 11:18pm
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Aug 19, 2010 11:21 PM
Apple;456671 wrote:Time to hire a PI.

I agree.
Aug 19, 2010 11:21pm
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Aug 19, 2010 11:25 PM
As long as she doesn't kiss him before, during or after I have no problems because kissing means you love someone.
Aug 19, 2010 11:25pm
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Aug 19, 2010 11:29 PM
She's going to come home pregnant and talk him into paying for someone else's kid. She's got to go.
Aug 19, 2010 11:29pm
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Aug 19, 2010 11:35 PM
she's definately a pumpkin eater
Aug 19, 2010 11:35pm
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Darkon

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Aug 20, 2010 12:07 AM
Your friends a puss!
If and only if, this had happened to me it would have only been one time. If she thought this was OK she would be out the door period!
Aug 20, 2010 12:07am