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ernest_t_bass

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Jan 11, 2010 10:38 AM
1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.

During my second month of college , our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student
and had breezed through the questions until I read the last one:
"What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"

Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50's, but how would I know her name?

I handed in my paper , leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended , one student asked if
The last question would count toward our quiz grade..

"Absolutely , " said the professor. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care , even if all you do is smile and say "hello."

I've never forgotten that lesson.. I also learned her name was Dorothy.


2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain

One night , at 11:30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rain storm.. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride.

Soaking wet , she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960's. The man took her to safety , helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.

She seemed to be in a big hurry , but wrote down his address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise , a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was attached.

It read:
"Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my
clothes , but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you , I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just before he passed away... God Bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others."

Sincerely ,
Mrs. Nat King Cole.


3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those who serve..

In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him. "How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked.

"Fifty cents , " replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it.

"Well , how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired.

By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient...

"Thirty-five cents , " she brusquely replied.

The little boy again counted his coins. "I'll have the plain ice cream , " he said.

The waitress brought the ice cream , put he bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice
cream , paid the cashier and left... When the waitress came back , she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies..

You see, he couldn't have the sundae , because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.


4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if
anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the King's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by
and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.

Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder , the
peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing
and straining , he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed
a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note
from the King indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway.
The peasant learned what many of us never understand!

Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.


5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts...

Many years ago , when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital , I got to know a little girl named Liz who
was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood
transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had
developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. The doctor explained the situation to her
little brother , and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister.

I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying , "Yes I'll do it if it will save her."

As the transfusion progressed , he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing
the color returning to her cheek. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded.

He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice , "Will I start to die right away".

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his
sister all of his blood in order to save her.
Jan 11, 2010 10:38am
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Jan 11, 2010 10:42 AM
Have these been snopes verified?
Jan 11, 2010 10:42am
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ernest_t_bass

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Jan 11, 2010 10:45 AM
LOL... I have no idea. I just thought of them all, off the top of my head, and typed them.
Jan 11, 2010 10:45am
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Jan 11, 2010 10:47 AM
gorocks99 wrote: Have these been snopes verified?
Do they really need to be?
Jan 11, 2010 10:47am
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Jan 11, 2010 10:51 AM
Yes.
Jan 11, 2010 10:51am
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Jan 11, 2010 10:54 AM
ernest_t_bass wrote: LOL... I have no idea. I just thought of them all, off the top of my head, and typed them.
lol, no you didn't. I've received an email with all of those stories.

I do like them though. :)
Jan 11, 2010 10:54am
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Jan 11, 2010 10:56 AM
gorocks99 wrote: Yes.
Why??

Can't the lessons contained in these 5 snipits be good thought provoking....even if they are not confirmed?
Jan 11, 2010 10:56am
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Jan 11, 2010 10:57 AM
Nope.
Jan 11, 2010 10:57am
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Jan 11, 2010 10:58 AM
Nice list ernest. All have important values that we should all follow, especially in today's world. It would probably be a much better place if we did.
Jan 11, 2010 10:58am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:00 AM
Good post.
Jan 11, 2010 11:00am
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ernest_t_bass

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Jan 11, 2010 11:00 AM
gorocks99 wrote: Nope.
Nope rhymes with snope.
Jan 11, 2010 11:00am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:01 AM
And to answer your questions, yes, I'm just being an ass. Call me jaded but there are a bunch of these things floating around out there, all with decent moral messages. Generally feel-good and/or nostalgic for "better" times. Any time I get one forwarded to me via email I hit delete pretty fast.
Jan 11, 2010 11:01am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:07 AM
^^^^^
LOL, on the "delete." I normally don't read them either. Glad I read this one.
Jan 11, 2010 11:07am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:09 AM
dont forget to send it to 10 people or you will have bad luck!
Jan 11, 2010 11:09am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:16 AM
ernest_t_bass wrote: LOL... I have no idea. I just thought of them all, off the top of my head, and typed them.
ernest_t_bass wrote: ^^^^^
LOL, on the "delete." I normally don't read them either. Glad I read this one.
D'oh!

:)
Jan 11, 2010 11:16am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:17 AM
Ernie never took you for such a sentimental sap. Everyone should delete this kind of crap immediately.
Jan 11, 2010 11:17am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:19 AM
FatHobbit wrote:
ernest_t_bass wrote: LOL... I have no idea. I just thought of them all, off the top of my head, and typed them.
ernest_t_bass wrote: ^^^^^
LOL, on the "delete." I normally don't read them either. Glad I read this one.
D'oh!

:)

Yes, that was sarcasm :)
Jan 11, 2010 11:19am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:22 AM
ernest_t_bass wrote:
FatHobbit wrote:
ernest_t_bass wrote: LOL... I have no idea. I just thought of them all, off the top of my head, and typed them.
ernest_t_bass wrote: ^^^^^
LOL, on the "delete." I normally don't read them either. Glad I read this one.
D'oh!

:)

Yes, that was sarcasm :)
I didn't get it. What can I say, it's Monday...
Jan 11, 2010 11:22am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:24 AM
I'm calling shenanigans on this one!

Screen shot or it didn't happen!
Jan 11, 2010 11:24am
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Jan 11, 2010 11:28 AM
Fly4Fun wrote: I'm calling shenanigans on this one!

Screen shot or it didn't happen!
Jan 11, 2010 11:28am
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Jan 11, 2010 12:15 PM
Great thread, I think I've learned a little bit about myself from reading this.

Thanks.
Jan 11, 2010 12:15pm
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Jan 11, 2010 12:17 PM
gorocks99 wrote: Nope.
I feel for you.....
Jan 11, 2010 12:17pm
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Jan 11, 2010 1:20 PM
I have seen them before a few years ago i think
Jan 11, 2010 1:20pm
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ernest_t_bass

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Jan 11, 2010 1:22 PM
darbypitcher22 wrote: Great thread, I think I've learned a little bit about myself from reading this.

Thanks.
If you ask some other huddlers, they'd say you can learn a lot about yourself from some other threads too :D


Just kidding.
Jan 11, 2010 1:22pm