dancinbear wrote:
thanks pn and ober....i'm upgrade my bbm so i can accept an invite. i just got this thing like 2 weeks ago

I feel so lost lol
lol. well this is a good place to start.
once you upgrade you'll have an option to "scan group barcode" if you go to page 2 of this thread you'll see I posted a barcode, scan it, and you'll be in. It's a neat feature you'll really like.
Also, for anyone who wants to fix notification problems:
Go to edit sound profiles, which ever profile you use open it and there is an option for instant messages, open it, you'll see BBM Group Alerts. You can adjust there. If you use more than one profile, then you'll have to adjust for all of them.
Another thing to notice: In the group click the BB button and click group details, there you have options to "Save Pictures" the suggestions are media card, device memory, or none. I suggest none. No reason to save all those pics.
Also you have option for integration, I do chat only. Calendar and pictures and lists etc really have no reason in the messages folder for this group
Hope this helps!