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Barry Badrinath

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Dec 13, 2010 9:41 PM
I cheated on my girl friend of two years in high school 4 times in one night. Don't ask me how the hell that happened, guess I was just in the right place at the right time. Felt bad about it then but don't really give a shit now.

As for now, I have to agree with ccrunner.
Dec 13, 2010 9:41pm
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Yama Hama

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Dec 14, 2010 12:10 AM
martyirish;599638 wrote:no
and anyone who does is lower than snail crap.
seriously if youwant to cheat than just leave that person.

So.....ummmm Catholic's teach that people learn a lesson in humanity when confessing their sins. Why, as a Notre Dame fan are you condemning those who have sinned?
Dec 14, 2010 12:10am
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martyirish

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Dec 14, 2010 7:49 AM
Yama Hama;600198 wrote:So.....ummmm Catholic's teach that people learn a lesson in humanity when confessing their sins. Why, as a Notre Dame fan are you condemning those who have sinned?

Being Catholic or a ND fan has nothing to do with it. It's a shitty thing to do. You show you have no respect what so ever for the person you are with. You may as well spit in their face because that is in fact what you think of them
Dec 14, 2010 7:49am
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Thinthickbigred

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Dec 14, 2010 2:15 PM
Iliketurtles;598191 wrote:I've only cheated on Rosie... shes never cared too much.

Is she your goat ?
Dec 14, 2010 2:15pm
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bigdaddy2003

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Dec 14, 2010 2:19 PM
Never.
Dec 14, 2010 2:19pm
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fan_from_texas

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Dec 14, 2010 2:20 PM
Once, in high school. It was stupid, I shouldn't have done it, and I felt terrible about it.

The favor was returned by one of my college girlfriends, who cheated on my with my roommate. It's a sick feeling to find out.
Dec 14, 2010 2:20pm
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Thinthickbigred

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Dec 14, 2010 2:23 PM
Iliketurtles;599663 wrote:LOL... you really are that stupid aren't you? The photo isn't me.. maybe you should go to youtube and search "I like turtles" and watch the video.

But to answer your question beastiality is a crime so maybe you should quit before you get caught and I don't think your boyfriend likes it when you cheat on him with animals.

Oh so that isnt you on youtube? well why do portray yourself as a oompa loompa with aids?..........I sir am hedro and I dont go to donkey shows or things you might partake in......
Dec 14, 2010 2:23pm
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Thinthickbigred

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Dec 14, 2010 2:29 PM
Love is a chemical imbalance......its needful... just get yourself some good azz who care if she f###s around.... you do.... just be clean about it before you have sex get into the shower if you dont like to wear a hat than trust she aint to too freaky ..cause if she does anal you gots to get her puss really clean before hand ....dont want the goods smelling like azz anyway ...just foul to me ...especially if you like to give and recieve.....which is a fun part of the whole deal isnt it .............Just get friends with bennies...they are the best ...and you aint got to sneak out of the bed the next morning before she wakes up .......have fun be safe and most of all be clean
Dec 14, 2010 2:29pm
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enigmaax

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Dec 14, 2010 2:47 PM
Thinthickbigred;600850 wrote:Love is a chemical imbalance......its needful... just get yourself some good azz who care if she f###s around.... you do.... just be clean about it before you have sex get into the shower if you dont like to wear a hat than trust she aint to too freaky ..cause if she does anal you gots to get her puss really clean before hand ....dont want the goods smelling like azz anyway ...just foul to me ...especially if you like to give and recieve.....which is a fun part of the whole deal isnt it .............Just get friends with bennies...they are the best ...and you aint got to sneak out of the bed the next morning before she wakes up .......have fun be safe and most of all be clean

Boy, this was certainly a moment of clarity for me.
Dec 14, 2010 2:47pm
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Dec 14, 2010 3:11 PM
Thinthickbigred;600850 wrote:I love banging dudes...my azz is so sore from it...not foul to me...love getting it in the azz...which is a fun part of the whole deal isnt it...and love sniffing a dudes taint...gotta shower anyways when a dude s**ts on my chest...and im safe and clean...except for the s**t.

Well...now I understand you a little better.
Dec 14, 2010 3:11pm
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Dec 14, 2010 4:09 PM
Thinthickbigred;600850 wrote:Love is a chemical imbalance......its needful... just get yourself some good azz who care if she f###s around.... you do.... just be clean about it before you have sex get into the shower if you dont like to wear a hat than trust she aint to too freaky ..cause if she does anal you gots to get her puss really clean before hand ....dont want the goods smelling like azz anyway ...just foul to me ...especially if you like to give and recieve.....which is a fun part of the whole deal isnt it .............Just get friends with bennies...they are the best ...and you aint got to sneak out of the bed the next morning before she wakes up .......have fun be safe and most of all be clean

Alrighty then!
Dec 14, 2010 4:09pm
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vball10set

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Dec 14, 2010 4:15 PM
nope--don't want to sound sappy, but I never met anyone who could compare to my wife, so there was never a reason to.
Dec 14, 2010 4:15pm
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Dec 14, 2010 5:22 PM
New rule to OC. You must type in paragraphs, or, at the very least put some periods. Jesus all his posts are nauseating to read.
Dec 14, 2010 5:22pm
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enigmaax

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Dec 14, 2010 5:40 PM
vball10set;600949 wrote:nope--don't want to sound sappy, but I never met anyone who could compare to my wife, so there was never a reason to.

Is that the only woman you've ever been with then?
Dec 14, 2010 5:40pm
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Yama Hama

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Dec 14, 2010 9:36 PM
martyirish;600329 wrote:Being Catholic or a ND fan has nothing to do with it. It's a shitty thing to do. You show you have no respect what so ever for the person you are with. You may as well spit in their face because that is in fact what you think of them

OK so condemn somebody's actions, don't condemn them. You have no idea where somebody is coming from so don't throw out some terrible broad generalization. People make mistakes when they are young, it doesn't make them "lower than snail shit" or whatever terrible term you used. I think assholes who judge other people based on one action are lower than snail shit.
Dec 14, 2010 9:36pm
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Dec 14, 2010 11:01 PM
Yama Hama;601351 wrote:OK so condemn somebody's actions, don't condemn them. You have no idea where somebody is coming from so don't throw out some terrible broad generalization. People make mistakes when they are young, it doesn't make them "lower than snail shit" or whatever terrible term you used. I think assholes who judge other people based on one action are lower than snail shit.
That makes no sense. In order to do what you suggest would be to say that said person had no control over their actions. The actions it takes in order to cheat happen with a personal decision. You cannot separate personal decisions from those sorts of actions.
Dec 14, 2010 11:01pm
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Thinthickbigred

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Dec 14, 2010 11:07 PM
sherm03;600888 wrote:Well...now I understand you a little better.

tell ya what you are lucky i dont know you ......
Dec 14, 2010 11:07pm
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goosebumps

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Dec 14, 2010 11:15 PM
Haven't but damn sure have been accused of it. Every time I break up with a girl they always assume its for another girl. Bitches be crazy haha.
Dec 14, 2010 11:15pm
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Yama Hama

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Dec 15, 2010 10:59 AM
CenterBHSFan;601471 wrote:That makes no sense. In order to do what you suggest would be to say that said person had no control over their actions. The actions it takes in order to cheat happen with a personal decision. You cannot separate personal decisions from those sorts of actions.

Right, because if someone makes a bad decision it automatically makes THEM bad right? I hope you don't have kids that you teach that to.

People deserve forgiveness and second chances in life, no doubt you've needed a few second chances in life. I bet you don't wish that those people that forgave you thought like you.
Dec 15, 2010 10:59am
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Con_Alma

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Dec 15, 2010 11:07 AM
The only way to understand a person is by the things they say and the things they do. You can't dismiss actions.

Of course people make mistakes and sometimes deserve forgiveness but the cumulative actions and words are clear indications of that person's character and are the best predictor of future actions.
Dec 15, 2010 11:07am
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Dec 15, 2010 11:22 AM
sherm03;598280 wrote:I started dating a girl right before prom my senior year. She was a year younger than me, and we stayed together when I left for school. I think in the back of my mind I knew that it would never really work out. There was all kinds of friction with her and my family. During my first semester of college, I got drunk one night and wound up fooling around with some girl. It never went past that night, and I kinda felt bad about it. I rationalized it as "I was drunk, we didn't bang, it shouldn't count." Then I met another girl during my second semester. She knew I had a girlfriend back home, but she didn't care and we hooked up a few times. That fizzled out, and I do have to admit, I felt (and still feel) terrible about it. I don't know if my girlfriend at the time ever found out...and her and I don't talk anymore, so it will always be a mystery to me.
When I met my wife, I knew she was the girl I wanted to marry. So despite some opportunities, I never cheated...and I never will.
...It won't a mystery anymore once I bring her a copy of this...:)
Dec 15, 2010 11:22am
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Dec 15, 2010 11:29 AM
Thinthickbigred;600850 wrote:Love is a chemical imbalance......its needful... just get yourself some good azz who care if she f###s around.... you do.... just be clean about it before you have sex get into the shower if you dont like to wear a hat than trust she aint to too freaky ..cause if she does anal you gots to get her puss really clean before hand ....dont want the goods smelling like azz anyway ...just foul to me ...especially if you like to give and recieve.....which is a fun part of the whole deal isnt it .............Just get friends with bennies...they are the best ...and you aint got to sneak out of the bed the next morning before she wakes up .......have fun be safe and most of all be clean
...I thought I understood "Hilljackese", but I must have been absent the day they taught this pile.
Dec 15, 2010 11:29am
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vball10set

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Dec 15, 2010 12:19 PM
enigmaax;601058 wrote:Is that the only woman you've ever been with then?
sorry, I should have said "since I met my wife"...but yes, since I met my wife, she is the only person I've been with (I thought I better make that clear, knowing the pervs on this site) :D
Dec 15, 2010 12:19pm
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Dec 15, 2010 12:20 PM
Yes, but ive been cooking her filets twice a week since?
Dec 15, 2010 12:20pm
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Dec 15, 2010 12:30 PM
Yama Hama;601778 wrote:Right, because if someone makes a bad decision it automatically makes THEM bad right? I hope you don't have kids that you teach that to.

People deserve forgiveness and second chances in life, no doubt you've needed a few second chances in life. I bet you don't wish that those people that forgave you thought like you.
Ughh! I don't even know where to begin with this lol

Ok, first: I said nothing whatsoever about forgiveness. That's for another thread, I think. Sure, things are forgiveable, some things are not. Cheating is forgiveable for some, to me it's not. I'm old enough to know what I'm about and I just don't have the patience for it. I've never said anything otherwise. For you to imply that that was what I was saying is kinda nonsensical.

Secondly, I never said that making a bad choice/decision makes anybody a bad person when it comes to cheating. Not once, stop implying that I did. Why don't you just ask me my thoughts about that instead of ASSuming?

Thirdly: What I tried to explain to you (I'll say it yet again) is that when people say that they cheated because it was a mistake, it implies that it was an accident that they cheated.
And you and I both know, at least I would hope you know, that those things cannot happen by "accident".
Accidents are fender-benders, spilling a cup of water, slipping on ice, etc.

It takes making a choice to cheat.

See the difference?
Dec 15, 2010 12:30pm