I Wear Pants wrote:
Her claim changed several times. Seems like a case of a girl getting drunk and doing something she regrets then blaming it on the dude.
I mean, he shouldn't have been buying them shots and such and shouldn't have been such a creepy douche but I'm skeptical that there was any real wrongdoing.
It sucks that all it takes is a girl not remembering having sex because she was drunk to get a dude for rape.
Yeah, honestly, that's how I feel. Her story hasn't been overly consistent and just a little while ago, we had a prominent thread on the SB forum about a woman getting sentenced because it was found out that she accused (and got sentenced) a man of rape...which was a lie she made because she was either late to or skipped out of something she committed to.
The more I read and hear, the more I'm convinced that Ben is a creepy douche asshole as a human being, but I've not read nor heard anything that makes me think he's committed any wrong other than being a creepy douche asshole. With all the mutual intoxication going on with all parties, it's just too easy for me to visualize some chick who got fucked up, had wild bathroom sex that may have been rougher than she expected (re: Kobe...shit, Ben might have the Ron Jeremy advantage and destroyed the bitch) and was encouraged by her sorority pals to get rich off the whole thing.