Devils Advocate;1492115 wrote:How responsible is a kid born into a single family with a POS mom and no ther supposed to be?
There is more to this than people realize. I don't excuse the kid for not doing what he knows he's supposed to do or for doing what he knows he's not supposed to do, but it's surprising how many young people I've met in recent years who grow up in a similar kind of situation who have no concept of the value of high school, let alone college. And I don't mean that they demonstrate this with their actions. I mean they even articulate it.
I always used to assume that it was "common sense" (a logical fallacy on my part), but it only seemed that way to me because I'd not only been told it by people whose opinions I respected, but also because I saw it play out in the lives of people around me.
Remove those elements from the equation and replace them with people preaching the gospel of government assistance being option #1 (yes, it is common, just more out of ignorance than laziness) and with THAT being the example that is demonstrated by others in their lives who they perceive to be "successful," and it's no wonder they pursue the paths they do.
I honestly wish more of the people who complain about people on the government tit would spend some time trying to fix that problem, which honestly can be as simple as putting together a presentation for kids at an inner-city center or school and talking to said institution and explaining that you want to help educate kids on the benefits of a good education and why being smart is cool.