ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: of course u do.. u know everything. we've witnessed it for years.

LJ wrote: at least I don't lie about having fake job offers all the time. psssh

LJ wrote:

ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote:
The homeowner has ultimate authority of the decision, sure.. but the kid isn't in there illegally since he was invited in. All the homeowner can do is revoke his permission to be there, which if the kid leaves, he committed no crime. You can't pull a gun out b/c you caught a guy with your daughter. Cops will come, interview your daughter, she'll tell you she had him come over, u came in, got pissed, and pulled ur gun out and threatened him... and yes, they're dragging ur happy ass off to jail. The bullshit excuse of thinking your daughters life was in danger wont fly after her interview.

You don't know what you are talking about AND you aren't even talking about the same thing. Plus, if you said to your daughter "No one can be here after 10pm" then she invites someone in, she does not have that right as a minor. The person is trespassing already. Maybe in shit ass NE Ohio where the cops suck and don't know the laws in the state of Ohio you would wait to see the judge in the morning, but not in the rest of the state.

LJ wrote:

kritzell wrote:

LJ wrote:

kritzell wrote: Apple, before you consider all the advice of "gun in da face" and "beat the shit outta him" that will just likely end up with you in jail. Not a pleasant place to raise your kid.

LOL, chasing an unwanted teen out of your house with a gun won't land you in jail

Well, I hope you're right. It's hard to tell with some law-enforcement these days.

Who cares what law enforcement thinks? They aren't the judge or jury. Most of the time they don't even know what the law is.

I Wear Pants wrote:

LJ wrote:

ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote:
The homeowner has ultimate authority of the decision, sure.. but the kid isn't in there illegally since he was invited in. All the homeowner can do is revoke his permission to be there, which if the kid leaves, he committed no crime. You can't pull a gun out b/c you caught a guy with your daughter. Cops will come, interview your daughter, she'll tell you she had him come over, u came in, got pissed, and pulled ur gun out and threatened him... and yes, they're dragging ur happy ass off to jail. The bullshit excuse of thinking your daughters life was in danger wont fly after her interview.

You don't know what you are talking about AND you aren't even talking about the same thing. Plus, if you said to your daughter "No one can be here after 10pm" then she invites someone in, she does not have that right as a minor. The person is trespassing already. Maybe in shit ass NE Ohio where the cops suck and don't know the laws in the state of Ohio you would wait to see the judge in the morning, but not in the rest of the state.

The dudes not trespassing if he was invited by someone who lives there.

The owner has the right to kick him out but he didn't do anything legally wrong by being there.

And you're a complete idiot if you pull a gun on someone without intending to shoot them.

I Wear Pants wrote:

LJ wrote:

kritzell wrote:

LJ wrote:

kritzell wrote: Apple, before you consider all the advice of "gun in da face" and "beat the shit outta him" that will just likely end up with you in jail. Not a pleasant place to raise your kid.

LOL, chasing an unwanted teen out of your house with a gun won't land you in jail

Well, I hope you're right. It's hard to tell with some law-enforcement these days.

Who cares what law enforcement thinks? They aren't the judge or jury. Most of the time they don't even know what the law is.

I care what they think because lawyers are expensive and I'd rather spend my time and money on something other than court defense.

And there's the whole stigma of getting charged with something and having your name in the paper. People assume that everyone they read in the police reports is guilty.

I Wear Pants wrote:

LJ wrote:

ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote:
The homeowner has ultimate authority of the decision, sure.. but the kid isn't in there illegally since he was invited in. All the homeowner can do is revoke his permission to be there, which if the kid leaves, he committed no crime. You can't pull a gun out b/c you caught a guy with your daughter. Cops will come, interview your daughter, she'll tell you she had him come over, u came in, got pissed, and pulled ur gun out and threatened him... and yes, they're dragging ur happy ass off to jail. The bullshit excuse of thinking your daughters life was in danger wont fly after her interview.

You don't know what you are talking about AND you aren't even talking about the same thing. Plus, if you said to your daughter "No one can be here after 10pm" then she invites someone in, she does not have that right as a minor. The person is trespassing already. Maybe in shit ass NE Ohio where the cops suck and don't know the laws in the state of Ohio you would wait to see the judge in the morning, but not in the rest of the state.

The dudes not trespassing if he was invited by someone who lives there.

The owner has the right to kick him out but he didn't do anything legally wrong by being there.

And you're a complete idiot if you pull a gun on someone without intending to shoot them.

ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote:

LJ wrote: at least I don't lie about having fake job offers all the time. psssh

lol you're so retarded.

I Wear Pants wrote: If you're genuinely surprised or don't know who it is I see your point.

But the thing is, the OP knew who this was. I'm basing my opinion on not lying about the situation.

"I thought my daughter was in trouble" would be a complete lie in this case because as far as we know Apple thinks the kid is a douche but wouldn't do anything to his daughter.

LJ wrote:

ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote:

LJ wrote: at least I don't lie about having fake job offers all the time. psssh

lol you're so retarded.

Coming from the guy with fake gf's and fake job offers all the time. Yep.

LJ wrote:

I Wear Pants wrote: If you're genuinely surprised or don't know who it is I see your point.

But the thing is, the OP knew who this was. I'm basing my opinion on not lying about the situation.

"I thought my daughter was in trouble" would be a complete lie in this case because as far as we know Apple thinks the kid is a douche but wouldn't do anything to his daughter.

Well his daughter wasn't even supposed to be there. If someone wasn't supposed to be there and I came home and found them in my daughter's room, I would think that they were there to harm, especially if I didn't recognize them. They would have a gun on them and I would be calling the cops.

DeyDurkie5 wrote: LJ is the worst

Stiffman wrote: I'd have a fit! I have 3 daughters. Only one has brought a boyfriend to my house before the age of 18 and the same one has brought a boyfriend since. My youngest turned 18 last month. She was staying with me since January, but I sent her back to her mom. Her mom let her get tattoos and I don't approve of that yet. I told her she can do all she wants to do when she's taking care of herself. Right now, she's driving the car I bought and going to school on my money. As long as I'm paying, I'm making the decisions. I run my house and since she opted to do things against my rules, so she's gone. I've told her many times that my role in life is not to be her friend, but to be her parent. If being a parent forces me to lose her, then so be it. But I don't fear that. I've talked to her since then, so she's ok. I do know her mom is probably giving her carte blanche and I wouldn't be surprised if she gets another tattoo to spite me, but that's something she'll have to live with.

Parent your kids....don't be friends with them.

Apple wrote: As much as I hate to admit it, dlazz is very close to being correct in saying that I need to trust her judgement...