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Dec 12, 2010 11:35 PM
I cheated a few times on my girlfriend that I dated for 3 years in college. There was this girl I knew that was a few years younger....she was pretty hot and she was totally diggin' me. I was very unhappy with my relationship at the time but was naive enough to think "ohh I can't break up with her after this long, I need her". So what do I do instead? Yep, start messing around with the other girl. We kinda did some basic fooling around like 2 or 3 times and then I told her that I wasn't sure about it. That was that until like a month or two later when I saw her at a party. I kinda caught her eye from across the room and was done for. We went back to her dorm and then that was that.

Never since, I love my current girlfriend and am very happy. Have had plenty of opportunities but I know its not worth it.
Dec 12, 2010 11:35pm
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Dec 12, 2010 11:36 PM
karen lotz;598602 wrote:?????

LOL! I would answer, but I don't know the question.
Dec 12, 2010 11:36pm
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Thinthickbigred

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Dec 12, 2010 11:48 PM
Mooney44Cards;598648 wrote:I cheated a few times on my girlfriend that I dated for 3 years in college. There was this girl I knew that was a few years younger....she was pretty hot and she was totally diggin' me. I was very unhappy with my relationship at the time but was naive enough to think "ohh I can't break up with her after this long, I need her". So what do I do instead? Yep, start messing around with the other girl. We kinda did some basic fooling around like 2 or 3 times and then I told her that I wasn't sure about it. That was that until like a month or two later when I saw her at a party. I kinda caught her eye from across the room and was done for. We went back to her dorm and then that was that.

Never since, I love my current girlfriend and am very happy. Have had plenty of opportunities but I know its not worth it.
Are they transgender like you? Or do they just dress up like the opposite sex?
Dec 12, 2010 11:48pm
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Thinthickbigred

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Dec 12, 2010 11:52 PM
Iliketurtles;598191 wrote:I've only cheated on Rosie... shes never cared too much.

Judging by your photo you look like the product of a new hybrid...dont know if beastiality is a crime in todays day and age
Dec 12, 2010 11:52pm
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Dec 12, 2010 11:54 PM
Thinthickbigred;598661 wrote:Are they transgender like you? Or do they just dress up like the opposite sex?

You DO realize that just because Steubenville is full of homosexuals and transgenders does not mean the rest of the state is like that, don't you?
Dec 12, 2010 11:54pm
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Thinthickbigred

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Dec 12, 2010 11:58 PM
Mooney44Cards;598665 wrote:You DO realize that just because Steubenville is full of homosexuals and transgenders does not mean the rest of the state is like that, don't you?

I didnt know you lived in Steubenville...I dont.....and I didnt know that steubenville was full of gays and transgenders...I dont go clubbing in Steubenville....
Dec 12, 2010 11:58pm
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Dec 13, 2010 12:04 AM
Only with coyote22 while he was with GoChiefs, behind Fab1b's back while I was with Justin.
Dec 13, 2010 12:04am
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Dec 13, 2010 8:40 AM
Curly J;598677 wrote:Only with coyote22 while he was with GoChiefs, behind Fab1b's back while I was with Justin.

THAT FUCKIN' BASTARD!!
Dec 13, 2010 8:40am
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Dec 13, 2010 9:12 AM
Never. It's not hard to not cheat on your spouse/girlfriend
Dec 13, 2010 9:12am
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Dec 13, 2010 9:13 AM
^^^^^ thats a double negative so you have cheated right?
Dec 13, 2010 9:13am
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Dec 13, 2010 9:19 AM
while i didnt exactly cheat. when i first started liking the girl i date now, we had been kinda messing around and going on some dates and stuff, but no formal commitment. I slept with one of her friends. worse move i ever made....it is like a thorn in my side that never goes away. I made it worse by lying. even after i came clean i still lied about a few of the details. these details keep coming up over a year later. as recent as this weekend. there are some haters out there who continue to stir the pot. on top of that sometimes she just will see a picture of the girl on face book or somthing else that reminds her of the situation and will start crying. wish i could take it back but its water under the bridge all i can do is try to make up for it and get her to trust me again....
Dec 13, 2010 9:19am
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Dec 13, 2010 9:26 AM
When I was in high school, though I am not proud of it. I dated 2 guys; both named Scott, at the same time. I got away with it for a while because one was already out of school....though come to think of it he lived with his Aunt and Uncle (my best friend's parents) I probably should have gotten caught easier. I finally did get busted when both showed up to a school play I was in. Seriously....it was such a crappy thing of me to do. I'm still really good friends with one of them though.
Dec 13, 2010 9:26am
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Dec 13, 2010 9:27 AM
Nope, never.
Dec 13, 2010 9:27am
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bwcomet89

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Dec 13, 2010 11:32 AM
Never cheated, but have been cheated on. It was with a girl I was with for about a year. Although she never admitted to it, it was kind of obvious. I wanted to beat the hell out of the guy because I knew who he was and he had been trying to get at her for months. She broke down and did it, but I'm not gonna defend the bitch. They will both get what they deserve soon enough. In hindsight I wish I would have gotten back at her with her sister when she was "consoling" me after it happened. Her sister is crazy hot.
Dec 13, 2010 11:32am
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Dec 13, 2010 12:37 PM
Absolutely not. Those who do are incorrigible.
Dec 13, 2010 12:37pm
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Dec 13, 2010 12:42 PM
it's not cheating because it's MY sheep.
Dec 13, 2010 12:42pm
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Dec 13, 2010 1:33 PM
well, you would probably get a better answer if you defined what exactly you think cheating is. I've found people have some different definitions.

As for myself, I've only cheated once..unless you count sexting. I cheated on my current girlfriend (relationship was going downhill anyway) with one of my ex's because I missed her and had talked to her and we were going to get back together..so i knew the current relationship was going to end. Didnt matter anyways though because im now single. But im not that type of person to cheat and be dishonest in relationships. I felt really bad about it and ended up tell the girl i cheated on. She says we are cool now, but i still think she hates me. Actually i think all of my exes that I was in serious relationships with hate me because I left all of them.

Also, im going to say i've probably been cheated on twice, one of which lead me to break up with my ex.
Dec 13, 2010 1:33pm
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Dec 13, 2010 2:08 PM
Only with trannys.
Dec 13, 2010 2:08pm
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JTizzle

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Dec 13, 2010 3:04 PM
No, I'm good Catholic man! lol Had the opportunity a few times, just couldn't do it. I guess my mom did something right raising me.
Dec 13, 2010 3:04pm
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Dec 13, 2010 5:06 PM
no
and anyone who does is lower than snail crap.
seriously if youwant to cheat than just leave that person.
Dec 13, 2010 5:06pm
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Dec 13, 2010 5:27 PM
Thinthickbigred;598664 wrote:Judging by your photo you look like the product of a new hybrid...dont know if beastiality is a crime in todays day and age
LOL... you really are that stupid aren't you? The photo isn't me.. maybe you should go to youtube and search "I like turtles" and watch the video.

But to answer your question beastiality is a crime so maybe you should quit before you get caught and I don't think your boyfriend likes it when you cheat on him with animals.
Dec 13, 2010 5:27pm
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Dec 13, 2010 6:01 PM
Gblock;598866 wrote:I made it worse by lying. even after i came clean i still lied about a few of the details. these details keep coming up over a year later.

What details? Like, did she give you the old, "tell me the truth, did you go ATM"? Or like, you failed to mention that tiny part about not wrapping it up and contracting syphilis?
Dec 13, 2010 6:01pm
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Dec 13, 2010 8:01 PM
Pick6;599347 wrote:well, you would probably get a better answer if you defined what exactly you think cheating is. I've found people have some different definitions.
Well, a pretty good indicator is if you have to sneak to have sex/do anything sexual with anybody else other than your spouse or significant other. If you're not honest about it, I'd say it's a pretty good clue also.
It could be anything from "serious" kissing to the dirty.

Seriously, I think we all know what cheating means.
Dec 13, 2010 8:01pm
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Dec 13, 2010 8:22 PM
CenterBHSFan;599856 wrote:Well, a pretty good indicator is if you have to sneak to have sex/do anything sexual with anybody else other than your spouse or significant other. If you're not honest about it, I'd say it's a pretty good clue also.
It could be anything from "serious" kissing to the dirty.

Seriously, I think we all know what cheating means.

Well, you just proved my point that people have different definitions. I consider any kissing cheating. Whether it is making out or not.
Dec 13, 2010 8:22pm
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Dec 13, 2010 8:47 PM
Pick6;599888 wrote:Well, you just proved my point that people have different definitions. I consider any kissing cheating. Whether it is making out or not.

Well, I said "serious" kissing simply because greeting and farewell kissing cannot be used as a serious accusation. And I'm sure there's folks out there who would try to construe that to their benefit lol!
Dec 13, 2010 8:47pm