ZWICK 4 PREZ;1482995 wrote:Parents bed is for parents, not kids. Those saying it's ok are just lazy and don't care to correct it.
Yea, I guarantee your answer will change in about 3 or 4 years.
ZWICK 4 PREZ;1482995 wrote:Parents bed is for parents, not kids. Those saying it's ok are just lazy and don't care to correct it.
Perhaps you were raised where it was ok to sleep with your mom and dad. At least you can blame your parents then.GoChiefs;1483005 wrote:Yea, I guarantee your answer will change in about 3 or 4 years.
ZWICK 4 PREZ;1483008 wrote:Perhaps you were raised where it was ok to sleep with your mom and dad. At least you can blame your parents then.
I work hard to have those perks of AAA that i pay for for my family plus I had a meeting that morning and the idea of getting dirty was not in the plans. I made the call to use my hard earned AAA membership. Lazy ... Or ...Rational thinkingRaw Dawgin' it;1483002 wrote:ok tough guy - remember when you sat on the side of the road and waited for AAA to come change your tire? Talk about lazy...
Belly35;1483016 wrote:I work hard to have those perks of AAA that i pay for for my family plus I had a meeting that morning and the idea of getting dirty was not in the plans. I made the call to use my hard earned AAA membership. Lazy ... Or ...Rational thinking
ZWICK 4 PREZ;1482995 wrote:Parents bed is for parents, not kids. Those saying it's ok are just lazy and don't care to correct it.
Belly35;1483016 wrote:I work hard to have those perks of AAA that i pay for for my family plus I had a meeting that morning and the idea of getting dirty was not in the plans. I made the call to use my hard earned AAA membership. Lazy ... Or ...Rational thinking
I actually agree with this. And I won't change my mind in 3 or 4 years, because I already have a 6 and 10 year old. Neither EVER sleep in our bed. The only exception is if my wife or I is out of town, one might sleep in our bed as a treat. And they know it's a treat. Most parents I know who have kids that sleep in their bed, do it because they don't want to fight it. It's easier to let Johnny sleep with them when it's thundering or they hear a noise at 3 am.ZWICK 4 PREZ;1482995 wrote:Parents bed is for parents, not kids. Those saying it's ok are just lazy and don't care to correct it.
WebFire;1483034 wrote:Occasionally is ok, even if unnecessary. But for those that do it regularly, I don't think it's a good thing.
The fact you allow it only proves my point.ernest_t_bass;1483031 wrote:Lol
excuses are for pussies.Belly35;1483016 wrote:I work hard to have those perks of AAA that i pay for for my family plus I had a meeting that morning and the idea of getting dirty was not in the plans. I made the call to use my hard earned AAA membership. Lazy ... Or ...Rational thinking
cruiser_96;1483139 wrote:Two kids... 9 (boy), 5 (girl). Both have slept in our room since their birth. From time to time they'll fall asleep in the living room (long day in a kid's life type of thing) and we'll leave them on the couch. But by morning, they've found their way into our room (downstairs master bedroom).
The main, and sometimes the only, reason my wife and I come up with letting it continue? Simple - One day they won't. And we will NEVER have the time back. Only get one shot in life. Take part in the good things; avoid the distractions.
My guess is we only have two or three years before my son decides he wants to venture up to his room and his bed for the night. From that point on, he'll never be back. Bedtime stories, conversations, prayers, etc. can all still happen, but it'll be different. And when that times comes, we'll adjust. But no need to rush the time.
Will I enjoy the space on the bed? Sure. Will I remember the nights my wife and I couldn't be together with no kids in the bed? Nope.
Repscruiser_96;1483139 wrote:Two kids... 9 (boy), 5 (girl). Both have slept in our room since their birth. From time to time they'll fall asleep in the living room (long day in a kid's life type of thing) and we'll leave them on the couch. But by morning, they've found their way into our room (downstairs master bedroom).
The main, and sometimes the only, reason my wife and I come up with letting it continue? Simple - One day they won't. And we will NEVER have the time back. Only get one shot in life. Take part in the good things; avoid the distractions.
My guess is we only have two or three years before my son decides he wants to venture up to his room and his bed for the night. From that point on, he'll never be back. Bedtime stories, conversations, prayers, etc. can all still happen, but it'll be different. And when that times comes, we'll adjust. But no need to rush the time.
Will I enjoy the space on the bed? Sure. Will I remember the nights my wife and I couldn't be together with no kids in the bed? Nope.
Wait a second... your son is 9 years old and has slept in your room for 9 years? Not his room?cruiser_96;1483139 wrote:Two kids... 9 (boy), 5 (girl). Both have slept in our room since their birth. From time to time they'll fall asleep in the living room (long day in a kid's life type of thing) and we'll leave them on the couch. But by morning, they've found their way into our room (downstairs master bedroom).
The main, and sometimes the only, reason my wife and I come up with letting it continue? Simple - One day they won't. And we will NEVER have the time back. Only get one shot in life. Take part in the good things; avoid the distractions.
My guess is we only have two or three years before my son decides he wants to venture up to his room and his bed for the night. From that point on, he'll never be back. Bedtime stories, conversations, prayers, etc. can all still happen, but it'll be different. And when that times comes, we'll adjust. But no need to rush the time.
Will I enjoy the space on the bed? Sure. Will I remember the nights my wife and I couldn't be together with no kids in the bed? Nope.
Might as well just save that post so he can give it to the kid's therapist in about 10 years....ZWICK 4 PREZ;1483148 wrote:Wait a second... your son is 9 years old and has slept in your room for 9 years? Not his room?
This. LOL. That's ODD.ZWICK 4 PREZ;1483148 wrote:Wait a second... your son is 9 years old and has slept in your room for 9 years? Not his room?
and this...how is sleeping 'quality family time'. I wonder if he will be okay with letting his kids live there until they are 30, because thats time theyll never get back.WebFire;1483159 wrote:I don't consider the time I'm sleeping to be quality family time.
fifyernest_t_bass;1483143 wrote:wtf?