CenterBHSFan;1881024 wrote:I have to be the one, I guess, who will stand alone on the island.
The sheer amount of accusations that have actually turned out to be true is extremely alarming and definitely shows that there is much improvement that needs to be done within society. When there is so much smoke, it can generally be relied upon that there will be fire.
What is equally alarming to me, though, is that it can also be that no fire can be found yet the results can be equally disastrous. All it takes is for an accusation to be made. When it comes to sexual assault - if that accusation is made towards somebody (person A) who thinks and acts so wholly different than you (person B) we are so committed to believing person A is guilty... automatically. No questions asked. Because that person is "other".
When accusations first started being reported in the Bill Cosby case, I was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt, because at the time, there was only 1 person accusing. But after 3 or 4, I started to withdraw that benefit of the doubt because too many things were similar. After time it came to be known that Cosby had already acknowledged some of the things that he had done. Ok there's evidence. He's guilty.
There is a case to be made where even without hard evidence that with enough of circumstantial evidence spread out between 1-100 (pick a number) people that there is some pattern of wrongdoing going on and it does create a level of guilt. Harvey Weinstein is a mediocre example of this.
On the other side of the spectrum there was the Duke Lacrosse incident where it showed that accusations with no proof (later found out to be total fabrications) can still destroy lives. After that came a whole slew of accusations of sexual assault from college campuses to the workplace that had no truth whatsoever to them. But lives were still destroyed in the process, oftentimes very young lives, of both the accuser and the accused.
I see these posts before mine and I have to sit back and think of these things. It's worrisome to me from both ends. And we wonder why we are such a polarized society, well I think this is a good micro-example. We no longer contemplate what is set before us. If the person is "other" our minds are automatically made up.
Good post. Once the media runs with it, you are damaged goods forever, whether the story is true or not. Unless you are Bill Clinton. There was a guy who harassed, coerced, assaulted, and raped multiple women, but since he was a democrat, he was allowed by the media and his colleagues to remain in public office. Moore, if true, kissed a girl and then when she asked to leave he immediately drove her home, so the story goes, but he will be forced out, and perhaps deservedly so. But the double standard is immeasurable.