Fab4Runner;1652328 wrote:Yes, she is a dumbass. But yes, there are usually very complex reasons when a victim stays with her abuser.
In this case, I think the worst part is the way the franchise was essentially Ray's accomplice in the beating. From having their meetings on the matter essentially be her, Ray and high-ranking team officials (aka: her vs. the guys); with how they trumpeted her "I regret my role in the matter" tweet, essentially having her publicly take blame for getting knocked out; with how the team's PR guy wrote a blog post on the website where he verbally blew Rice as a great guy and so on.
Then add in TV network stuff, such as how, before a pre-season game, a sideline "reporter" asked Ray about what words of support his wife gave him before the game. Or promoting how much applause he got from the home crowd. But that in itself is an ugly little thing: how the national sports media, unless you're talking Deadspin, completely ignores domestic violence if the aggressor is a famous athlete. Floyd Mayweather is a total piece of shit, but because he's the main man in boxing, the boxing media only talks about how great he is in the ring. To the point where, after 50 Cent made the "I'll donate a shit ton to charity if you can read one page of Harry Potter without fucking it up" deal to Mayweather, Yahoo's Kevin Iole wrote this scathing column about how out-of-line and uncalled for 50's stuff was because Mayweather is just too great a guy to have to deal with low blows like that.
A lot of those guys can just go fuck themselves.