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thavoice

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Mar 31, 2011 9:26 AM
THE4RINGZ;729410 wrote:M.O.B.

Money over bitches.

Money over biches 'cause they breed envy....

I think that is a line in a Tupac song
Mar 31, 2011 9:26am
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O-Trap

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Mar 31, 2011 9:27 AM
thavoice;729636 wrote:Money over biches 'cause they breed envy....

I think that is a line in a Tupac song

On a side note, you have 1776 posts. How very patriotic of you. :D
Mar 31, 2011 9:27am
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thavoice

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Mar 31, 2011 9:31 AM
O-Trap;729621 wrote:Dammit, man! This isn't a thread for reasonable solutions! :D

Thats why I added ...and that doesnt work he needs to have a 9-some with her best friends, sisters and mom....at the end becuase I noticed it did seem a little faggish
Mar 31, 2011 9:31am
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Mar 31, 2011 9:34 AM
Get your advice somewhere other than Ohio Chatter serious business message board.
Mar 31, 2011 9:34am
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Mar 31, 2011 9:35 AM
thavoice;729639 wrote:Thats why I added ...and that doesnt work he needs to have a 9-some with her best friends, sisters and mom....at the end becuase I noticed it did seem a little faggish
Not faggish. Just too mature for this crowd. :D

I say he goes Count of Monte Cristo on their asses and indirectly makes their lives shit, but I can be a little too vengeful at times.
Mar 31, 2011 9:35am
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Mar 31, 2011 9:36 AM
Skyhook79;729643 wrote:Get your advice somewhere other than Ohio Chatter serious business message board.

On a serious note, this is probably good advice.
Mar 31, 2011 9:36am
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thavoice

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Mar 31, 2011 9:39 AM
O-Trap;729644 wrote:Not faggish. Just too mature for this crowd. :D

I say he goes Count of Monte Cristo on their asses and indirectly makes their lives shit, but I can be a little too vengeful at times.

Nothing i ever said or did has ever been construed as TOO MATURE. Maybe something did happen when I fell and hit my head the other day.


There was a chick in our office who had been dumped by her BF she lived with and he started to see someone else right away...a girl she knew. As soon as i convinced her that the killing with kindness act would work it all turned around. He started to beg her to come back and such....which didnt happen but I have seen it so many times. Act like you are 100% fine, ignore the other person and what/whom they are porking and it bugs the fuck out of them!
Mar 31, 2011 9:39am
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Mar 31, 2011 9:45 AM
thavoice;729650 wrote:Nothing i ever said or did has ever been construed as TOO MATURE. Maybe something did happen when I fell and hit my head the other day.


There was a chick in our office who had been dumped by her BF she lived with and he started to see someone else right away...a girl she knew. As soon as i convinced her that the killing with kindness act would work it all turned around. He started to beg her to come back and such....which didnt happen but I have seen it so many times. Act like you are 100% fine, ignore the other person and what/whom they are porking and it bugs the fuck out of them!

Oh I know it works. I've done it. The girl I dated seriously before my wife dumped me when I had her engagement ring in my pocket. We'd been dating for 2+ years. I filled my time, and hung out with other friends, some of which were women (and very attractive ones at that). Nothing romantic, or even physical at all. Drove her up the wall and she said, multiple times, that she wanted to get back together at some point.

Then I began seeing someone else, so I told her no. Glad I did, as I've now been with that woman for 6 years, three of which we've been married.
Mar 31, 2011 9:45am
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thavoice

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Mar 31, 2011 9:47 AM
O-Trap;729662 wrote:Oh I know it works. I've done it. The girl I dated seriously before my wife dumped me when I had her engagement ring in my pocket. We'd been dating for 2+ years. I filled my time, and hung out with other friends, some of which were women (and very attractive ones at that). Nothing romantic, or even physical at all. Drove her up the wall and she said, multiple times, that she wanted to get back together at some point.

Then I began seeing someone else, so I told her no. Glad I did, as I've now been with that woman for 6 years, three of which we've been married.

You have my condolance. Not about the blowing off the ex with the 'kill with kindness' and ignoring routine, but that of being married.
Mar 31, 2011 9:47am
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Mar 31, 2011 9:49 AM
thavoice;729664 wrote:You have my condolance. Not about the blowing off the ex with the 'kill with kindness' and ignoring routine, but that of being married.

Nah, I did it right. Best advice I can give:

Find a fiercely loyal nympho and lock that shit down. :D
Mar 31, 2011 9:49am
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Mar 31, 2011 9:50 AM
O-Trap;729668 wrote:Nah, I did it right. Best advice I can give:

Find a fiercely loyal nympho and lock that shit down. :D
That's like the fuckin Holy Grail of women!


Congrats.
Mar 31, 2011 9:50am
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Mar 31, 2011 9:51 AM
thavoice;729670 wrote:That's like the fuckin Holy Grail of women!


Congrats.
Yes it is. :cool:
Mar 31, 2011 9:51am
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Mar 31, 2011 10:04 AM
Tell your buddy the next time he sees the two walk up to them and tell them they make a great couple and he is happy for them. They wont know what to think.
Mar 31, 2011 10:04am
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Mar 31, 2011 11:06 AM
Tiger2003;729684 wrote:Tell your buddy the next time he sees the two walk up to them and tell them they make a great couple and he is happy for them. They wont know what to think.

I would basically ignore the girl and be cordial if you do run into her.

I would be pretty tempted to give the guy a few hands to the face as well, but not in when the girl is around. She might actually enjoy that. I see no way this guy does not deserve a beating for this.
Mar 31, 2011 11:06am
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Mar 31, 2011 1:01 PM
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get him some of snoops medicine?
Mar 31, 2011 1:01pm
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Mar 31, 2011 2:12 PM
Ignore the bitch. If it was one of my best friends, I 'd go and kick their ass bc id expect the same from them. It wouldn't solve shit but fuck friends like that.

But just ignore them. Go work out and take anger out on the weights. Relieve the stress that kind of way. But ignore the fuck.
Mar 31, 2011 2:12pm
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Mar 31, 2011 2:14 PM
He's tried to be cordial, but she refuses to talk to him. She's come up to a group of us hanging out with him a couple of times on campus, said hi to everyone else, looked at him and walked away. I agree that this ws pure bitchatude
Mar 31, 2011 2:14pm
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Mar 31, 2011 2:17 PM
darbypitcher22;729950 wrote:He's tried to be cordial, but she refuses to talk to him. She's come up to a group of us hanging out with him a couple of times on campus, said hi to everyone else, looked at him and walked away. I agree that this ws pure bitchatude

Then tell him to ignore her. It's obvious she has the maturity level of a middle schooler.
Mar 31, 2011 2:17pm
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Mar 31, 2011 2:23 PM
I can't beleive the obvious solution hasn't been suggested yet:

Tell him to do her best friend.
Mar 31, 2011 2:23pm
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Mar 31, 2011 2:23 PM
Then upper deck her toilet.
Mar 31, 2011 2:23pm
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hasbeen

Excuse me, Flo?

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Mar 31, 2011 2:23 PM
darbypitcher22;729950 wrote:He's tried to be cordial, but she refuses to talk to him. She's come up to a group of us hanging out with him a couple of times on campus, said hi to everyone else, looked at him and walked away. I agree that this ws pure bitchatude

Don't be cordial. Be a dick. Be an asshole. Ignore the bitch until she's in his way and then move the notch out of the way.
Mar 31, 2011 2:23pm
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Mar 31, 2011 2:28 PM
honestly, and i'm not trying to be a dick, in my opinion, your friend sounds like a pussy.
Mar 31, 2011 2:28pm
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thavoice

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Mar 31, 2011 2:33 PM
darbypitcher22;729950 wrote:He's tried to be cordial, but she refuses to talk to him. She's come up to a group of us hanging out with him a couple of times on campus, said hi to everyone else, looked at him and walked away. I agree that this ws pure bitchatude

Then he just needs to keep on doing it. It will bug the shit out of her if he kills her with kindness
Mar 31, 2011 2:33pm
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Mar 31, 2011 2:35 PM
darbypitcher22;729950 wrote:He's tried to be cordial, but she refuses to talk to him. She's come up to a group of us hanging out with him a couple of times on campus, said hi to everyone else, looked at him and walked away. I agree that this ws pure bitchatude

You guys should have told her she is a cunt whore bag, and then told her to fuck off.
Mar 31, 2011 2:35pm
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Excuse me, Flo?

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Mar 31, 2011 2:36 PM
like_that;729983 wrote:You guys should have told her she is a cunt whore bag, and then told her to fuck off.

This is what I'm talking about!
Mar 31, 2011 2:36pm