Who Wears the Pants in Your House?

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ernest_t_bass

12th Son of the Lama

24,984 posts
Mar 30, 2010 8:11 AM
Be honest too. Who wears the pants. Papa? Mama? Kids? Just because you say you want control doesn't mean you have it. Do you wear the pants?

Personally, I'd say that I do, but the Mrs. and I butt heads a lot. She's the one who is home all day with the kids, so it's tough for her to "let go of the reins" when I come home.
Mar 30, 2010 8:11am
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Gblock

Mar 30, 2010 8:45 AM
although i have been gaining more ground lately...i definitly do not wear the pants. realistically though i think its better that way because if left to my own devices all hell usually breaks loose in my life.

the high maintenence gets old sometimes and her inability to let things go or her ability to make big deals about small things does cause me to have meltdowns about once a month or so.

then a few days go by and we get back to breezy again.
Mar 30, 2010 8:45am
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ernest_t_bass

12th Son of the Lama

24,984 posts
Mar 30, 2010 8:53 AM
I see this is building up to be a nice failure :)
Mar 30, 2010 8:53am
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j_crazy

7 gram rocks. how i roll.

8,372 posts
Mar 30, 2010 9:08 AM
if my baby wanted my wife dead, i'd take care of it.
Mar 30, 2010 9:08am
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Def Leopard

Senior Member

176 posts
Mar 30, 2010 9:13 AM
We have a saying we live by in our home, "if Momma ain't happy, nobody's happy". I'm still the king of the castle...


when my wife isn't home.
Mar 30, 2010 9:13am
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Swamp Fox

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2,218 posts
Mar 30, 2010 9:29 AM
The pets do, and it isn't even close.
Mar 30, 2010 9:29am
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Goldenboy26

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164 posts
Mar 30, 2010 9:30 AM
definitely my wife
Mar 30, 2010 9:30am
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Con_Alma

Senior Member

12,198 posts
Mar 30, 2010 9:35 AM
I put them on, I wear them. When someone else puts them on they can wear them...until then no one is going to make me unhappy because they aren't happy.
Mar 30, 2010 9:35am
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CenterBHSFan

333 - I'm only half evil

6,115 posts
Mar 30, 2010 9:37 AM
I do. But, I have no probs picking and choosing my battles.
Mar 30, 2010 9:37am
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vball10set

paying it forward

24,795 posts
Mar 30, 2010 9:44 AM
even if I won't admit it to her,I sure better let her think she does ;)
Mar 30, 2010 9:44am
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Heretic

Son of the Sun

18,820 posts
Mar 30, 2010 9:45 AM
I'm single and don't like pants.

So no one wears the pants in my house!
Mar 30, 2010 9:45am
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ernest_t_bass

12th Son of the Lama

24,984 posts
Mar 30, 2010 9:58 AM
Heretic wrote: I'm single and don't like pants.

So no one wears the pants in my house!
Hey you! I had an option just for you. You ruin everything, ruiner. My sister likes you.
Mar 30, 2010 9:58am
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Heretic

Son of the Sun

18,820 posts
Mar 30, 2010 10:07 AM
Did someone say SISTER!???!??!?

Mar 30, 2010 10:07am
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I Wear Pants

Senior Member

16,223 posts
Mar 30, 2010 11:39 AM
Um.

*looks at user name*
Mar 30, 2010 11:39am
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Gblock

Mar 30, 2010 11:46 AM
btw april 7 is national no pants day
Mar 30, 2010 11:46am
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sonofsam

Wee' Gonna Win..

2,052 posts
Mar 30, 2010 11:52 AM
She thinks she does, but she knows...
Mar 30, 2010 11:52am
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justincredible

Nick Mangold

32,056 posts
Mar 30, 2010 12:00 PM
We're both too laid back for one of us to feel the need to "wear the pants" in the relationship.
Mar 30, 2010 12:00pm
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j_crazy

7 gram rocks. how i roll.

8,372 posts
Mar 30, 2010 12:01 PM
^^said the man with a kids size 8 foot in his ass.
Mar 30, 2010 12:01pm
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Heretic

Son of the Sun

18,820 posts
Mar 30, 2010 12:03 PM
j_crazy wrote: ^^said the man with a kids size 8 foot in his ass.
No...that's by request. After it gets comfortable enough, he'll be moving up to a size 9. Everyone needs a hobby, you know...
Mar 30, 2010 12:03pm
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j_crazy

7 gram rocks. how i roll.

8,372 posts
Mar 30, 2010 12:07 PM
it was a joke regarding his wife's small stature and him being incredibly whipped by her.
Mar 30, 2010 12:07pm
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Heretic

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18,820 posts
Mar 30, 2010 12:08 PM
And mine was a joke about him liking to insert various objects up his butt. At least we're both on the same page that making jokes concerning Justin is a fun way to pass the time.
Mar 30, 2010 12:08pm
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GoChiefs

Resident Maniac

16,754 posts
Mar 30, 2010 3:44 PM
Neither one. We both do our own thing. Unlike some posters *cough, cough* Coyotes *cough, cough* :D...I don't need to ask my wife 'permission' to do anything. As she doesn't need to ask me 'permission' to do anything. She stays in the kitchen..and I stay outside or on the recliner. We are both content and happy with that. :)
Mar 30, 2010 3:44pm
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fan_from_texas

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2,693 posts
Apr 2, 2010 12:20 PM
Neither, really. We're both assertive/stubborn people, but we're horribly indecisive when it comes to day-to-day decisions. I think it's more "paralysis by analysis" than anything else--we spend a lot of time making decisions on things because we want to make sure we get it right.
Apr 2, 2010 12:20pm
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justincredible

Nick Mangold

32,056 posts
Apr 2, 2010 12:25 PM
My wife just read this thread and told me I have to ban j_crazy and Heretic. Sorry guys.
Apr 2, 2010 12:25pm
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Heretic

Son of the Sun

18,820 posts
Apr 2, 2010 12:50 PM
Oh...shit...

:(
Apr 2, 2010 12:50pm