SportsAndLady;1542689 wrote:But you seem to keep bringing up my "assumptions" I am simply saying in the case they have a child, that child is going to be fucked up to all eternity.
And this is one such assumption I'm talking about. You can't know that. Neither can anyone. It's possible, to be sure. I just don't think the situation is as dire as you seem to, and I don't think it's important to report someone because something is illegal and I think it's disturbing.
SportsAndLady;1542689 wrote:Someone needs to say something to the police. They're fucking brothers and sisters for christ sake. They should not be fucking each other. Period.
Nobody's saying they should be.
SportsAndLady;1542689 wrote:Also, drunk drivers don't hurt anybody until they crash, right? Does a drunk driver going the speed limit and driving correctly, wrong? By your same argument, drunk driving isn't bad because you can't assume they hurt anybody. Right?
It's irresponsible, but that's not entirely what I'm saying. I'm saying that I don't rat out every single person I know who drives while they're over the legal limit. Do you?
SportsAndLady;1542709 wrote:You're cool with brothers fucking their sisters?
I don't think ANYONE said that.
SportsAndLady;1542710 wrote:Make it happen, Otrap. Make America better.
I think an America where people are allowed to make choices independent of the permission of the majority, provided they don't directly harm another's body or property, is a better America.
Pretty sure the people in Salem were trying to make America better by killing all the "witches."
I Wear Pants;1542724 wrote:I mean I think it's gross but I don't have any reason to want them arrested unless someone is being hurt. Even the likelihood of birth defects if they would have a kid isn't a good argument for that unless you also want to arrest anyone who has a high likelihood of having birth issues with a child and still goes ahead with it. To be clear, I don't think brothers and sisters should have kids.
I pretty much share this sentiment. I think what they're doing is sick ... nasty. But I think the same thing about what goes on in your bedroom (and I'd guess you'd think the same of mine, though I can't know), and I'm cool with you being allowed to do it. Doesn't affect me. Doesn't deny anyone rights or freedoms.
justincredible;1542743 wrote:I am fine with consenting adults doing whatever they want in their bedroom. Even if it is creepy as shit. They aren't trampling on my rights, why should IGAF?
Because GAF is what Americans do. We GAF about stuff that isn't our business. If we didn't Entertainment Tonight and tabloids wouldn't be a thing.
jmog;1542755 wrote:If I was the ex-husband of the sister, I would be fighting for full custody with no visitation, because you know he knows what is going on. The incest would be front and center of the custody hearings.
I believe that's going on, or at least it sounds like it's being threatened.
jmog;1542776 wrote:Your assumptions are off still. 1. It is slightly less than 50/50 that a child from incest will have any problems mentally/physically at all. Yes, that is a HUGE number compared to less than 7% of babies from non-related parents. However, it is not a foregone conclusion that the child will be impared (and many of the 50% are slight problems).
Compared to the rest of the population, it's pretty common in some Amish communities. I went to Kindergarten with one such case. My classmate's parents were first cousins. She was cross-eyed, but otherwise, she was fully functional.
jmog;1542755 wrote:2. Maybe one of them are 'fixed'? Maybe they can't have kids anymore. It doesn't make it 'right' as it is still morally wrong in my opinion, but would that change your "call the cops now!" attitude? If this were me and it were my family, I would definitely try to get the kids out of the situation and let the adults be idiots. If I was in OTraps position, of barely knowing them, I wouldn't get involved either. Trust me, I guarantee you the exes of both of them are VERY involved right now, especially with their own kids involved.
Well, he doesn't have any with his ex-wife, and she's apparently already found a "new man." However, from the sound of it, the sister's ex-husband is going after sole custody with no visitation.
I do wonder how much it would mess the kids up to be raised by mom and Uncle Joey, but I honestly hope they do lose the kids, as I'd rather not risk finding out.
SportsAndLady;1542804 wrote:I'm not saying my attitude about this is "call the cops now!" Just saying if I was in otraps situation I would call the cops for sure. Wouldn't get involved just would make an anonymous call to the cops. The less incest out there, the better.
Well, the less alcoholism out there, the better as well. I just don't feel as though it's my place to get involved in the issue in that way, anonymously or otherwise. I get why you feel like the less it happens, the better. However, with people's lives in play, and with me knowing them very little (until a month ago, I may have talked to this guy twice in the last seven years), I'd prefer to have as little influence as possible on the situation.
ohiobucks1;1542822 wrote:You guys are missing the biggest point off all of this, by saying that because it's not effecting you that you should not GAF. American's criminal law system was built with both retribution and utilitarianism in mind. However, it is mostly utilitarian in common law. What that means is that our criminal system was established to prevent people from doing things that go against what we deem to be against our conscious/social norms. Anything that makes society "cringe" has statutes made to criminalize it. Incest is one of those offenses. Incest may not effect YOU per se, but if 99% of you say that it is absolutely wrong, then it should be punished. That is the ideal our system is built on. It's the same argument that people that are pro-marijuana are currently (rather successfully) making throughout the country. Since society does not deem Mary-jane to be "Bad" anymore, it shouldn't be according to utilitarians.
There is a problem with this notion. First, it undercuts any justification for social or moral reformers. Martin Luther King, for example, wouldn't have had a leg to stand on if he simply needed society to change its majority view without any moral justification for doing so. Without a reason, or at least the perception of a reason, the moral reformer has not grounds.
Also, it's worth pointing out that with this ideology you're asserting, the majority is justified in oppressing a given minority.
Just as well, in order to say that something "should" be punished, you have to appeal to an objective ethic of some sort. Under this utilitarian view, that isn't possible, so at best, one would say something "will" be punished if, and only if, the public adopts a utilitarian form of developing societal laws. As such, to suggest a "should" would be hypocritical under a utilitarian society.
Finally, there are plenty of things that society deems wrong, and would admit as such, and yet would never be considered for legislation to make them illegal.
ohiobucks1;1542831 wrote:Your belief is un-american

. But seriously, that is how/why laws should/are supposed to be made. Does doing drugs effect another person? No, but it's still criminalized. Why? Because it goes against our societal norms.
I would contest that his view is not un-American, unless we submit that the phrasing of "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" means something other than what it says in the Declaration, which was penned by the founders of America.
DeyDurkie5;1542837 wrote:This doesn't surprise me that Otrap knows these people. He's a religious nut with a porn addiction. That just screams "i know people that fuck their families and it turns me on" BTW, a dude fucking his sister is just not right. Regardless of how you feel, it should be reported IMO.
"Know" is a strong term. Like I said earlier, I've only spoken to him now maybe three or four times within the last seven years.
I'm not sure what makes me a "nut," but I suppose you can say what you'd like.
I do have a porn addiction, but I haven't looked at it for years, so I'd hardly think that to be relevant.
And anyone who is familiar with the Amish community is probably at least acquainted with a couple who is, at a level closer than the average citizen, related.
Doesn't mean it turns you on, though. Not sure where that came from. Freudian slip, perhaps?
I agree that it's not right, and maybe something will happen.
Wally;1542851 wrote:Gay sex makes me cringe. How does that compare to incest?
Based on one theory, if enough of society feels the same way, it needs to be illegal, and people need to be punished for it.