rookie_j70 wrote: She wanted to take things slow because of some stuff that happened in her previous relationship. She didn't really give me any details about how or why they broke up. She just didn't want to talk about so I respected that and left it at that.

rookie_j70 wrote:I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

Heretic wrote:

rookie_j70 wrote:I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

Mistake.

You'd be surprised at how invigorating a good, "That's good, as I'd love to stay friends with a stupid cunt who, while dating me, was apparently blowing the ex she didn't want to talk about until he took her back. Can I wait until he gets tired of your pussy again and dumps you, so it's not TOO awkward?" comment can feel at a time like this.

Heretic wrote:

rookie_j70 wrote:I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

Mistake.

You'd be surprised at how invigorating a good, "That's good, as I'd love to stay friends with a stupid cunt who, while dating me, was apparently blowing the ex she didn't want to talk about until he took her back. Can I wait until he gets tired of your pussy again and dumps you, so it's not TOO awkward?" comment can feel at a time like this.

Heretic wrote:

rookie_j70 wrote:I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

Mistake.

You'd be surprised at how invigorating a good, "That's good, as I'd love to stay friends with a stupid cunt who, while dating me, was apparently blowing the ex she didn't want to talk about until he took her back. Can I wait until he gets tired of your pussy again and dumps you, so it's not TOO awkward?" comment can feel at a time like this.

rookie_j70 wrote: Also, I'm not going to lie, her two friends (that I've met) are a little bit better looking than she is.

Fly4Fun wrote: I feel for ya man... not much you can do.

I am currently "casually" dating some girl that I like a lot. She just doesn't want to be in a committed relationship because she was in a long one previously that didn't work out for her... oh well. I still date around just to keep my own mind and keep me from getting too involved with girl #1 in case she pulls a move like yours did with you.

It'd be one thing if they just broke up, but they've been apart for more than 6 months... so whatever. I think the "I just got out of a long relationship" thing is a lame excuse... if you really didn't want to date anyone, then why did you flirt and go out with me in the first place?

Oh well, shit happens.

(Sorry, I kinda just vented on your thread as it reminded me of my situation).

rookie_j70 wrote: I've been talking to this girl for about three months now, and we've gone out on a few dates. She wanted to take things slow because of some stuff that happened in her previous relationship. She didn't really give me any details about how or why they broke up. She just didn't want to talk about so I respected that and left it at that. Anyways, last night I'm on my way to celebrate a friend's 21st and she texts me saying she needs to talk and wants me to call her. So I call her and she says; "hey im really sorry but, (him) and I are getting back together" I didn't really say anything, I just said "whatever I'll see ya around" she texts me saying "ohh im sorry if i hurt you, i still want to be friends" I didnt respond back because I prolly would have said some pretty mean things.

And fab1b; following your realtionship advice I would do her best friend and her other friend while I'm at it.