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Fab1b

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Oct 5, 2010 9:42 PM
Give it a fucking rest already damn
Oct 5, 2010 9:42pm
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Oct 6, 2010 7:48 AM
stroups;508450 wrote:The one in WV?
Yes
Oct 6, 2010 7:48am
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Tiernan

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Oct 6, 2010 8:15 AM
My sig other has told me many times she'd rather I go to a strip club with the boys than one of the meat market bars around town. You ain't gettin shit in a strip bar except some looky loo.
Oct 6, 2010 8:15am
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Gblock

Oct 6, 2010 8:30 AM
I was friends with my girlfriend for about a year and half before we started dating. We had hooked up when we were drunk a few times but mostly were just good friends and hung out a lot. I wanted more and she was kidna gunshy because she had been hurt before. this went on for a long time and i felt like it wasn't going anywhere and we should just be friends. so a few months later i slept with her friend. I kinda knew it was sorta wrong but the friend said she would never tell.....of course she told her because she said the guilt was too much or whatever. I didnt know the girl had told and of course I panicked and lied about it at first before telling the truth. this earned me the rep as a known liar.

it turned out to be a big mess. she didnt speak to me for about 4 months. and said she cant trust me ect...It turned out better for me I guess because then i knew she cared about me more than a friend and when she started speaking to me we started to actually "date". however it has not been easy. any attempt to defend my actions in this situation makes her cry. basically i had to confess to and recieved the same punishment as a cheater even tho i dont believe i did and i never would. .

and now the two girls are enemies but we all still have the same group of friends. so about every few months this situation gets brought up and she reminds me how she still isn't "over" it....it effin sux but what can you do....

we have been together now for about a year and i think its worth it but sometimes it is very difficult. hopefully as time goes on she will let it go.
Oct 6, 2010 8:30am
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Oct 6, 2010 9:20 AM
Gblock;509008 wrote:I was friends with my girlfriend for about a year and half before we started dating. We had hooked up when we were drunk a few times but mostly were just good friends and hung out a lot. I wanted more and she was kidna gunshy because she had been hurt before. this went on for a long time and i felt like it wasn't going anywhere and we should just be friends. so a few months later i slept with her friend. I kinda knew it was sorta wrong but the friend said she would never tell.....of course she told her because she said the guilt was too much or whatever. I didnt know the girl had told and of course I panicked and lied about it at first before telling the truth. this earned me the rep as a known liar.

it turned out to be a big mess. she didnt speak to me for about 4 months. and said she cant trust me ect...It turned out better for me I guess because then i knew she cared about me more than a friend and when she started speaking to me we started to actually "date". however it has not been easy. any attempt to defend my actions in this situation makes her cry. basically i had to confess to and recieved the same punishment as a cheater even tho i dont believe i did and i never would. .

and now the two girls are enemies but we all still have the same group of friends. so about every few months this situation gets brought up and she reminds me how she still isn't "over" it....it effin sux but what can you do....

we have been together now for about a year and i think its worth it but sometimes it is very difficult. hopefully as time goes on she will let it go.
Sounds like she didn't want you but didn't want anyone else to have you either. You shouldn't worry about it because the girl sounds like she is a bit unstable. Time to move on and not worry about it.
Oct 6, 2010 9:20am
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Oct 6, 2010 9:26 AM
If it feels good.... It's sex.



If you dont pay the whore... or of you rape someone, THAT"S CHEATING>
Oct 6, 2010 9:26am
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Gblock

Oct 6, 2010 9:30 AM
no we are together now and im very happy, its just sometimes we end up at the same functions with the friend and it is very upsetting for her. i actually am thinking about the future w/her
Oct 6, 2010 9:30am
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Oct 6, 2010 10:32 AM
Little Danny;509049 wrote:Sounds like she didn't want you but didn't want anyone else to have you either. You shouldn't worry about it because the girl sounds like she is a bit unstable. Time to move on and not worry about it.

I agree with this!
Oct 6, 2010 10:32am
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Oct 6, 2010 11:28 AM
gorocks99;508318 wrote:

+1.
Oct 6, 2010 11:28am
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jmog

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Oct 6, 2010 11:52 AM
I agree with the general sentiment here, if you wouldn't want your sig other doing the same thing or you know she wouldn't want you doing it, then its cheating.
Oct 6, 2010 11:52am
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Oct 6, 2010 1:12 PM
majorspark;508394 wrote:Take your wife to the doc with you. She might be able to help out.

You don't even need to take her to the doc...you can give 'samples' at home now!
Oct 6, 2010 1:12pm
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Oct 6, 2010 1:13 PM
...I can't remember (didn't want to go back through all the posts) but someone said it's cheating if you;

1. Watch porn
2. Jerk off

How is either of these cheating on your wife/s.o.???
Oct 6, 2010 1:13pm
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Oct 6, 2010 1:15 PM
GoChiefs;509245 wrote:You don't even need to take her to the doc...you can give 'samples' at home now!
Right!

... hey honey, can you spit in the cup, I gott'a take a sample into the doc this morning!
Oct 6, 2010 1:15pm
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Oct 6, 2010 1:28 PM
4cards;509251 wrote:Right!

... hey honey, can you spit in the cup, I gott'a take a sample into the doc this morning!

Sigh..unfortunately..that dilutes the sample..the doc said no go to that! hahahaha
Oct 6, 2010 1:28pm
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Oct 6, 2010 1:54 PM
4cards;509247 wrote:...I can't remember (didn't want to go back through all the posts) but someone said it's cheating if you;

1. Watch porn
2. Jerk off

How is either of these cheating on your wife/s.o.???
They actually said that it was considered cheating at the retreat my wife and I had to attend before we could get married. The husband and wife giving the presentation said that if you are fantasizing about another person other than your significant other, then you are not fully committed to them, and it's a sin, and blah blah fucking blah. I just kept laughing at them because they would use phrases like "manual self pleasuring" instead of "jacking off."
Oct 6, 2010 1:54pm
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Oct 6, 2010 2:06 PM
^^^^^
"Manual Self Pleasuring"??....LOL
You should have fucked with them when they said that. You could have played stupid like, you mean jacking off, stroking your dummy, jerk'n my gerk'n...

I thought you were a fucking comic?....LOLOLOLOL
Oct 6, 2010 2:06pm
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Oct 6, 2010 2:11 PM
CenterBHSFan;508348 wrote:Danny every now and then my dude will go to Jills Gentleman's Club, probably like 2 or 3 times a year with his buds. But, I have a level of trust with him to where I know he won't take it too far. Plus, one of his cronies is my eldest brother - who has his allegiance to me and his friendship with my bf just doesn't compete. Sometimes I'll go with'em and sometimes I won't.
They probably only go during the Christmas season when Jill's run their fundraiser... "Toys for Ta Ta's"... That is so nice of them ... such a good cause. LOL I always laugh when I hear that ad on the radio during the season.
Oct 6, 2010 2:11pm
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Oct 6, 2010 2:15 PM
Art Modell;508687 wrote:Ask your ex girlfriend. You know, the one you were cheating on. LOL HAHAHAAAAA.
C'mon Capone. How many decades has it been? Be serious. Give us all a good laugh. You're always trying to be funny.
Oct 6, 2010 2:15pm
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Oct 6, 2010 2:53 PM
anything you do with someone that is something you would do ONLY with your significant other is cheating in my book.
Oct 6, 2010 2:53pm
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Oct 6, 2010 2:57 PM
swamisez;509410 wrote:anything you do with someone that is something you would do ONLY with your significant other is cheating in my book.

If you're doing it with someone else, it's not really something you would only do with your significant other.
Oct 6, 2010 2:57pm
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Oct 6, 2010 5:08 PM
4cards;509247 wrote:...I can't remember (didn't want to go back through all the posts) but someone said it's cheating if you;

1. Watch porn
2. Jerk off

How is either of these cheating on your wife/s.o.???

I was the one who asked if those were considered cheating (along with going to a strip club and/or getting a lap dance at said club). I don't agree they are, but I have known people who have said they believe that doing those things are cheating. Like another poster said, I think people who hold certain religious belief equate actually doing the deed with another person to lusting after that person in their heart. Most notably, President Jimmy Carter was quoted as saying as much in Playboy years ago.
Oct 6, 2010 5:08pm
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Oct 6, 2010 5:10 PM
In NO way shape or form is self masterbation or watching porn cheating. Any woman that would tell me it is I would drop right then. I have two hands for a reason, actually aren't you cheating on yourself by sleeping with other people, that is the question? :)
Oct 6, 2010 5:10pm
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Oct 6, 2010 5:20 PM
4cards;509326 wrote:^^^^^
"Manual Self Pleasuring"??....LOL
You should have fucked with them when they said that. You could have played stupid like, you mean jacking off, stroking your dummy, jerk'n my gerk'n...

I thought you were a fucking comic?....LOLOLOLOL
I think there are still nail marks in my thigh from where the wife grabbed my leg when they said it. I was shaking from laughing so hard, and she just kept squeezing my leg and giving me a look like, "I swear to God I will rip off your balls if you say or do anything stupid right now."
Oct 6, 2010 5:20pm
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Oct 6, 2010 11:06 PM
Manhattan Buckeye;508399 wrote:Have you ever seen the cup? Its hard enough as it is (no pun intended) to angle and deposit correctly. Amazing that we have all of these medical gadgets and no one has successfully designed a cup to collect semen properly.[/QUOTE

Oct 6, 2010 11:06pm
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Oct 6, 2010 11:10 PM
Manhattan Buckeye;508399 wrote:Have you ever seen the cup? Its hard enough as it is (no pun intended) to angle and deposit correctly. Amazing that we have all of these medical gadgets and no one has successfully designed a cup to collect semen properly.


Oct 6, 2010 11:10pm