Crimson streak;1397368 wrote:Oh I agree there are white people that do the same thing and it pisses me off too. Like get off your ass get a job and make something of yourself instead of popping out more kids to get more government assistance
This couple isn't even popping out kids. They have one who was conceived despite the use of protection. They both have jobs. Just not ones that pay very well. Thing is, they both have the education and/or experience to have good paying jobs. She has a college degree and he actually has job offers on the table in a trade field. They choose occupations in which they don't make much.
My problem with it is their attitude toward these programs. One of them is currently contemplating getting a better paying job, because they're tired of living so thin. I can't even say that they spend frivolously. They've downgraded their cell phones to regular, non-PDA ones. They have moved into a small, one-story home with two bedrooms ... I've lived in bigger apartments. And they have only one vehicle that they couldn't pay cash for (purchased when they found out she was pregnant ... a reasonable purchase). In many ways, they do what they can to live responsibly.
They do well in many ways, so they don't fit the stereotype of people on government assistance. However, their decision to take the jobs they have now essentially went thus: "Well, we can pay our bills with what we will make, and we will qualify for WIC and Medicaid, so those will be covered."
The flippant attitude toward assistance troubled me, possibly more-so than even them even using it. They don't view it as a safety net. They view it as an alternative life path. Somehow, I think they would do a lot better with helping the community by (a) setting an example of someone who doesn't use those programs, and (b) offering to help others who see them and ask about it.