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Glory Days

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Mar 18, 2010 12:05 AM
yeah 6 months isnt that bad. its not like yourvoice isnt coming back. just break it off now because even if she says she wont, she will be getting the dick from someone during that time.
Mar 18, 2010 12:05am
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Apple

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Mar 18, 2010 12:26 AM
thavoice wrote: Just wait till u hear the kicker tomorrow..
cryptic... is she his cousin or something?
Mar 18, 2010 12:26am
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dwccrew

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Mar 18, 2010 2:27 AM
sleeper wrote: Yeah she's definitely either already banging some dude on the side or she has this dude that she wants to bang on the side.

Drop the hoe, but at least have sex with her one more time, extra lube, I hope you know what to do with that.
^^^^The answer
thavoice wrote: Yourvoice doesn't believe she bangin another right now. Some good stuff here and ill pass it along

Seems pretty cool and all now but the contention is when he s gone she's legal to do any dude she wants without breaking the rules.


Pretty fucked up if u ask me
I believe "yourvoice" is in denial. That bitch is banging someone else or very close to it.
Mar 18, 2010 2:27am
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Strapping Young Lad

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Mar 18, 2010 3:20 AM
Kill her!!!!!!!!!!
Mar 18, 2010 3:20am
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Glory Days

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Mar 18, 2010 3:31 AM
now that i think of it, can you get me yourvoice's girlfriend's number?
Mar 18, 2010 3:31am
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Con_Alma

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Mar 18, 2010 6:55 AM
What's the question??

She has told YourVoice she want's to break up. Does it really matter why?? Does he have a choice?

Break up and move on. Go on your 6 month trip.

I am not sure what's so odd about this. ????
Mar 18, 2010 6:55am
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THE4RINGZ

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Mar 18, 2010 8:06 AM
Can we please get pictures of her, her sisters, her friends, and her mother? I need these in order to give accurate relationship advice.
Mar 18, 2010 8:06am
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fortfan

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Mar 18, 2010 9:05 AM
If she wants to break up-he should, but tell her no way he is coming back to her.
Mar 18, 2010 9:05am
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bamagirl

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Mar 18, 2010 9:09 AM
Who says yourvoice isn't going to cheat on her? I mean perhaps that is why she wants to the break up? It may not be that she is worried about herself but himself...either way definite trust issues going on there.

Bottom line if it is meant to work out...it will.
Mar 18, 2010 9:09am
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thavoice

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Mar 18, 2010 9:27 AM
Con_Alma wrote: What's the question??

She has told YourVoice she want's to break up. Does it really matter why?? Does he have a choice?

Break up and move on. Go on your 6 month trip.

I am not sure what's so odd about this. ????
She wants to break up while he is gone on his 6 month thing.....and then get back together when he comes back....if neither has found another while gone and on the breakup. Basicallly, in his eyes......so she could be 'legal; to fuck around.

The woman is gonna be back home...going out, doing her thing. Yourvoice will be gone and extremely busy, to a place where dating really isnt gonna be too viable. Plus he ll be around mostly people 15-18 years younger.

The kicker is this...........

she would consider marriage before he would get deployed.

She said she'd feel better if her husband was on deployment and not just her boyfriend. Hmm...Possible waiting around for a death benefit in the untimely demise of yourvoice?

Other than this issue it has been pure perfection so he says.
Mar 18, 2010 9:27am
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Con_Alma

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Mar 18, 2010 9:45 AM
I go that part.

She wants to go out and "do her thing". She wants to break up. What choice does yourvoice have?

She wants to be separate. There's nothing that yourvoice can do. It's her life. It's her choice.

Regarding the marriage "consideration"...in my opinion that would be foolish. It's not the right reason to get married.

It may have been pure perfection before but for it to be pure perfection now for her it would have to included no commitment.

It may suck. It may be a surprise but I don't understand the issue.

When one party doesn't want to be committed it seems pretty simple.
Mar 18, 2010 9:45am
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thavoice

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Mar 18, 2010 9:49 AM
Con_Alma wrote: I go that part.

She wants to go out and "do her thing". She wants to break up. What choice does yourvoice have?

She wants to be separate. There's nothing that yourvoice can do. It's her life. It's her choice.

Regarding the marriage "consideration"...in my opinion that would be foolish. It's not the right reason to get married.

It may have been pure perfection before but for it to be pure perfection now for her it would have to included no commitment.

It may suck. It may be a surprise but I don't understand the issue.

When one party doesn't want to be committed it seems pretty simple.
Ya know what.......your exactly right.

Ill fwd that to yourvoice.
Mar 18, 2010 9:49am
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Con_Alma

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Mar 18, 2010 9:51 AM
Tell yourvoice I'm thankful for his service and to come home safe.
Mar 18, 2010 9:51am
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thavoice

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Mar 18, 2010 10:00 AM
con....alma...what do you think of the comment of "ill miss you less when your gone if we break up before you leave" and not because she wants to play around. Matter of fact she said she wouldnt be fn around.

When he told me that I called shenanigans. but he is kind of a wierd being.
Mar 18, 2010 10:00am
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Con_Alma

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Mar 18, 2010 10:03 AM
What I think is she really will miss him less and he needs to not worry about the level of "missing" she will do. It doesn't matter. He needs to oblige for his own sanity and cut her loose.

Of course she will be fn around. Let her go. She wants to be let go.
Mar 18, 2010 10:03am
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fortfan

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Mar 18, 2010 11:53 AM
Sounds so much like another guy from the same town a few years ago. They got married-but she fooled around the whole time he was in Iraq......Hopefully this isn't that kind of situation.
Mar 18, 2010 11:53am
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Buckeye2B

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Mar 18, 2010 12:13 PM
Absolutely drop her like a bad habit and don't look back. Been there - done that - already threw the souvenier away....
Mar 18, 2010 12:13pm
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thavoice

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Mar 18, 2010 12:53 PM
fortfan wrote: Sounds so much like another guy from the same town a few years ago. They got married-but she fooled around the whole time he was in Iraq......Hopefully this isn't that kind of situation.
Oh..I know about that one. That was one f'd up situation.

and I dont believe this is the same town fortfan.
Mar 18, 2010 12:53pm
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Eric Taylor

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Mar 18, 2010 12:54 PM
Women like this are just pure trash
Mar 18, 2010 12:54pm
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fortfan

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Mar 18, 2010 1:13 PM
thavoice wrote: and I dont believe this is the same town fortfan.
That was just an assumption I made.
Mar 18, 2010 1:13pm
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Mar 18, 2010 2:35 PM
all women are whores, except our mothers

drop her like it's hot
Mar 18, 2010 2:35pm
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Bigdogg

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Mar 18, 2010 4:30 PM
Voice, you need my opinion?
Mar 18, 2010 4:30pm
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thavoice

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Mar 18, 2010 4:31 PM
my buddy yourvoice may need your opinion.

and no....teh advice doesnt need to be to hit on your wife.

been there, done that.
Mar 18, 2010 4:31pm
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Nate

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Mar 18, 2010 4:35 PM
She just wants the check you get while you are gone if she is thinking marriage before you go. Dump this ho already. Tell her to find another Sugar Daddy because that's what she obviously wants while you are gone. Your money and someone elses dick.
Mar 18, 2010 4:35pm
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sej

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Mar 19, 2010 10:14 AM
Walk. Commitment is commitment, and for whatever reason she has she doesn't want it.
Mar 19, 2010 10:14am