
GoChiefs
Posts: 16,754
Dec 18, 2012 12:25pm
He didn't want your advice.thavoice;1346411 wrote:I heard this a few yaers about about proposing on a birthday/christmas and such and what happens if, well when, th emarriage ends. Some states consider it a gift if it comes on a valentines, birthday, christmas and you are not legally obliged to return it to the guy, but if ya do it NOT on or for those holidays you are entitled to get it back.
I did a quick search about it and found a few things
.Before you do involve the law, which may well cost you more than the resale value of the ring, there are certain considerations to be borne in mind. Some states decree that an engagement ring given on a special day such as a birthday is clearly a gift and should not be returned. It does not signify an engagement contract but a birthday gift. It could even be considered a bit of a skinflint gift in the first place as he was obviously trying to pass the engagement ring off as your birthday gift and thus saving the expense of buying a birthday gift if he was intending to propose anyway.
Other states consider an engagement ring a conditional gift, thus if a woman accepts a proposal of marriage the ring symbolises the promise of marriage. Thus if the marriage does not go ahead the ring should be returned. This is further complicated though by some states attaching the fault based rule, so if one party backs out they should not get to keep the ring. Other states back the idea of the ring as a no fault conditional gift, so if the marriage does not go ahead the ring goes back even if the guilty party was a slime ball.
http://www.ohiochatter.com/forum/showthread.php?38225-I-just-got-engaged
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Dec 18, 2012 12:27pm
Well I didnt want your input on my post either but you gave it.GoChiefs;1346438 wrote:He didn't want your advice.
http://www.ohiochatter.com/forum/showthread.php?38225-I-just-got-engaged
Clown.

GoChiefs
Posts: 16,754
Dec 18, 2012 12:32pm
I suggest you get your balls back from your wife before you do any name calling mister.thavoice;1346440 wrote:Well I didnt want your input on my post either but you gave it.
Clown.
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Dec 18, 2012 12:45pm
You gonna punch me through the computer screen or something?GoChiefs;1346445 wrote:I suggest you get your balls back from your wife before you do any name calling mister.

Commander of Awesome
Posts: 23,151
Dec 18, 2012 12:47pm
If there was a way, we all would.thavoice;1346458 wrote:You gonna punch me through the computer screen or something?

GoChiefs
Posts: 16,754
Dec 18, 2012 12:57pm
thavoice;1346458 wrote:You gonna punch me through the computer screen or something?
No. I'm pretty sure your wife abuses you enough.
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queencitybuckeye
Posts: 7,117
Dec 18, 2012 1:57pm
*your
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friendfromlowry
Posts: 6,239
Dec 18, 2012 3:26pm
Reps if I could.Commander of Awesome;1346460 wrote:If there was a way, we all would.
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fan_from_texas
Posts: 2,693
Dec 19, 2012 2:32pm
How did I miss this thread?

SportsAndLady
Posts: 35,632
Dec 19, 2012 2:38pm
He'd probably stick his johnson through it so your wife would flockthavoice;1346458 wrote:You gonna punch me through the computer screen or something?
too harsh?
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thavoice
Posts: 14,376
Dec 19, 2012 2:44pm
\fan_from_texas;1347345 wrote:How did I miss this thread?
Either you have more of a life then the rest of us.
Or.
You were out buying your mistress a gift.
Or both.
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sportchampps
Posts: 7,361
Dec 23, 2012 10:42pm
Victoria secret just added osu clothing recently

Classyposter58
Posts: 6,321
Dec 24, 2012 12:14am
$25 starbucks card, 2 under armour fleeces and one of those cupcake machines shes been begging for

Rotinaj
Posts: 7,699
Dec 24, 2012 6:47am
You and CC troll Chuck-E-Cheese for dates together?Classyposter58;1350159 wrote:one of those cupcake machines shes been begging for