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Dec 18, 2012 8:37 AM
Con_Alma;1346220 wrote:I doubt that very few people are like me but then again I don't evaluate them to see if they are or not because it really doesn't matter and there's no reason for me to care if they are or not. Why do you ask?

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Dec 18, 2012 8:37am
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Dec 18, 2012 8:38 AM
ernest_t_bass;1346222 wrote:You quoted a post that was in reference to ME.
Stop being so selfish, not everything is about you.
Dec 18, 2012 8:38am
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Dec 18, 2012 8:39 AM
Raw Dawgin' it;1346225 wrote:Stop being so selfish, not everything is about you.
lol
Dec 18, 2012 8:39am
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Dec 18, 2012 8:40 AM
ernest_t_bass;1346222 wrote:You quoted a post that was in reference to ME.
...as an effort to continue the thought of choosing the right woman can be wonderful. Lol. The focus was on that person's point about choosing a mate. It was not about the reference to you . Of course if you want my post to be about you so we can continue this little go around... I'll oblige if it makes you happy.:)
Dec 18, 2012 8:40am
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Dec 18, 2012 8:44 AM
ernest_t_bass;1346188 wrote:Perhaps you can't comprehend. I love my wife, and I love my kids. I don't regret anything. However, I would more than likely choose NOT to do it again, simply because I've learned more about myself, not b/c of my wife. I'm not the type of person who likes to answer to someone.

Oh, and I really like money. lol


Again, you just married the wrong woman. It has nothing to do with whether or not you'd do it again, moreso that if you married the right person, you wouldn't be feeling this way.

"I don't like to answer to someone" pretty sad you have to answer to someone.
"I like money" work harder
Dec 18, 2012 8:44am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:00 AM
SportsAndLady;1346233 wrote:"I don't like to answer to someone" pretty sad you have to answer to someone.

Eh. I'm sure everyone thats been married has had to answer to his/her spouse at one point in the marriage.
Dec 18, 2012 9:00am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:02 AM
I miss being able to do whatever the hell I wanted without having to explain it to someone. Not all the time, but definitely some of the time.
Dec 18, 2012 9:02am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:13 AM
SportsAndLady;1346233 wrote:
"I don't like to answer to someone" pretty sad you have to answer to someone.
If you are married, whether you "like" it or not, you will always have someone to answer to. Always. Having someone to answer to has nothing to do with liking/loving/hating marriage.
SportsAndLady;1346233 wrote:
"I like money" work harder
LOL. Educator.
Dec 18, 2012 9:13am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:17 AM
Sounds like ETB wants to see other women.
Dec 18, 2012 9:17am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:19 AM
Sounds like ETB just doesn't want someone to answer to..is that even possible in life? Unless your Jerry Jones, Donald trump or some other billionaire entrepreneurial tycoon.
Dec 18, 2012 9:19am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:21 AM
Raw Dawgin' it;1346258 wrote:Sounds like ETB wants to see other women.

LOL. Not quite. I. LOVE. MY. WIFE.
SportsAndLady;1346261 wrote:Sounds like ETB just doesn't want someone to answer to..is that even possible in life? Unless your Jerry Jones, Donald trump or some other billionaire entrepreneurial tycoon.
When you're married, you will find out. You honestly can have no recollection of what it is like, until you are actually married. Every single decision that you make will forever be "WE," instead of "I."
Dec 18, 2012 9:21am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:25 AM
ernest_t_bass;1346267 wrote:LOL. Not quite. I. LOVE. MY. WIFE.



When you're married, you will find out. You honestly can have no recollection of what it is like, until you are actually married. Every single decision that you make will forever be "WE," instead of "I."
this is definitely true.
Dec 18, 2012 9:25am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:26 AM
ernest_t_bass;1346256 wrote:If you are married, whether you "like" it or not, you will always have someone to answer to. Always.
I disagree with that as well. I don't "always" answer to my wife. I keep my wife in the know and informed on everything, but thats as far as it goes unless its something big.
Dec 18, 2012 9:26am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:28 AM
GoChiefs;1346270 wrote:I disagree with that as well. I don't "always" answer to my wife. I keep my wife in the know and informed on everything, but thats as far as it goes unless its something big.
Disagree with what I said? Every action you make, you will always be accountable to your wife. Perhaps that says it better than "answering."
Dec 18, 2012 9:28am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:32 AM
ernest_t_bass;1346271 wrote:Disagree with what I said? Every action you make, you will always be accountable to your wife. Perhaps that says it better than "answering."

My balls aren't in her purse. My wife doesn't know every action I make.
Dec 18, 2012 9:32am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:35 AM
GoChiefs;1346273 wrote:My balls aren't in her purse. My wife doesn't know every action I make.
Why not?
Dec 18, 2012 9:35am
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Dec 18, 2012 9:38 AM
Because she doesn't care to know everything. If I'm walking out the door, all I have to say is I'll be back and I don't get bombarded with a million where are you going questions. If she needs me, I have a cell phone.
Dec 18, 2012 9:38am
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Dec 18, 2012 10:22 AM
ernest_t_bass;1346267 wrote:LOL. Not quite. I. LOVE. MY. WIFE.



When you're married, you will find out. You honestly can have no recollection of what it is like, until you are actually married. Every single decision that you make will forever be "WE," instead of "I."
That is not entirely true. Yes, many decisions are WE based, but there are many, many, many MORE HER based than you based.
Dec 18, 2012 10:22am
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Dec 18, 2012 10:27 AM
GoChiefs;1346273 wrote:My balls aren't in her purse. My wife doesn't know every action I make.
Nor does she know every action that I make, but I'm still accountable to her for every action I make.
Dec 18, 2012 10:27am
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Dec 18, 2012 10:28 AM
thavoice;1346303 wrote:That is not entirely true. Yes, many decisions are WE based, but there are many, many, many MORE HER based than you based.
Yes, but it's not a secret that you're married to a succubus.
Dec 18, 2012 10:28am