lhslep134;1462245 wrote:I'm in between the two competing groups of thought on the issue. I have no problem with athletes being around other athletes off the field, you just better be damn sure that it doesn't affect a single thing on the playing field. Take CP3 for example. Please excuse the war analogies but he is a field general who won't quit until he's "dead", but off the court he's buddies with those guys while being able to maintain the killer instinct.
If Gordon partying it up with those guys has no bearing on his playing then I'm okay with it, especially when it's someone from a different sport (ie Gordon and Lebron). That being said, I AM skeptical of anyone that says that being friends with competition has no effect. I still hate some of the rival kids I competed against in HS, so I understand where you (BR, COA, like_that) guys are coming from.
Yeah, I don't have a real issue with guys being off-the-field friends (or friendly acquaintances), but as someone who loves the competition, some of the stuff that goes on makes me shake my head from time to time. I remember a few years back when Arizona beat Philly to make the Super Bowl around the end of Warner's career. Right after the game, you have Brian Dawkins (I think) going over to Warner with this huge-ass smile like he won something, while congratulating him.
When you just lost a huge game and you're that visibly happy for someone on the other team, how the hell does that make your fans feel? "Looks like he didn't give two fucks about what happened...."?