In my day ..the Belly was a big time player, dating, cheating and doing all the wrong things ....
The love of my life came a long I knew I had to change my ways...... faithful, truthful and honest was the code to 40 years of love..

Yama Hama;601351 wrote:OK so condemn somebody's actions, don't condemn them. You have no idea where somebody is coming from so don't throw out some terrible broad generalization. People make mistakes when they are young, it doesn't make them "lower than snail shit" or whatever terrible term you used. I think assholes who judge other people based on one action are lower than snail shit.

I agree so quit judging me

The more I think about this the more angered I get about it, how some people can think this is ok and have that oh well additude.
This act is one of the more disrespectful things you can do to someone who you SAY you love.
When others find out the one who is cheated on is pitied and in some cases made fun of.
I have seen lots of people really hurt by this type of action. So yes I stick by the lower than snail crap statement.
I am not the asshole here, let me make that perfectly clear.
and before you say, no was not ever done to me.
just seen a lot of hurt by this, a lot

To me, it just sounds like somebody is trying to justify.

vball10set;601923 wrote:sorry, I should have said "since I met my wife"...but yes, since I met my wife, she is the only person I've been with (I thought I better make that clear, knowing the pervs on this site)

Thats cool, I thought it might be one of those high school sweetheart things.

Now for the rest of your response, I would go with the "only person.....so what were the others, sheep?" line here, but se-alum only gave me +1 for the overdone gay joke on another thread...I'm not even gonna bust out the overdone sheepfucker jokes when people are being stingy with points.

I don't love the person I cheated on, and I have no respect for that person.....does that make it any better? Worse?

Yeah I cheated on a girl after staying with her through 2 "cheats". Its fucking HS dude, relationships dont mean shit. Half of them are status or power driven anyway.

Im 24 now, and would never cheat on a girl again. To be clear, I would never break up with a girl who cheated either, unless it was with a good friend or happened over and over and over. I think sexual relations is a very big part of a relationship but if the person makes me happy when I am with them, I dont really care if they messed up before a time or two. I can say this because I have actually backed it up with 2 girlfriends Ive had. I can get over pretty much anything, and dont get mad about practically anything.

No, I have not cheated and I will not ever do so. I took a vow when I got married and plan on living up to that promise that I made to both my wife and God.

I also try not to judge others who have not been loyal to their spouse. It is none of my business.