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gorocks99

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Feb 1, 2010 2:02 PM
THE4RINGZ wrote: You got any naked pictures of Mary?

'Cause that could change things.
I agree. Pics or GTFO.
Feb 1, 2010 2:02pm
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queencitybuckeye

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Feb 1, 2010 2:02 PM
THE4RINGZ wrote: You got any naked pictures of Mary?

'Cause that could change things.
If not, this could be the opportunity to get some. :)
Feb 1, 2010 2:02pm
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Heretic

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Feb 1, 2010 2:06 PM
If the wife is someone a couple rungs above you in the work ladder, there's probably a good reason why she doesn't want you to be a regular social caller that has nothing to do with you not being "welcome". Let's say you get a promotion over a couple of other candidates in the future and it's known that you're buddy-buddy with a superior. That's the kind of thing that can look bad for all parties because of the potential for "preferential treatment" allegations.

In other words, like Keebler said, bite the bullet and consider there might be more of a reason than, "I dislike this twit, but I'm friends with his girl, so I might as well bite the bullet and invite him...damn..." for why the person who's your boss' boss isn't your best friend.
Feb 1, 2010 2:06pm
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Heretic

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Feb 1, 2010 2:09 PM
FatHobbit wrote: I suck at this.

Mary and Bob are married. Mary is a VP where I work. Bob is a VP (or maybe even president) for a different company.

I'm engaged to Sally, who is friends with Mary and Bob.
Is he "Smilin' Bob" from the Enzyte commercials?

If so, there might be another reason your girl wants you to buddy up with him, as that might get you a free hook-up.
Feb 1, 2010 2:09pm
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v_falcons

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Feb 1, 2010 2:11 PM
haha I would go, but then pull some UNCLE EDDIE shit at the dinner table..
Feb 1, 2010 2:11pm
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THE4RINGZ

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Feb 1, 2010 2:12 PM
The names of the people in this story make me very suspicious. Like he is trying to hide something.
Feb 1, 2010 2:12pm
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FatHobbit

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Feb 1, 2010 2:12 PM
THE4RINGZ wrote: The names of the people in this story make me very suspicious. Like he is trying to hide something.
Lol, maybe
Feb 1, 2010 2:12pm
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Con_Alma

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Feb 1, 2010 2:22 PM
Understanding completely why they once to you not to visit and now are suggesting it is acceptable there should be no hesitation to attend. There's is much more benefit in you attending than not.
Feb 1, 2010 2:22pm
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enigmaax

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Feb 1, 2010 2:36 PM
Who sent the text telling you that you weren't welcome - Bob or Mary?
Feb 1, 2010 2:36pm
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FatHobbit

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Feb 1, 2010 2:40 PM
enigmaax wrote: Who sent the text telling you that you weren't welcome - Bob or Mary?
Mary. Mary is also the one that said my fiance could bring me.
Feb 1, 2010 2:40pm
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DeyDurkie5

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Feb 1, 2010 2:41 PM
FatHobbit wrote:
enigmaax wrote: Who sent the text telling you that you weren't welcome - Bob or Mary?
Mary. Mary is also the one that said my fiance could bring me.
maybe she wants to get to know you better to give you a promotion?
Feb 1, 2010 2:41pm
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ytownfootball

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Feb 1, 2010 2:42 PM
The point is hobbit, it wasn't personal, only business at the time.
Feb 1, 2010 2:42pm
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enigmaax

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Feb 1, 2010 2:42 PM
How old is Mary and how hot is Mary? And why was your lady living with them - longtime family friend?
Feb 1, 2010 2:42pm
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Belly35

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Feb 1, 2010 2:47 PM
Go what the hell............ If I walked around all day not going where I'm not welcome I would never leave the house or my office
Feb 1, 2010 2:47pm
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FatHobbit

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Feb 1, 2010 3:10 PM
ytownfootball wrote: The point is hobbit, it wasn't personal, only business at the time.
It might not have been personal, but I'm not really giving her the benefit of the doubt. I did decide to take one for the team. :-/
enigmaax wrote: How old is Mary and how hot is Mary? And why was your lady living with them - longtime family friend?
Mary is mid to late forties. Not hot. My fiance is a family friend and she was just looking for something different for the summer(s). I'm not sure why the hell she wanted to come to Ohio. She would take their kids to the country club and just hang out for the summer. They also partied quite a bit.
Belly35 wrote: Go what the hell............ If I walked around all day not going where I'm not welcome I would never leave the house or my office
That made me laugh. :)
Feb 1, 2010 3:10pm
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power i

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Feb 1, 2010 4:40 PM
I wouldn't expect my husband to go somewhere he did not feel welcome.
Feb 1, 2010 4:40pm
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darbypitcher22

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Feb 1, 2010 4:52 PM
I'm with the go and Upper Deck the toilet part. Drink the expensive shit and cost them some money
Feb 1, 2010 4:52pm