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Jan 30, 2013 8:49 AM
Raw Dawgin' it;1377303 wrote:Unless you have AIDS.

Who deleted my comment? What was so bad about it? Who here wants to be with a girl after a few black guys turn a girl into the grand canyon?
You got me there.

It shouldn't have been deleted. Being racist isn't against the rules as far as I know.
Gblock;1377318 wrote:imo guys who worry about that are insecure about their own performance. they like girls who havent been with many guys and have no idea what good sex is like. they probably figure if her number is high she has been laid very well more than a few times and they are scared to compete.

as far as what would i do. My number has been higher than every girl ive ever been with and its not even close so it would be pretty hypocritical to judge her. being with a lot of guys does not necessarily equal cheating..
I tell them all the time that I may not be they best they've ever had, but I'm all for trying.
Jan 30, 2013 8:49am
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Jan 30, 2013 8:50 AM
like_that;1377346 wrote:lol that's pretty bad, but fuck that ****. She obviously needed to grow up. I usually just say 3. It seems to be the dream # for girls.
I usually do the old "well, I've had x serious girlfriends so I've only had sex with x girls."
Jan 30, 2013 8:50am
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Jan 30, 2013 8:57 AM
hasbeen;1377349 wrote:I usually do the old "well, I've had x serious girlfriends so I've only had sex with x girls."
That doesn't work if you are strictly just trying to bang some girl. You only banged your GF's but now all of a sudden this girl is special enough to bang without any ties?
Jan 30, 2013 8:57am
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Jan 30, 2013 8:58 AM
Raw Dawgin' it;1377303 wrote:Unless you have AIDS.

Who deleted my comment? What was so bad about it? Who here wants to be with a girl after a few black guys turn a girl into the grand canyon?
Lack of knowledge is indicated in your comment. Black penis size is a myth, in reality Whites have a on an average larger erection size than Blacks and based on physical height same hold true. Don’t confuse myth with facts ….. truth hurt mofo
Anatomically Blacks have a shorter Femur bone (100’s of a millimeter) on average than Whites.

BGSU two semesters of Grays Anatomy, Sport Medicine, and Sport Sociology has now come full circle&#8230; </SPAN>
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Jan 30, 2013 8:58am
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Jan 30, 2013 9:00 AM
Belly35;1377356 wrote:Lack of knowledge is indicated in your comment. Black penis size is a myth, in reality Whites have a on an average larger erection size than Blacks and based on physical height same hold true. Don&#8217;t confuse myth with facts &#8230;.. truth hurt mofo
Anatomically Blacks have a shorter Femur bone (100&#8217;s of a millimeter) on average than Whites.

BGSU two semesters of Grays Anatomy, Sport Medicine, and Sport Sociology has now come full circle&#8230;
:D
Do you know what a joke is?
Jan 30, 2013 9:00am
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Jan 30, 2013 9:03 AM
like_that;1377346 wrote:lol that's pretty bad, but fuck that ****. She obviously needed to grow up. I usually just say 3. It seems to be the dream # for girls.
Yeah huge waste of time. I said 5 by the way.
Jan 30, 2013 9:03am
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Jan 30, 2013 9:04 AM
Raw Dawgin' it;1377358 wrote:Do you know what a joke is?
I just didn&#8217;t want some of the other OC members to go limp with bad information.</SPAN>
Jan 30, 2013 9:04am
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Jan 30, 2013 9:13 AM
sleeper;1377263 wrote:I really don't care. I've been around the block probably more than most women could ever be.
Your life is so awesome, i envy you.
Jan 30, 2013 9:13am
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Jan 30, 2013 9:15 AM
like_that;1377319 wrote:Yeah, If I don't know anything, I follow this same policy. Nothing good can come out of it. If a girl asks me, I typically lie. I learned my lesson the hard way when my ex asked me, and she ended up crying lolfail.
lol...I remember talking about this before. I thought being truthful was the way to go. I was wrong, so very very wrong.
Jan 30, 2013 9:15am
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Jan 30, 2013 10:18 AM
vdubb96;1377365 wrote:Your life is so awesome, i envy you.
Thanks. :thumbup:
Jan 30, 2013 10:18am
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Jan 30, 2013 10:23 AM
Trueblue23;1377251 wrote:Looooong story short.

I have a friend back home who has been talking to a girl he met about a month or so ago. He says she's cool, chill, the whole nine yards. She wants to start dating, and he does too... but she's been around the block. They never had a sit down, come to Jesus talk about it all, but it's a girl that sorta has that reputation I guess. He says she's changed and all that stuff, but he can't get it out of his mind. One of his biggest hang ups is that she's been with two of his friends (that he is aware of. Maybe 3).


Is there, in the eyes of the almighty Chatter of Ohio, a number of dudes a chick can hook up with before she is permanently damaged goods?


And for the record.. I told the dude that as long as she is clean, who cares. She isn't from our town, so it's not like everyone would even know.
Number of years ago I would hook up with this one chick every few months. Knew she had BF and was a slut as she would ask at times why I wanted to be with her as she cheated on every BF she ever had. Duh...the sex...but anyways. What got me to realize she was PERMANENT damaged goods was one night when she said to me during..........'is it bad to be with 3 guys in the same day'.
That was a little bit much for me so that was the last time. Figured it was her BF, a Dr at where she worked, and then of course myself that night....but anyways........
Jan 30, 2013 10:23am
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Jan 30, 2013 10:31 AM
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Jan 30, 2013 10:31am
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Jan 30, 2013 10:52 AM
I don't understand why anyone cares. As long as you both are tested and clean, then why does it matter? I don't have any experience with this, but wouldn't you want to be with someone who isn't a prude and knows what they are doing?
Jan 30, 2013 10:52am
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Jan 30, 2013 10:57 AM
Spin off would you date a girl you banged the first night you met?
Jan 30, 2013 10:57am
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Jan 30, 2013 10:58 AM
Big_Mirg_ZHS;1377417 wrote:Spin off would you date a girl you banged the first night you met?
Too many other variables involved.
Jan 30, 2013 10:58am
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Jan 30, 2013 10:58 AM
Big_Mirg_ZHS;1377417 wrote:Spin off would you date a girl you banged the first night you met?
Start a different thread, but yes.
Jan 30, 2013 10:58am
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Jan 30, 2013 11:09 AM
Automatik;1377418 wrote:Too many other variables involved.
I would not exclude someone just because we had sex the first time we met. But I agree there are many other variables involved.

I had sex with a girl on our first date (technically it was the second time we met) and afterwards she told me "I think I'm falling in love with you." I thought was a little much but she was pretty hot so I went with it. She was also so ridiculously loud my neighbor asked me about her the next day. She had just finished barber school (not sure what you call it) and was looking for some place to cut hair. I found out later that she was a single mom living with her parents because her last boyfriend was selling drugs out of their apartment. Her parents were moving so she was trying to find a place for her and the kid to live. She also introduced me to her kid when I picked her up which I didn't like. I wonder how many guys that poor kid got introduced to? We went on several more dates until her sister told me she found someone who would let her move in. About six months later I ran into her at the store and she told me she was single again and was going to school to be a private investigator. Lol what a mess.
Jan 30, 2013 11:09am
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Jan 30, 2013 11:14 AM
I will not date a girl that didn't put out the first night.
Jan 30, 2013 11:14am
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Jan 30, 2013 11:16 AM
wes_mantooth;1377437 wrote:I will not date a girl that didn't put out the first night.
Do you mean one that wouldn't drink the roofied drink you gave her?
Jan 30, 2013 11:16am
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Jan 30, 2013 11:18 AM
FatHobbit;1377442 wrote:Do you mean one that wouldn't drink the roofied drink you gave her?
no, i mean one that the roofie didn't work on. They all get roofied..it is inevitable.
Jan 30, 2013 11:18am
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Jan 30, 2013 11:36 AM
tk421;1377415 wrote:I don't understand why anyone cares. As long as you both are tested and clean, then why does it matter? I don't have any experience with this, but wouldn't you want to be with someone who isn't a prude and knows what they are doing?
The only real question that matters... "Have you fucked anyone that I know, or that we will be around constantly?" That is valuable information.
Jan 30, 2013 11:36am
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Jan 30, 2013 12:09 PM
like_that;1377355 wrote:That doesn't work if you are strictly just trying to bang some girl. You only banged your GF's but now all of a sudden this girl is special enough to bang without any ties?

True. Bang them drunk. They don't ask questions.
Jan 30, 2013 12:09pm
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Jan 30, 2013 12:12 PM
ernest_t_bass;1377466 wrote:The only real question that matters... "Have you ****ed anyone that I know, or that we will be around constantly?" That is valuable information.
Def the most important question no doubt.

Also do not date a woman who doesnt know how to handle the eqt. If she doesnt make an attempt to reciprocate then she is a no go.
Jan 30, 2013 12:12pm
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Jan 30, 2013 12:17 PM
Big_Mirg_ZHS;1377417 wrote:Spin off would you date a girl you banged the first night you met?
Date hell...Married one. Still together 13 years after 'meeting'.
Jan 30, 2013 12:17pm
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Jan 30, 2013 12:34 PM
ernest_t_bass;1377290 wrote:Disgusting. No way I'd be with a chick
Wut? Sorry, you lobbed up that alley oop. j/k ;)
Jan 30, 2013 12:34pm