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Oct 5, 2010 5:03 PM
Fly4Fun;508358 wrote:Agreed. If you wouldn't do it in front of them, or wouldn't tell them about it. You probably shouldn't be doing it.

And if you have to ask if you cheated; you cheated.
Oct 5, 2010 5:03pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:06 PM
Laley23;508345 wrote:Sex is sex. You cant consider a blow job sex. Cant consider titty fucking sex. I think sex is only intercourse.

However, cheating is pretty much anything sexual with someone else. But depending on your relationship I wouldnt break up with someone over certain things.
A BJ is oral sex. Sex being the operative word here.

I can't see myself saying "OH, you only let him titty fuck you. That's cool. I'm glad you had a good time tonight. Make sure you brush your teeth really good before you come to bed dear."
Oct 5, 2010 5:06pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:09 PM
it's not cheating until:
a) you get caught OR
b) she gets pregnant.
Oct 5, 2010 5:09pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:09 PM
Strapping Young Lad;508347 wrote:K, but is it SEX? She asked about SEX, not cheating. If I wanted to be honest while answering that question is it a yes or no, in my case.

Why are you worrying about honesty now...after the relationship is over? You didn't tell her about it when you were dating, so why worry about telling her now?
Oct 5, 2010 5:09pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:14 PM
j_crazy;508374 wrote:it's not cheating until:
a) you get caught OR
b) she gets pregnant.

So gay dudes/lesbians can never cheat under scenario B?
Oct 5, 2010 5:14pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:16 PM
Little Danny;508380 wrote:So gay dudes/lesbians can never cheat under scenario B?

Are you looking for reasons?
Oct 5, 2010 5:16pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:17 PM
Fly4Fun;508382 wrote:Are you looking for reasons?

Yeah I am a lesbian in a man's body.
Oct 5, 2010 5:17pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:17 PM
Thread Bomber;508361 wrote:And you get to enjoy the benifits of his return......
You're damn right! ;)
Oct 5, 2010 5:17pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:20 PM
"- going to a strip club
- going to a strip club and getting a lap dance
- watching/reading porn
- masturbation "

Good list.

"going to a strip club" - my wife would have had a fit if I went to a strip club for my bachelor party, now she couldn't care if I go to one for a buddy's party- for her, she doesn't care for guys built like The Situation or Paulie D, so why would I care.

"- going to a strip club and getting a lap dance" - I don't think my wife would care as long as I'm not initiating....read, no motorboating, you old sailor you.

"- watching/reading porn" - I can barely turn on my computer and NOT see porn

"- masturbation " - Well, given that some doctors want to see your sperm level for various reasons, how the hell else are you getting it out?
Oct 5, 2010 5:20pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:25 PM
sherm03;508375 wrote:Why are you worrying about honesty now...after the relationship is over? You didn't tell her about it when you were dating, so why worry about telling her now?

Sounds like he feels guilty.
Oct 5, 2010 5:25pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:27 PM
Manhattan Buckeye;508387 wrote:"- masturbation " - Well, given that some doctors want to see your sperm level for various reasons, how the hell else are you getting it out?
Take your wife to the doc with you. She might be able to help out.
Oct 5, 2010 5:27pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:32 PM
Little Danny;508380 wrote:So gay dudes/lesbians can never cheat under scenario B?

there's never anything wrong, in any way, with two chicks getting down.

and yes, teh gays can't cheat.
Oct 5, 2010 5:32pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:34 PM
majorspark;508394 wrote:Take your wife to the doc with you. She might be able to help out.

Have you ever seen the cup? Its hard enough as it is (no pun intended) to angle and deposit correctly. Amazing that we have all of these medical gadgets and no one has successfully designed a cup to collect semen properly.
Oct 5, 2010 5:34pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:50 PM
mella;508367 wrote:A BJ is oral sex. Sex being the operative word here.

I can't see myself saying "OH, you only let him titty fuck you. That's cool. I'm glad you had a good time tonight. Make sure you brush your teeth really good before you come to bed dear."

Did you even see the second part of my post?

Oral sex isnt sex, its oral sex. When someone asks you do you how many people youve slept with do you count a blow job? No.
Oct 5, 2010 5:50pm
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Oct 5, 2010 5:52 PM
Also IMO oral is even worse or more degrading or a bigger slap in the face when in comes to "cheating" vs straight vaginal sex. Anal is off the chain!!
Oct 5, 2010 5:52pm
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Oct 5, 2010 6:04 PM
If genitals are somehow exposed and/or touched its sex and if you're involved with someone in a serious committed relationship then you cheated.
Oct 5, 2010 6:04pm
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Oct 5, 2010 6:17 PM
CenterBHSFan;508348 wrote:Danny every now and then my dude will go to Jills Gentleman's Club, probably like 2 or 3 times a year with his buds. But, I have a level of trust with him to where I know he won't take it too far. Plus, one of his cronies is my eldest brother - who has his allegiance to me and his friendship with my bf just doesn't compete. Sometimes I'll go with'em and sometimes I won't.

The one in WV?
Oct 5, 2010 6:17pm
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Oct 5, 2010 7:22 PM
Oct 5, 2010 7:22pm
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Oct 5, 2010 7:35 PM
Strapping Young Lad;508281 wrote:Hope this isn't too graphic for the huddle, but guys/ gals what do you consider sex? Strictly intercourse? Or other acts? How bout "tittie *#@%!^&"? Would that be sex and if one were in a relationship is that really cheating? Or what about just a simple hand %*@?

Is kissing cheating? Howz bout a strictly emotional relationsjip w/ someone other than your lover?

Let's hear it.
I think you have an issue. Just open up and let it out. You will feel better man. Laffin.............
Oct 5, 2010 7:35pm
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Oct 5, 2010 8:27 PM
majorspark;508394 wrote:Take your wife to the doc with you. She might be able to help out.

The really strange part is that the doctor in question is MB's dentist. :)
Oct 5, 2010 8:27pm
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Oct 5, 2010 9:28 PM
sherm03;508375 wrote:Why are you worrying about honesty now...after the relationship is over? You didn't tell her about it when you were dating, so why worry about telling her now?
I'm not worried about honesty now (or ever). I told her I never touched another girl while I was with her. Just curious what others think about this.
Oct 5, 2010 9:28pm
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Oct 5, 2010 9:33 PM
Strapping Young Lad;508667 wrote:I'm not worried about honesty now (or ever). I told her I never touched another girl while I was with her. Just curious what others think about this.

Gotcha.

I guess to answer your question then...I would consider both the blowie and titty banging sexual contact. I wouldn't say sex, but it's definitely sexual contact and cheating. But there's a lot of things that fall under the sexual contact umbrella in my book and I would consider all of them cheating.
Oct 5, 2010 9:33pm
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Oct 5, 2010 9:35 PM
Strapping Young Lad;508667 wrote:I'm not worried about honesty now (or ever). I told her I never touched another girl while I was with her. Just curious what others think about this.

So you never told her about the guys you've touched either?
Oct 5, 2010 9:35pm
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Oct 5, 2010 9:38 PM
No one's talking about sex with pre-pubescent children here so I don't think there's anything you can add to this conversation Capone. When was the last time a WOMAN willingly touched your disgusting self anyhow??? Seriously. I think we'd all get a kcick out of it...
Oct 5, 2010 9:38pm
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Oct 5, 2010 9:41 PM
Strapping Young Lad;508684 wrote:No one's talking about sex with pre-pubescent children here so I don't think there's anything you can add to this conversation Capone. When was the last time a WOMAN willingly touched your disgusting self anyhow??? Seriously. I think we'd all get a kcick out of it...

Ask your ex girlfriend. You know, the one you were cheating on. LOL HAHAHAAAAA.
Oct 5, 2010 9:41pm