QuakerOats;1739122 wrote:You cannot change the definition of a term to merely meet some political end. Marriage is when a man and a woman unite; that's what it is. If a man and a man wish to unite and spend their lives together, that may be called a civil union or something related thereto, but it is not marriage. I am not sure why one group wants to hijack the simple meaning of a term and alter its definition to fit their political agenda. Words have meanings; we could not converse and debate otherwise.
A marriage is just a contract wherein the promises exchanges have to do with love and devotion. In the old days they regularly called it "our contract" for example and would "release you from the contract" rather than say "get divorced".
Because men and women were the predominate people who entered these contracts and had them enforced by the state because gays were treated horribly by much of the ppst Constantine world is irrelevant.
Not to mention that the only reason licenses came into fashion was because women were property and they socialized marriage to make it easy for men to produce a record of title in their wives.
Let it go. This is the GOP's chance to back away from the socialism of marriage and get off the crazy train issues that alienate normal people.
It is over. People are gay and the government will now enforce their right to contract about love. That is called marriage. Big deal. Move on.