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like_that

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26,625 posts
Jan 17, 2014 3:11 PM
dlazz;1568476 wrote:They do
That's your fault.
Jan 17, 2014 3:11pm
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MontyBrunswick

Jan 17, 2014 3:12 PM
like_that;1568478 wrote:That's your fault.
I'm not out to burn bridges, but this is just a shitty place to work. I didn't even bother approaching them to match the offer I received.

I don't care if they know.
Jan 17, 2014 3:12pm
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ernest_t_bass

12th Son of the Lama

24,984 posts
Jan 17, 2014 3:14 PM
dlazz;1568481 wrote:I'm not out to burn bridges, but this is just a shitty place to work. I didn't even bother approaching them to match the offer I received.

I don't care if they know.
Did you at least shave and cut your hair?
Jan 17, 2014 3:14pm
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MontyBrunswick

Jan 17, 2014 3:18 PM
ernest_t_bass;1568482 wrote:Did you at least shave and cut your hair?
Only my pubes. Left them in the sink.
Jan 17, 2014 3:18pm
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Raw Dawgin' it

Just Ain't Care

11,466 posts
Jan 17, 2014 3:41 PM
dlazz;1568475 wrote:Yeah, it was really goddamn stupid.

It's unreal how heartless companies are. I only have about a 40% success rate of hearing back ANY response after an interview. Usually I just go interview and hear nothing back. I'd even be content with getting a No, but instead I was spending a lot of time in limbo.

That's even with me asking for an update. Nothing at all
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This times 1000! If you take time out of work to go talk to someone, they owe you a response. I hate this with a passion. Coward behavior by unprofessional people. If you don't have the balls to be an adult and give bad news, you shouldn't be in a hiring position.
Jan 17, 2014 3:41pm
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like_that

1st Team All-PWN

26,625 posts
Jan 17, 2014 3:58 PM
Raw Dawgin' it;1568505 wrote:This times 1000! If you take time out of work to go talk to someone, they owe you a response. I hate this with a passion. Coward behavior by unprofessional people. If you don't have the balls to be an adult and give bad news, you shouldn't be in a hiring position.
I agree. It is not surprising since 95% of HR is employed by females. Anyway, this is just another reason why not to feel bad leaving an employer (unless of course you work somewhere like Justin's place of work).
Jan 17, 2014 3:58pm
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MontyBrunswick

Jan 17, 2014 4:20 PM
Update: I'm still fucking here
Jan 17, 2014 4:20pm
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ernest_t_bass

12th Son of the Lama

24,984 posts
Jan 17, 2014 4:55 PM
dlazz;1568518 wrote:Update: I'm still fucking here
Lol. Wtf?
Jan 17, 2014 4:55pm
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like_that

1st Team All-PWN

26,625 posts
Jan 17, 2014 4:56 PM
dlazz;1568518 wrote:Update: I'm still fucking here
Last day on the job, on a friday... Yeah I would have left a long time ago. DGAF if they know my future employer. Quit being a pushover.
Jan 17, 2014 4:56pm
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jmog

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Jan 17, 2014 5:12 PM
dlazz;1568465 wrote:Last spring I made it to the final interview and was asked to come in and meet the Dean of the school. I was told that I'd get an offer within a few days.

A week later I pinged them and asked for an update and was told that the Dean instructed them to broaden their job search.

Bonus: they had already checked my references and forced me to use my current supervisor as one of them... So he knew I was looking and had no job offer.
Oh my gosh, you actually gave them the contact information for your current supervisor? You can NOT be serious.
Jan 17, 2014 5:12pm
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MontyBrunswick

Jan 17, 2014 5:27 PM
jmog;1568538 wrote:Oh my gosh, you actually gave them the contact information for your current supervisor? You can NOT be serious.
They specifically asked for it. They said he would only be contacted if I were the final candidate, so I went ahead and forked it over.

I finally got out of there. I was given the OK to leave 'early' around 4:45.
Jan 17, 2014 5:27pm
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like_that

1st Team All-PWN

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Jan 17, 2014 6:18 PM
dlazz;1568543 wrote:They specifically asked for it. They said he would only be contacted if I were the final candidate, so I went ahead and forked it over.

I finally got out of there. I was given the OK to leave 'early' around 4:45.
I still wouldn't have given it.
Jan 17, 2014 6:18pm
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Kosh B'Gosh

4,145 posts
Jan 17, 2014 6:25 PM
jmog;1568538 wrote:Oh my gosh, you actually gave them the contact information for your current supervisor? You can NOT be serious.
In my career, if you don't give your current supervisor's contact information, your stuff may be tossed out immediately. It does not look good if you don't put your current supervisor's information down. So, I would have to keep a good relationship and a good line of communication with my superior. Now, there is a lot that can come in to play with this too -- being sought out, better relationship and line of communication with potential suitor, or some other aspect.
Jan 17, 2014 6:25pm
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gport_tennis

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1,796 posts
Jan 17, 2014 11:17 PM
Raw Dawgin' it;1568505 wrote:This times 1000! If you take time out of work to go talk to someone, they owe you a response. I hate this with a passion. Coward behavior by unprofessional people. If you don't have the balls to be an adult and give bad news, you shouldn't be in a hiring position.
Its more to protect from potential lawsuits then anything. Sometimes it better for the company to say nothing at all then for them to say something and have it twisted.
Jan 17, 2014 11:17pm
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A USA American

14,946 posts
Jan 17, 2014 11:49 PM
JIC- finally taking up homesteading huh?

dlazz- congrats (seriously). Hopefully this marks the end of your semi-monthly threads on how much you hate your job/life.
Jan 17, 2014 11:49pm
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MontyBrunswick

Jan 18, 2014 8:12 AM
Pick6;1568660 wrote: dlazz- congrats (seriously). Hopefully this marks the end of your semi-monthly threads on how much you hate your job/life.
Don't underestimate me.
Jan 18, 2014 8:12am
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I Wear Pants

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16,223 posts
Jan 18, 2014 8:33 AM
gport_tennis;1568651 wrote:Its more to protect from potential lawsuits then anything. Sometimes it better for the company to say nothing at all then for them to say something and have it twisted.
Couldn't they just send you a letter or an email? It would be hard to twist what they said in writing.
Jan 18, 2014 8:33am
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Belly35

Elderly Intellectual

9,716 posts
Jan 18, 2014 10:41 AM
Pick6;1568660 wrote:JIC- finally taking up homesteading huh?

dlazz- congrats (seriously). Hopefully this marks the end of your semi-monthly threads on how much you hate your job/life.

dlazz you took the government position at Jobs and Family Services.... Good luck with that mofo
Jan 18, 2014 10:41am
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MontyBrunswick

Jan 18, 2014 11:51 AM
Belly35;1568734 wrote:dlazz you took the government position at Jobs and Family Services.... Good luck with that mofo
no, I didn't. Also, quit talking to me.
Jan 18, 2014 11:51am
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MontyBrunswick

Jan 18, 2014 11:53 AM
I Wear Pants;1568702 wrote:Couldn't they just send you a letter or an email? It would be hard to twist what they said in writing.
I think it's just laziness on their part. There are ways to tell people they weren't selected without opening themselves up to litigation.

Universities are especially guilty of it. OSU was basically the only one I went to where they were pretty quick to tell me I wasn't selected. I interviewed at Kent State and Youngstown State and didn't hear a word.
Jan 18, 2014 11:53am
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Nick Mangold

32,056 posts
Jan 18, 2014 4:14 PM
Pick6;1568660 wrote:JIC- finally taking up homesteading huh?
No, it's kinda hard to do that still living in the city on less than a tenth of an acre.
Jan 18, 2014 4:14pm