TBone14
Posts: 6,383
Jul 16, 2013 6:29pm
Tiger2003;1473394 wrote:If you have a good marriage counselor you will be in good hand. If you guys don't feel comfortable with the counselor find someone new.
Why should he pay for it when he has hundreds of qualified marriage counselors right here on the OC? Have the misses join and start a thread watch your relationship improve.
Crimson streak
Posts: 9,002
Jul 16, 2013 6:36pm
TBone14;1473397 wrote:Why should he pay for it when he has hundreds of qualified marriage counselors right here on the OC? Have the misses join and start a thread watch your relationship improve.
Haha that could work. Too many pervs would ask for tits or gtfo
Ironman92
Posts: 49,363
Jul 16, 2013 6:43pm
Crimson streak;1473400 wrote:Haha that could work. Too many pervs would ask for tits or gtfo
I don't know....with all the fuckers on here you might wind up looking pretty damn good in the grand scheme of things.
....oh and, we're not all pervs but we do like boobs
TBone14
Posts: 6,383
Jul 16, 2013 7:00pm
Ironman92;1473402 wrote:I don't know....with all the fuckers on here you might wind up looking pretty damn good in the grand scheme of things.
....oh and, we're not all pervs but we do like boobs
Exactly. You can drop the, 'hey baby...look what I could be' line. I may not be the best...but I am better than a lot of those creeps.
Crimson streak
Posts: 9,002
Jul 16, 2013 7:11pm
TBone14;1473409 wrote:Exactly. You can drop the, 'hey baby...look what I could be' line. I may not be the best...but I am better than a lot of those creeps.
Haha that might just work
Laley23
Posts: 29,506
Jul 16, 2013 10:12pm
If you dont mind sharing...whats the reason for the "potential" split???
I think that would go a long way in the advice I, and others, would give.
If you dont want to share, its going to be pretty generic stuff, like what has been said thus far. If we have a reason, we might be able to offer better advice on how to heal the issue if you truly to want to make it work, etc.
I think that would go a long way in the advice I, and others, would give.
If you dont want to share, its going to be pretty generic stuff, like what has been said thus far. If we have a reason, we might be able to offer better advice on how to heal the issue if you truly to want to make it work, etc.
sherm03
Posts: 7,349
Jul 16, 2013 10:56pm
Keep your head up, Crimson. And best of luck with the counseling. I would recommend seeking out a few different counselors before deciding on one.
And as shitty as Belly's advice was earlier in this thread, can we all at least commend him on not saying something about Liberals or Obama in his posts?
And as shitty as Belly's advice was earlier in this thread, can we all at least commend him on not saying something about Liberals or Obama in his posts?
Belly35
Posts: 9,716
Jul 16, 2013 11:05pm
Bad advice .. 40 years of marriage to the same republicansherm03;1473620 wrote:Keep your head up, Crimson. And best of luck with the counseling. I would recommend seeking out a few different counselors before deciding on one.
And as shitty as Belly's advice was earlier in this thread, can we all at least commend him on not saying something about Liberals or Obama in his posts?
Commander of Awesome
Posts: 23,151
Jul 16, 2013 11:06pm
Your wife is as _ as you are? Congrats? Good thing all people/women are created equally belly /sarcasm.Belly35;1473638 wrote:Bad advice .. 40 years of marriage to the same republican
robj55
Posts: 9,511
Jul 16, 2013 11:08pm
Hope things get better man, life has its ups and downs, hang in there.
Commander of Awesome
Posts: 23,151
Jul 16, 2013 11:09pm
Prob the worst I've ever seen.sherm03;1473620 wrote:Keep your head up, Crimson. And best of luck with the counseling. I would recommend seeking out a few different counselors before deciding on one.
And as shitty as Belly's advice was earlier in this thread, can we all at least commend him on not saying something about Liberals or Obama in his posts?
Crimson streak
Posts: 9,002
Jul 16, 2013 11:41pm
Well she's already hanging out with some other guy. So I told her that were done completely. Might still go to counseling for our daughters sake so things don't get bad that it affects her. Honestly I actually feel better about this. Her loss. Now I get to concentrate on my child more
Tiger2003
Posts: 15,421
Jul 16, 2013 11:44pm
Crimson streak;1473689 wrote:Well she's already hanging out with some other guy. So I told her that were done completely. Might still go to counseling for our daughters sake so things don't get bad that it affects her. Honestly I actually feel better about this. Her loss. Now I get to concentrate on my child more
Has the guy always been in the picture as friends? Just because she is hanging out with a guy doesn't mean anything.
Ironman92
Posts: 49,363
Jul 16, 2013 11:58pm
Tiger2003;1473692 wrote:Has the guy always been in the picture as friends? Just because she is hanging out with a guy doesn't mean anything.
Yeah....it probably does.
Move on...be a great Dad.
Crimson streak
Posts: 9,002
Jul 17, 2013 12:04am
Tiger2003;1473692 wrote:Has the guy always been in the picture as friends? Just because she is hanging out with a guy doesn't mean anything.
Met him at a bar 2 months ago. Hung out with him 2 days after we broke up. I asked her about it and she said they only kissed it was nothing I was willing to move past it and I told her please don't go hang out with this guy until we go to counseling and I found out she hung out with him again tonight not even an hour after we have that conversation. So fuck her I'm moving on
Crimson streak
Posts: 9,002
Jul 17, 2013 12:04am
I forgot to mention. She had been talking to the guy behind my back for the last 2 months.
mcburg93
Posts: 3,167
Jul 17, 2013 12:48am
This will bug you but move on. It seems she thinks the grass is greener on the other side. My advise is to take care of you and your daughter. Be civil and keep peace the best you can. I wouldn't even mess with counseling now. Keep your head up and maybe bang her mom, grandma, sister, aunt, or even her dad if that is something you are into lol.Crimson streak;1473697 wrote:I forgot to mention. She had been talking to the guy behind my back for the last 2 months.
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sportchampps
Posts: 7,361
Jul 17, 2013 1:39am
Good choice to move on I commend you on making that difficult decieson. Just make the promise to yourself that when something goes wrong for her and the other guy and she comes running back to make sure you know you have other options as well. Just concentrate on your child and creating some new friendships and relationships. As cliche as it is when a door closes a new one opens. Use your new freedom to do the things you wanted to do but were to busy to do. Reconnect with friends who maybe you haven't hung out with as much because of this relationship (they will be glad to have you back).
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Jul 17, 2013 8:14am
you marry girl now. belly married wife long time. belly no have problem ever. belly love wife, hate obama. wife hate obama two. if you no marry girl tonight then you love obama and you stupid. belly says go do it.
ohiobucks1
Posts: 4,915
Jul 17, 2013 8:20am
You sound like one of Manhattan Buckeye's girlfriendsZWICK 4 PREZ;1473732 wrote:you marry girl now. belly married wife long time. belly no have problem ever. belly love wife, hate obama. wife hate obama two. if you no marry girl tonight then you love obama and you stupid. belly says go do it.
ZWICK 4 PREZ
Posts: 7,733
Jul 17, 2013 8:22am
I envision Belly having a slanted eye under his patchohiobucks1;1473737 wrote:You sound like one of Manhattan Buckeye's girlfriends
Raw Dawgin' it
Posts: 11,466
Jul 17, 2013 8:24am
I keep a baseball bat in my car and I'd probably find him and show him said bat. I wouldn't hit him, but i'd put the thought in his head.Crimson streak;1473695 wrote:Met him at a bar 2 months ago. Hung out with him 2 days after we broke up. I asked her about it and she said they only kissed it was nothing I was willing to move past it and I told her please don't go hang out with this guy until we go to counseling and I found out she hung out with him again tonight not even an hour after we have that conversation. So fuck her I'm moving on
ohiobucks1
Posts: 4,915
Jul 17, 2013 8:29am
On a serious note, if Crim does this and the guy considerers it a threat, it could really hurt Crimson down the line in terms of keeping custody of his kids.Raw Dawgin' it;1473739 wrote:I keep a baseball bat in my car and I'd probably find him and show him said bat. I wouldn't hit him, but i'd put the thought in his head.
Also on that same related subject, DO NOT talk any type of dirt about the mom to your daughter. That can be used against you very easily as well. I know you say you have an amicable situation with the EX right now, but it may get worse and you want to be prepared. THE FIRST sign you get that she wants to take any sort of custody from you, you need to Lawyer up and do it quick. I'm serious. Any indication at all and youll need help. The sooner you do it, the better chance you have of keeping your girl.
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Jul 17, 2013 10:44am
That you know of. What she actually owns up to and admits is usually just a fraction to what she has done. Hold on tight as you are going to be on a rocky rocky ride. Don't fall into the trap of being the fall back guy either when her relationship flops.Crimson streak;1473697 wrote:I forgot to mention. She had been talking to the guy behind my back for the last 2 months.
said_aouita
Posts: 8,532
Jul 17, 2013 10:56am
and I noticed like_that hasn't posted either.TBone14;1473279 wrote:Couple of things:
1. I am always surprised at the amount of good posts threads like this get on here. Most people are actually helpful and supportive of a total stranger when this board is usually full of sarcasm and hate.