All of this.jmog;1870234 wrote:I was in Italy for 6 weeks once for work, and even with only being there for 6 weeks I learned enough Italian to "get by". If I had been there for anything over a couple months I would have forced myself to learn the language fluently to actively communicate in the country I was "living" in.
So yes, a normal person, going to live in a country, should try to learn that language for their own benefit as well as the others around them.
Most cultures that have moved to the US have done this, they have "assimilated" enough to know the "language" (yes, we know that there is no official language, but when 99% of the people in the country speak that language and every single road sign, airport sign, and government document is in that language, it is a de facto national language).
Also, I get just as "bothered" by dumb Americans that go to Europe or Mexico on vacation and get pissed when no one there speaks English.
I used to be fluent in Spanish (still can read it) and even then when I was in Spain and Mexico I carried a Spanish/English dictionary to help in communication. I had an Italian/English one with me when I was in Italy.
The only time I did not do this was when I was in China and Belgium. Both cases I was only going to be there 1 week, and had interpreters with me.
People here bitch about American tourists traveling to other countries and refusing to speak the language for short trips let alone living there for a long period time. I am in the boat that I think it's a bad look. I normally try to speak the language even if I'm butchering it.
If it is frowned upon from this perspective, why not when people live here? Living in the US for 10 years and you still need an interpreter is inexcusable. My aunt (Turkish) self taught herself English just by day to day interactions. Plenty of uber drivers do the same shit.