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Dec 28, 2009 4:03 PM
ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: Take that up with Timmy.
Just refuse and lose your job..take one for the team. :D
Dec 28, 2009 4:03pm
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ZWICK 4 PREZ

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Dec 28, 2009 4:04 PM
GoChiefs wrote:
ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: Take that up with Timmy.
Just refuse and lose your job..take one for the team. :D
Why would I want to refuse? Chics love u long time in China.
Dec 28, 2009 4:04pm
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Dec 28, 2009 4:10 PM
iluvz wrote: So guys... If you brought up the topic of moving in with your girl, and she said no... Would you be ok with that? Or would you be upset? Possibly end it? Not sure what the typical reaction to expect would be?!
Why would you bring up the topic of moving in with her?

The correct topic is her moving in with you.
Dec 28, 2009 4:10pm
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Dec 28, 2009 4:11 PM
BCSbunk wrote:
Why would you bring up the topic of moving in with her?

The correct topic is her moving in with you.
iluvz is a chic. Her bf wants to move in with her.
Dec 28, 2009 4:11pm
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Dec 28, 2009 4:18 PM
Gosh... If I wasn't a chic, all the stuff between Zwick and I woulda been real awkward hahaha
Dec 28, 2009 4:18pm
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Dec 28, 2009 5:01 PM
I don't know if I'd be pissed or not.

It'll be a long time before I ask a woman to move in with me. I like having my alone space. When I do get a g/f on campus she will NOT stay @ my place every night. That shit just ain't happenin
Dec 28, 2009 5:01pm
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Dec 28, 2009 5:11 PM
power i wrote:
ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: what r u talkin about
You just got busted. :D
Chicks remember EVERYTHING, zwick...
Dec 28, 2009 5:11pm
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Dec 28, 2009 5:12 PM
^^^^^

true story
Dec 28, 2009 5:12pm
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Dec 28, 2009 5:14 PM
darbypitcher22 wrote: When I do get a g/f on campus she will NOT stay @ my place every night. That shit just ain't happenin
Wait til it happens there chief. If she wants to stay there, she'll drive you crazy when she doesn't. I know from experience. It sucks.
Dec 28, 2009 5:14pm
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Dec 28, 2009 5:16 PM
This is why zwick likes working overseas:
Dec 28, 2009 5:16pm
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Dec 28, 2009 5:17 PM
power i wrote: This is why zwick likes working overseas:
Well, ya.
Dec 28, 2009 5:17pm
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Dec 28, 2009 5:21 PM
iluvz wrote: Officially dating not quite a year. Known each other longer. His daughter basically has taken over my spare bed room as hers. He hasn't left my house in like a month
I would HATE that. Even though I am married-there are times I need my space.
Dec 28, 2009 5:21pm
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Dec 28, 2009 5:27 PM
This is why everyone should marry a fireman. Every third day and it's like a vacation at my house.

(j/k Honey!!)
Dec 28, 2009 5:27pm
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Dec 28, 2009 6:01 PM
ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote:
BCSbunk wrote:
Why would you bring up the topic of moving in with her?

The correct topic is her moving in with you.
iluvz is a chic. Her bf wants to move in with her.
Got ya.

Her boyfriend is kind of.......... um not sure what word does not sound too offensive? Weak?

For me it just sounds weak to ask a GF if you can move in with her, let her ask or ask if she wants to move in with you.
Dec 28, 2009 6:01pm
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Dec 28, 2009 6:49 PM
Eh.. The conversation wasn't like him saying 'can I move in with you' more along the lines of maybe we should think about just moving in together... But I love my house, and no way in hell am I moving out of it. So yeah, when u boil it down.. It would be him moving in with me.
Dec 28, 2009 6:49pm
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Dec 28, 2009 7:03 PM
Sounds like he already has moved in...
Dec 28, 2009 7:03pm
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Dec 28, 2009 7:06 PM
If you are not ready to have someone move in with you, say so.

If he doesn't like it & breaks it off, I think you're further ahead.
Dec 28, 2009 7:06pm
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Dec 28, 2009 7:14 PM
This sounds like a stable household
Dec 28, 2009 7:14pm
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Dec 28, 2009 8:15 PM
GoChiefs wrote:
ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: The thought of seeing a gf in my house every day I come home for work upsets my stomach.
And then you marry her and realize how horrible it is living with her..so you divorce in a year..yeah..good call.
You do realize that the divorce rate among people who don't live together before marriage is MUCH lower than the ones who do live together right?
Dec 28, 2009 8:15pm
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Dec 28, 2009 8:40 PM
power i wrote: I'm not a guy but seeing that most men are usually so desperate, they should be more than happy to wait around til you decide what you want.
Most men are usually so desperate? LMAO!!!!!!!! Yes, men are always the ones that are in a rush to get in a relationship and move in together and get married and have children, etc., etc.

Men are always complaining about how their woman is not committing or not ready to take the next step or are dragging their feet. HAHAHAHAHAHA
iluvz wrote: Officially dating not quite a year. Known each other longer. His daughter basically has taken over my spare bed room as hers. He hasn't left my house in like a month. And I'm ok with that. I guess its just the control part of me... I like knowing there's the option of him NOT being there if I don't want him too be. Plus I'm neurotic about my space, and things being exactly as they should, and where they should. And if he moves in I'd possibly have to compromise on that. That's awful of me right?
Awful of you? No. Selfish of you? YEs, but you're a woman so it's expected! ;)
iluvz wrote: Gosh... If I wasn't a chic, all the stuff between Zwick and I woulda been real awkward hahaha
It's not all that awkward between Darbypitcher and Zwick. :D
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GoChiefs wrote:
ZWICK 4 PREZ wrote: The thought of seeing a gf in my house every day I come home for work upsets my stomach.
And then you marry her and realize how horrible it is living with her..so you divorce in a year..yeah..good call.
You do realize that the divorce rate among people who don't live together before marriage is MUCH lower than the ones who do live together right?
That's interesting. I'd like to see that stat for verification, not that I'm doubting you, I just thought it would be the other way around.
Dec 28, 2009 8:40pm
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Dec 28, 2009 8:43 PM
dwccrew, that was kinda like the 'make me a sammich, biotch' comments I get. :)

So the only comeback I want from you is to come back with a sammich. For me. And I'll take a beer while you're there.
Dec 28, 2009 8:43pm
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Dec 28, 2009 8:47 PM
power i wrote: dwccrew, that was kinda like the 'make me a sammich, biotch' comments I get. :)

So just take yourself back into the kitchen and make me a sammich.
Nah, I hit it and quit it. No need for sammich's for either party. :)
Dec 28, 2009 8:47pm
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Dec 28, 2009 8:48 PM
I see you stole a man's line when you edited your post Power I. Just like a woman, taking credit for a man's work and passing it off as your own. :D
Dec 28, 2009 8:48pm
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Dec 28, 2009 8:52 PM
dwccrew wrote: I see you stole a man's line when you edited your post Power I. Just like a woman, taking credit for a man's work and passing it off as your own. :D
Works for me. ;)
Dec 28, 2009 8:52pm
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Dec 28, 2009 8:56 PM
power i wrote:
dwccrew wrote: I see you stole a man's line when you edited your post Power I. Just like a woman, taking credit for a man's work and passing it off as your own. :D
Works for me. ;)
I can't argue with that.
Dec 28, 2009 8:56pm