Raw Dawgin' it;1021659 wrote:can you say waste of money?

sleeper;1021668 wrote:I've already calculated it out. The expected value of a Ron Paul victory is positive as I expect him to lower my taxes and to grow the economy. These two actions will grow my wealth far greater than the present value of $2300, and you can take that to the bank.

Raw Dawgin' it;1021686 wrote:you should've given that money to thavoice to pay his divorce lawyer.

sleeper;1021698 wrote:Why, is he black?

Raw Dawgin' it;1021710 wrote:He's a useless bitch so maybe

thavoice;1021717 wrote:So you saying that useless bitches are black?

ernest_t_bass;1021646 wrote:Thavoice... Why are you still married to her? Honest question, not trolling.

ernest_t_bass;1021720 wrote:You're quick, Darby.

thavoice;1021726 wrote:Honestly?

I dont know.

I guess $$ for a lawyer, but biggest issue I think is the stigma of failing. No one in my family, or my cousins, have been divorced. It is pretty rare but in my immediate family there are 17 marriages I believe and zero divorces. Pretty rare but I think the whole failure thing.

It really is a struggle......a chess match as both want the other to do it.

thavoice;1021726 wrote:Honestly?

I dont know.

I guess $$ for a lawyer, but biggest issue I think is the stigma of failing. No one in my family, or my cousins, have been divorced. It is pretty rare but in my immediate family there are 17 marriages I believe and zero divorces. Pretty rare but I think the whole failure thing.

It really is a struggle......a chess match as both want the other to do it.

ernest_t_bass;1021730 wrote:Um, have you even bothered mentioning it to her?

ernest_t_bass;1021767 wrote:Voice, you have a very sad situation. It's sad you're too big of a **** to get out of it.

ernest_t_bass;1021767 wrote:Voice, you have a very sad situation. It's sad you're too big of a pussy to get out of it.

Raw Dawgin' it;1021776 wrote:Oh man a therapist would love you guys...you could probably go to enough sessions to pay for additions to his home and multiple family vacations.

Edit: Also, what did you see in her when you got married and was she like this before?

thavoice;1021762 wrote:She brings it up ever few weeks. She tells me she hired a lawyer, and has filed for the divorce, and that she will be out soon (usually its within 2 weeks). I basically say OK, and even offer to move out until the school year is out so her daughter can finish out the school year. The annullment papers with pretty much everything we agreed upon is just sitting around.


and then usually within a couple of hours her attitude changes 180 degrees and she starts to talk about stuff she wants us to do in the future in regards to vacations, house upgrades/remodeling, etc etc etc. After she tells me when she is moving out, and that she has talked to a landlord about a new place and can move in on a certain date she pretty much doesnt say anything about it and acts like nothing has happened.


Basically it comes down to this.....she wants out, doesnt want to look like she was the one, and the threats of divorce are just idle threats to try and get her desired response from me. I have pretty much become callous of the threats. They used to really bother me, especially the week of her reminding me each morning that the sheriff may deliver my papers that day. (when a deputry came into where I work my heart stopped, but he wanted something else. I contacted the sheriffs dept and they had no such paperwork, and they contacted courthouse and ntohing was filed so I pretty much know she is just full of it). She just wants me to beg her not to, that is pretty much how it is going and I guess it is just something I gotta live with I suppose.

thavoice;1021726 wrote:Honestly?

I dont know.

I guess $$ for a lawyer, but biggest issue I think is the stigma of failing. No one in my family, or my cousins, have been divorced. It is pretty rare but in my immediate family there are 17 marriages I believe and zero divorces. Pretty rare but I think the whole failure thing.

It really is a struggle......a chess match as both want the other to do it.

Skyhook79;1021816 wrote:Either she is Bi-Polar or you are.

SnotBubbles;1021829 wrote:thavoice.....when is the last time you got laid? I'm guessing it's been a long, long time...

thavoice;1021832 wrote:Actually.....quite a bit the last few weeks. I am thinking that A. she was having an affair and that ended, or B. She is having an affair and found out she is knocked up and has to make it look like it could be mine or C. she is trying to trap me and getting pregnant.

thavoice;1021832 wrote:Actually.....quite a bit the last few weeks. I am thinking that A. she was having an affair and that ended, or B. She is having an affair and found out she is knocked up and has to make it look like it could be mine or C. she is trying to trap me and getting pregnant.

Skyhook79;1021816 wrote:Either she is Bi-Polar or you are.