imex99;797593 wrote:I've known him for over 3 years now, talk on the phone almost weekly. He's a good guy but very defensive on military service and can be harsh.
Can you blame anyone who has suffered and witnessed what he's witnessed, not be defensive.
His language and assumptions might be out of line sometimes but i can't blame him( he's tired of losing in ncaa football to me, haha).
In all seriousness, he's a good guy, a good father, good husband( hopefully they get married soon) and a good friend.
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Make no mistake, I don't blame him for being proud of his time as a Marine. I'M proud of ANYONE who can undergo that kind of training and fight for our country the way they do. I respect and admire that, and I could never do it, myself.
However, I will not ever admire or even accept the use of that to either belittle the other branches of the armed forces, who also put their lives on the line, and who also do what I could not, as I admire them just as much (unless, again, they're just ribbing one another).
Moreover, I will not admire or accept the attitude that, because someone did serve in a war, they deserve special exception on things like this. I can empathize with the adjustment to normal life being difficult. I don't blame him his brashness at all. My grandfather is the same way (flew planes in WWII, joined the Air Force in '47 when it became its own entity, was shot down in the Korean War, served in Vietnam, received the Silver Star and two Purple Hearts), as is my brother-in-law (a graduate of USAFA, and a fighter pilot currently). Both of them, however, appreciate the laws and practices that they serve(d) to protect. They don't expect exception from those laws or rules. When offered, they humbly accept them (have seen it from both of them). They don't demand free drinks at bars. They don't demand anything.
It just seems that if someone is in the military, fighting to protect our rights and way of life, that they should actually value our rights and way of life. Delta has a right to put a charging practice into place so as to ensure that they are a profitable company under the capitalist economic model ... which is one of the freedoms we have that the military serves to protect. So why would a military man then demand that Delta not exercise that freedom when it comes to him?
Accept gratitude with humility and dignity. Don't demand gratitude with arrogance, and DEFINITELY don't throw a fit when someone doesn't show gratitude the way you want them to.