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Cleveland Buck
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Fri, Jan 15, 2010 8:58 PMJan 15, 2010 8:58 PM
Apple wrote:
If my teenage son ever called me daddy, I'd smack him.
+1
Jan 15, 2010 8:58pm
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Fri, Jan 15, 2010 8:59 PMJan 15, 2010 8:59 PM
Probably not till college.
Jan 15, 2010 8:59pm
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Fri, Jan 15, 2010 9:10 PMJan 15, 2010 9:10 PM
I will just be happy if he knows the difference between dating and hooking up. Too much hooking up... not enough dating these days. I will make sure he has the resources he needs to afford to date (on a limited basis) because, most of the time, the guy should still pay the bills, and that the young lady deserves to be treated with a great deal of respect. Although he's had school "girlfriends", at 17, he will probably have his first real date (in the car, by himself, not to a school event, not in a group, not just hanging out at her house) with someone he just met tomorrow night. Hopefully all the right ground work has been laid for him to have a long future of good dating experiences. We would have let him date at a younger age, but he just hasn't been that interested. The age of dating always depends on the kid.
Jan 15, 2010 9:10pm
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Fri, Jan 15, 2010 10:43 PMJan 15, 2010 10:43 PM
I am now 27 and have been with the same girl since our Sophomore year in high school. She was my first date and we are now engaged.
So I will let my son go on a real date when he is 16....and the same with my daughter...
Jan 15, 2010 10:43pm
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Fri, Jan 15, 2010 11:19 PMJan 15, 2010 11:19 PM
I have a 3 year old daughter, and while I can't really control when she starts dating, I will for sure watch over her. Just a few weeks ago I intentionally made a 7 year old boy literally cry by kicking his ass so bad in wii bowling because he told my daughter it was too hard for her to play.
Jan 15, 2010 11:19pm
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Sat, Jan 16, 2010 12:09 AMJan 16, 2010 12:09 AM
The combination of Fat Hobbit's and Apple's responses to various things mt said cracked me up and made this thread a winner!
Jan 16, 2010 12:09am
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Sat, Jan 16, 2010 6:30 AMJan 16, 2010 6:30 AM
As a parent going through that again. I think that I would want to be about 80 and incoherent so I wouldn't know what was happening. So...I guess it would be about 65 or thereabouts. Actually, our kids, all boys, began around 15-16 with varying degrees of success then, and later in life with the opposite sex. I guess you could include me in that same statistic as well.
Jan 16, 2010 6:30am
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Sat, Jan 16, 2010 7:29 AMJan 16, 2010 7:29 AM
Swamp Fox wrote:...Actually, our kids, all boys, began around 15-16 with varying degrees of success then, and later in life with the opposite sex. I guess you could include me in that same statistic as well.
ummm... wtf? This sounds like they dated boys at the beginning and moved on to the opposite sex later in life... just like their dad.
Jan 16, 2010 7:29am
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Sat, Jan 16, 2010 10:16 AMJan 16, 2010 10:16 AM
Heretic wrote:
The combination of Fat Hobbit's and Apple's responses to various things mt said cracked me up and made this thread a winner!