eersandbeers wrote: It isn't about what you want though. It's about what your boyfriend wants.

Glory Days wrote:

eersandbeers wrote: It isn't about what you want though. It's about what your boyfriend wants.

exactly, funny how women think when the shoe is on the other foot. i mean, do you really think guys want to drop money on jewelry, chocolate, stuffed animals etc? No, but we do to make the woman happy. but when all we want to do is put it up her pooper...oh noooo way.

eersandbeers wrote: To give it up the pooper.

eersandbeers wrote: Can't tell if its sarcasm, but it is well said.

I actually view it as somewhat selfish. You don't want to go outside your comfort zone for your boyfriend, and yet, you expect him to do certain things for you.

ernest_t_bass wrote: I hate any holiday where I have to either give or receive gifts. I hate anyone telling me I have to give you something. I like to show up on a random day and give you a gift, then do the same thing in about 5 years.

eersandbeers wrote:

Glory Days wrote:

eersandbeers wrote: It isn't about what you want though. It's about what your boyfriend wants.

exactly, funny how women think when the shoe is on the other foot. i mean, do you really think guys want to drop money on jewelry, chocolate, stuffed animals etc? No, but we do to make the woman happy. but when all we want to do is put it up her pooper...oh noooo way.

Can't tell if its sarcasm, but it is well said.

I actually view it as somewhat selfish. You don't want to go outside your comfort zone for your boyfriend, and yet, you expect him to do certain things for you.

mexappeal12 wrote:

eersandbeers wrote:

Glory Days wrote:

eersandbeers wrote: It isn't about what you want though. It's about what your boyfriend wants.

exactly, funny how women think when the shoe is on the other foot. i mean, do you really think guys want to drop money on jewelry, chocolate, stuffed animals etc? No, but we do to make the woman happy. but when all we want to do is put it up her pooper...oh noooo way.

Can't tell if its sarcasm, but it is well said.

I actually view it as somewhat selfish. You don't want to go outside your comfort zone for your boyfriend, and yet, you expect him to do certain things for you.

well i am not sure if this is directed at me or just in general to women but i never said anything about what i expected out of him... i am actually not making a huge deal out of v-day i just wanted to see if anyone has any good ideas ...i am not a flowers girl (they die and then i get to clean the nasty vase) or even jewelery it is just awkward unless you are for sure heading towards marriage... my bf doesnt do anything he doesnt want to do and i shouldnt be expected to either.... getting it up the pooper isnt something i would qualify as out of my comfort zone type of thing..i would qualify it as a never going to happen why would i ever do anything that hurts and doesnt feel good (i dont have a prostate men do and thats why it feels good for guys)... if he wants me to do something outside of my comfort zone like see a horror movie or i dunno something that wouldnt make me feel violated then i would... i consider up the pooper a little different

i mean guys would you take it up the butt? i mean c'mon just go outside your comfort zone it isnt a big deal, right? (hmmm i am sure you wouldnt do it either)

Fab4Runner wrote: In that case dudes should take it up the pooper...or maybe put on some lingerie and fish nets. I mean come on just go out of your comfort zone.

I'm getting my boyfriend me with a bow on...and yes the butt is still off limits.

mexappeal12 wrote: no i have never tried it and i dont want to... it is just not appealing to me on any level

mexappeal12 wrote: no i have never tried it and i dont want to... it is just not appealing to me on any level

wes_mantooth wrote:

mexappeal12 wrote: no i have never tried it and i dont want to... it is just not appealing to me on any level

SMH....my heart is broken, I thought you were my dream woman, but that is a deal breaker.

dwccrew wrote:

mexappeal12 wrote: no i have never tried it and i dont want to... it is just not appealing to me on any level

So if going down on a girl doesn't appeal to a guy, than he shouldn't do it? Not trying to argue, just asking.

Also, your argument of a guy should take it in the ass is not a very good one. We don't take penis anywhere else (well we straight ones) why would we take anything in the ass? You women get poked all the time, so why not one more hole? Again, if you tried it and didn't like it, ok; but you never know, you may like it. Like I said, I know a girl who likes it better in the poop shoot.

eersandbeers wrote: To give it up the pooper.

wildcats20 wrote:

eersandbeers wrote: To give it up the pooper.

Just curious, have you ever?? It's not that great to give it.

mexappeal12 wrote:

dwccrew wrote:

mexappeal12 wrote: no i have never tried it and i dont want to... it is just not appealing to me on any level

So if going down on a girl doesn't appeal to a guy, than he shouldn't do it? Not trying to argue, just asking.

Also, your argument of a guy should take it in the ass is not a very good one. We don't take penis anywhere else (well we straight ones) why would we take anything in the ass? You women get poked all the time, so why not one more hole? Again, if you tried it and didn't like it, ok; but you never know, you may like it. Like I said, I know a girl who likes it better in the poop shoot.

mexappeal12 wrote:yes i think when it comes to sex stuff you should never try and guilt someone into doing something... if you dont want to go down on a girl then you don't want to...

Hey hey hey, I never said it didn't appeal to me, I was saying for other guys. I don't mind lunchboxing at all.

I do agree that no one should be guilted into things, I'm just trying to give you the other view I have heard from women.

mexappeal12 wrote:just because we get poked somewhere doesnt relate to us getting poked somewhere else... should i want to take it in the ear too? I actually disagree with you about guys taking it up the butt not being a good argument... it fits perfectly with how it was presented to me earlier in this thread

Well, if your BF has a tiny enough pecker, the ear could be an option. I get your point and that is fine, I was just trying to broaden some horizons!

mexappeal12 wrote: yes i think when it comes to sex stuff you should never try and guilt someone into doing something... if you dont want to go down on a girl then you don't want to...

just because we get poked somewhere doesnt relate to us getting poked somewhere else... should i want to take it in the ear too? I actually disagree with you about guys taking it up the butt not being a good argument... it fits perfectly with how it was presented to me earlier in this thread

and i dont think you are arguing

wes_mantooth wrote:

wildcats20 wrote:

eersandbeers wrote: To give it up the pooper.

Just curious, have you ever?? It's not that great to give it.

Then you never tried it with a freaky enough bitch