Clever Guy;650307 wrote:Caution! I have nothing to gain or lose from whatever outcome is realized... I couldn't possibly know the whole truth form either side (assuming there are opposed sides here). But I will offer my opinion, perhaps pose questions, and hopefully understand better for myself. First, I hope the young Nelson's can compete. There are however, conflicting opinions about "transferring", overly involved parents who don't get they're way, and the consequences of behavior in general. This is all very ugly... Falcon, I don't know what happened with the paperwork, but it seems to me, you would be quite familiar with the process by now. Also, for all the seemingly malicious reasons you left Tuslaw this time, you've left there before, and returned, and left, and returned. Why? Is there a secret "Annual Nelson Lottery"? Of course I'm kidding, but you must understand how this looks to others... Also, I sense quite a few people rooting against you, others, not rooting against you so much as rooting for the system and it's black & white rules. You, it seems, are the center of the attention, the target. Not the boys. The only "tragedy" I can find in this is, your actions have apparently incurred enemies. The boys may indeed be punished for them. Do you feel, from an end-game prospective, any responsibility for all this? Just wondering! Remember: The louder one speaks, the bigger the audience. All of this has been far to public for my taste. It will culminate with a very public result. My two bits at this point are: I've never seen the transfer of a student athlete ever be the result of anything more then a parent not getting their way or having enough power/control at one school/program so they simply change schools. That's pretty sad. I can assure you, at this point most people feel like that's why we're here once again. I feel you should be made aware of that point. No one else has seemed to bring it up... Good luck.
I want to commend Clever Guy as My new on line hero! He is the first ever to take me up and ID himself like a man after a tough post and his first post ! He Face booked me and messaged me his name , position and where he lived and worked a very nice explanation behind his comment!!! I salute You!!! You are the first ever on any thread or forum to do so! LOVE IT. It made my other wise tough day refreshing . Real men Backing up with a face their opinions with out hiding or blushing and running after throwing rocks , all though I don't consider him throwing rocks! Cheers to "Clever Man"!!!! Welcome to Chatter!!!