cruiser_96 wrote:
No. You're not reading it right. We had a dual with them on Thursday, AND THEN saw them again on Friday at Watkins. That's two dual meets in less than 18 hours with almost the exact same line-ups. Plus, we only had nine wrestlers to begin with and 2 were pretty banged up from previous matches. That leaves 7. Only 2 had not wrestled a Panther yet so we put them out there.
OK, I still don't understand. You had
seven wrestlers and wrestled
two? Why? They beat you badly one day and you won't wrestle them the next day? What kind of message does that send your kids?
You're going to see them at Sectionals, do you plan of forfeiting to them there? Come to think of it, it's not uncommon for two wrestlers to meet twice at Sectionals or Districts or State. Would you forfeit the second match in that situation?
I guess we just have a difference of opinion on this. This goes back to our (I guess it was more me and Playground Legend) discussion of forfeiting when you have able-bodied wrestlers at weights. I think you send them out there to compete. You can't just not compete because you think you'll lose. I believe kids learn from losses, even bad losses. It's your job as their coach to take them aside afterwards and talk them through it; explian to them what happened, what did and didn't go right and what needs to change for next time. Teach them so they learn from the experience.
All of us were bad at some point in our careers, but we took our lumps and we got better...but we all learned from those lumps. What is winning without losing? Losing is what makes winning so great. If you've never felt the pain of being dominated on the mat, how can you appreciate the satitfaction of a dominant victory?
I lost 21 times in high school, and every one of them meant something to me. I was decisioned, majored, pinned and teched. Every one taught me something. Had my coach shielded me from those losses, even the really bad ones, I wouldn't have become the wrestler I did and more importantly, I wouldn't have learned the valuable lessons that wrestling teaches that apply to all aspects of my life.
From the outside looking in, it sounds to me like your heart is in the right place. You're trying to protect your kids, but you end up shielding them from much more than a few bad losses. You shield them from competition and you shield them from the things they are supposed to experience as wrestlers.