Tiger2003;1473394 wrote:If you have a good marriage counselor you will be in good hand. If you guys don't feel comfortable with the counselor find someone new.
TBone14;1473397 wrote:Why should he pay for it when he has hundreds of qualified marriage counselors right here on the OC? Have the misses join and start a thread watch your relationship improve.
Crimson streak;1473400 wrote:Haha that could work. Too many pervs would ask for tits or gtfo
Ironman92;1473402 wrote:I don't know....with all the fuckers on here you might wind up looking pretty damn good in the grand scheme of things.
....oh and, we're not all pervs but we do like boobs
TBone14;1473409 wrote:Exactly. You can drop the, 'hey baby...look what I could be' line. I may not be the best...but I am better than a lot of those creeps.
Bad advice .. 40 years of marriage to the same republicansherm03;1473620 wrote:Keep your head up, Crimson. And best of luck with the counseling. I would recommend seeking out a few different counselors before deciding on one.
And as shitty as Belly's advice was earlier in this thread, can we all at least commend him on not saying something about Liberals or Obama in his posts?
Your wife is as _ as you are? Congrats? Good thing all people/women are created equally belly /sarcasm.Belly35;1473638 wrote:Bad advice .. 40 years of marriage to the same republican
Prob the worst I've ever seen.sherm03;1473620 wrote:Keep your head up, Crimson. And best of luck with the counseling. I would recommend seeking out a few different counselors before deciding on one.
And as shitty as Belly's advice was earlier in this thread, can we all at least commend him on not saying something about Liberals or Obama in his posts?
Crimson streak;1473689 wrote:Well she's already hanging out with some other guy. So I told her that were done completely. Might still go to counseling for our daughters sake so things don't get bad that it affects her. Honestly I actually feel better about this. Her loss. Now I get to concentrate on my child more
Tiger2003;1473692 wrote:Has the guy always been in the picture as friends? Just because she is hanging out with a guy doesn't mean anything.
Tiger2003;1473692 wrote:Has the guy always been in the picture as friends? Just because she is hanging out with a guy doesn't mean anything.
This will bug you but move on. It seems she thinks the grass is greener on the other side. My advise is to take care of you and your daughter. Be civil and keep peace the best you can. I wouldn't even mess with counseling now. Keep your head up and maybe bang her mom, grandma, sister, aunt, or even her dad if that is something you are into lol.Crimson streak;1473697 wrote:I forgot to mention. She had been talking to the guy behind my back for the last 2 months.
You sound like one of Manhattan Buckeye's girlfriendsZWICK 4 PREZ;1473732 wrote:you marry girl now. belly married wife long time. belly no have problem ever. belly love wife, hate obama. wife hate obama two. if you no marry girl tonight then you love obama and you stupid. belly says go do it.
I envision Belly having a slanted eye under his patchohiobucks1;1473737 wrote:You sound like one of Manhattan Buckeye's girlfriends
I keep a baseball bat in my car and I'd probably find him and show him said bat. I wouldn't hit him, but i'd put the thought in his head.Crimson streak;1473695 wrote:Met him at a bar 2 months ago. Hung out with him 2 days after we broke up. I asked her about it and she said they only kissed it was nothing I was willing to move past it and I told her please don't go hang out with this guy until we go to counseling and I found out she hung out with him again tonight not even an hour after we have that conversation. So fuck her I'm moving on
On a serious note, if Crim does this and the guy considerers it a threat, it could really hurt Crimson down the line in terms of keeping custody of his kids.Raw Dawgin' it;1473739 wrote:I keep a baseball bat in my car and I'd probably find him and show him said bat. I wouldn't hit him, but i'd put the thought in his head.
That you know of. What she actually owns up to and admits is usually just a fraction to what she has done. Hold on tight as you are going to be on a rocky rocky ride. Don't fall into the trap of being the fall back guy either when her relationship flops.Crimson streak;1473697 wrote:I forgot to mention. She had been talking to the guy behind my back for the last 2 months.
and I noticed like_that hasn't posted either.TBone14;1473279 wrote:Couple of things:
1. I am always surprised at the amount of good posts threads like this get on here. Most people are actually helpful and supportive of a total stranger when this board is usually full of sarcasm and hate.