Oh, I thought the family was from western Ottawa County.Fab1b;955715 wrote:^ha we live in Fl anyways
Sonofanump;955716 wrote:Oh, I thought the family was from western Ottawa County.
dwccrew;955734 wrote:Your family is white trash.
Hope this helps.
You guys don't live in one of the many trailer parks in FL, do you? That would be so fitting.Fab1b;955738 wrote:Unfortunately I'm not disagreeing! That is exactly the way they are living!!
Sonofanump;955710 wrote:I'd like to help. Should I go to Diamonds, Platnuim, Deja Vu or Club Rog?
have her set up a webcam site. not only can she stay in the same line of work, she can always work from home and keep after the kids in between shows.Fab1b;955715 wrote:^ha we live in Fl anyways
I understand, we're just on completely opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to this subject. I'm just the kind of person that would take on the sacrifices if I thought it would make a better life for a loved one. I can't stand the thought of being happy, if someone I love is suffering. You can't always make things better, but you can always try.Fab1b;955622 wrote:Wrong, it isn't like they are disabled, dead, blah blah blah, they are perfectly capable of getting jobs and doing what is right. I will not take over for someone no matter who it is because they are too fucking lazy or whaever! I DON'T want kids, plain and simple, it is my life and I work to damn hard to deal with others problems, yes even if it is family! One other reason I don't have kids is because I am a single guy that lives very comfortably on my salary, just the GF and I, but could I take on and raise 3 kids and then be financially stable no fucking way. One maybe. So still not fair to the kids! I am not traditional, I am my own man. I do what is right for me first, others second, maybe selfish but at the end of the day you can only help yourself first! So yes that may sound shallow to some but I refuse to take my life off its course for others stupidity no matter how close they are. What about my dreams, goals, etc.....?
I didn't mean to make it sound like my nieces don't have clothes or shelter or food. They go to school, they live in a house, its actually not a bad place if my sister and her man weren't such slobs. They have transportation, toys, etc.....but its the future that worries me and not just theirs, my sisters.
Se-Alum I do understand what you are saying and yes again I said what I am saying may sound shallow but that is how I have chosen to live my life. I don't give into others. I chose not to have kids and its just that damn simple. Now would the circumstances change say if my sister (god forbid I am not this mad) died or something tragic happened well absolutley. But until that happens I will continue to stuff it down their throats until they do what is right!
Should he be there everyday to make sure they take the pills also? Who is going to pay for them? Maybe they should just have their reproductive organs surgically removed now and save everyone from your "guarantee".Scarlet_Buckeye;955942 wrote:Well, one thing I would do for sure is...........when they are old enough YOU make sure they are all (you said they were girls) get put on birth control. If YOU don't do this, I can guarantee that with parents like that, all your nieces will wind up teenage mothers and just perpetuate the cycle.
Scarlet_Buckeye;955942 wrote:Well, one thing I would do for sure is...........when they are old enough YOU make sure they are all (you said they were girls) get put on birth control. If YOU don't do this, I can guarantee that with parents like that, all your nieces will wind up teenage mothers and just perpetuate the cycle.
THIS!georgemc80;956047 wrote:I feel for you, I too have crazy family. I refer to them as my tramp-in-laws. They baffle me with their poor decisions and I see how it affects my wife and mother and father in law. Sometimes I want to beat the crap out of them....
The only thing you can do is what you are doing. Always, Always be their for the kids, (not talking custody) Even a trip to Wendy's or DQ with their cool uncle can mean the world to the kids.
Assuming they have a cool uncle!georgemc80;956047 wrote:I feel for you, I too have crazy family. I refer to them as my tramp-in-laws. They baffle me with their poor decisions and I see how it affects my wife and mother and father in law. Sometimes I want to beat the crap out of them....
The only thing you can do is what you are doing. Always, Always be there for the kids, (not talking custody) Even a trip to Wendy's or DQ with their cool uncle can mean the world to the kids.
poor people are poor becuase they want to be poor....I Wear Pants;955580 wrote:Should be "I hardly even drank" as I'm sure you're about to become a raging alcoholic from the shear stupidity of your family.
