mella;508298 wrote:I am married so, anything physical from holding hands to any form of sex is cheating. An emotional relationship is different. If I am not supporting my wife emotionally and she finds that somewhere else then that's my fault. Physical you can control, emotional is a lot more difficult to control.

Strapping Young Lad;508281 wrote:Hope this isn't too graphic for the huddle, but guys/ gals what do you consider sex? Strictly intercourse? Or other acts? How bout "tittie *#@%!^&"? Would that be sex and if one were in a relationship is that really cheating? Or what about just a simple hand %*@?

Is kissing cheating? Howz bout a strictly emotional relationsjip w/ someone other than your lover?

Let's hear it.

FatHobbit;508301 wrote:She could always get a dog.

Strapping Young Lad;508315 wrote:Put it this way. My ex and I got to talking the other night and she asked if I had ever had sex w/ anyone else while we dated. Once I titty boinked some girl, one-time drunk type thing. Another time I got oral but didn't climax. Are those considered sex and I suppose I know they are cheating but she specified sex. How should I have answered? Are those things considered under the umbrella of sex?

mella;508313 wrote:I think sex with a dog is also cheating

SnotBubbles;508324 wrote:I disagree.

I'm married. I made out with some chick at the bar one night before my kids were born and I felt guilty. I told my wife. To this day (7 years later), the time I "cheated" on her is brought up on occasion. For a long time I thought she was being harsh on me. I realize now that I wouldn't want her to do it. Do I consider that kissing, "cheating?" No, probably not. I think it's more of a "relationship deception." But it's wrong as well.

FatHobbit;508331 wrote:Your wife has to wonder if it went farther than that and you're just not telling her the whole story. That's why she keeps bringing up that you cheated. (IMHO without really knowing crap about your wife or your situation. So I guess take that for what it's worth.)

CenterBHSFan;508341 wrote:Yeah, if you're not brazen enough to do it in front of your partner, it's sneaky and bad news all around.

CenterBHSFan;508348 wrote: Sometimes I'll go with'em and sometimes I won't.

CenterBHSFan;508341 wrote:Yeah, if you're not brazen enough to do it in front of your partner, it's sneaky and bad news all around.

Fab1b;508355 wrote:This sums it up

CenterBHSFan;508348 wrote:Danny every now and then my dude will go to Jills Gentleman's Club, probably like 2 or 3 times a year with his buds. But, I have a level of trust with him to where I know he won't take it too far. Plus, one of his cronies is my eldest brother - who has his allegiance to me and his friendship with my bf just doesn't compete. Sometimes I'll go with'em and sometimes I won't.

Laley23;508345 wrote:Sex is sex. You cant consider a blow job sex. Cant consider titty fucking sex. I think sex is only intercourse.