fan_from_texas;502720 wrote:There is, of course, a moral difference between the two. How "great" it is, is tough to say because that's not something that lends itself well to quantification. I don't think I'd rate the second man to be a "good man," though that obviously depends on many other factors. Generally, allowing someone to die would put you pretty low on the list, but I'm not willing to write those people off entirely (e.g., "angel of mercy" situations). I have no idea if the second man values life. He likely values it more than the first man but less than someone who didn't do either.
So, I can't imagine if we saw the second man at a dinner party and we asked him, "Sir, what is it that you really value in this world?" and his reply was something along the lines of "I value human life and I think each and every one is truly prescious...well at least the unspoiled innocent ones like children," that we'd take him very seriously. We'd say "But sir, we saw you let a seemingly innocent man die so you could take your girl out to the movies or buy a new television or pay off a nagging bill, how can this be true?"
I suppose the point is, that on some small level, we all indeed think life is a good and special thing...When asked whether we'd hold off our dinner reservations to save a child we see drowning people of all types always say "yes, indeed we would."
But in reality, in our own personal busy lives this is not how we carry out our day. Last week I bought a brand new Panasonic Plasma T.V. I have desired this consumer item for quite awhile. I was at a loss as to whether I should get LCD, LED, Plasma...what brand I should get...and finally I was convinced to go with the Panasonic Plasma. This item cost me a pretty penny all while I already had a perfectly good LG flat screen from a few years back. I made this purchase knowing full well that there is a child out there somewhere in this world, a child I'll never know....that will undoubtedly die and suffer...at the very least suffer that I could have prevented if I would not have chosen this convenience instead.
It is the reality of the world. The $4 starbucks I bought...the splurge on a piece of chocolate cheese cake...the $50 dinner date with my gf at Nauti Mermaid (fabulous fish tacos btw)....all these things I did not need and were mere conveniences....and each one, could have been shunned so that I may stop an innocent life from suffering.
I guess, maybe I'm not sympathetic enough to the point of view and I suppose maybe moreso than in other topics....but to me, when a person thinks that a close loved one like a person's wife may not be saved in order to save the life of the child of say, that woman's rapist....because life is so precious that we can't kill this innocent child....
But I guess it just seems to ring hollow....and please, don't take that as me saying you're insincere or something. I mean no ill will. I'm positive you are a good and decent man. I'm just merely laying it out and in no way intend to indict you in anyway. I am the one with the strange views and you are the one with the more mainstream. But what I'm saying is....we make choices all of the time, literally multiple times every day that cost the lives of innocent children stuck in places through no choice of their own and yet not a tear is shed for this loss of life that didn't have to be lost...and these children felt the pain...every step of the way. Great, great pain. I mean hunger is still the world's greatest threat affecting 1 and 6 people on the planet. That feeling you get when you missed lunch and don't eat until supper time...that feeling all the time and never being satisfied and eventually causing your death...
I mean, I guess it just seems to me, if we are anti-abortion it just cannot be that it's because we find life so special and precious... I personally have seen how un-special and un-precious life was...how many innocent lives were truly not cared about and cast aside...when the gleaming lights of cruise ships float by in the distance all while human beings gaze upon them while hoping for one morsel of food.
I don't know I guess it just seems to me that if I thought life was so special that I was willing to let my wife die to preserve the life of her rapist's unborn child who feels no pain for the first 30 weeks of pregnancy...I don't know if I would spend money on nearly any of the things that I currently do and wouldn't live a life in any way resembling the average, normal American.
It appears to me most americans make effectively the same choice multiple times everyday that the lonely, scared pregnant girl terminating her pregnancy does.