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Should I let my 19 yr old son date a 15 yr old?

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Steel Valley Football

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Jul 12, 2012 9:56 AM
Is this normal or I have raised a pedophile?

His mom and I are about to kick him out the house because we told him and he won't listen because he's still texting her. Her dad, Jim, is furious and wants to wax his ass. Just wanted to get your opinions.
Jul 12, 2012 9:56am
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raiderbuck

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Jul 12, 2012 9:59 AM
Negative. I wouldn't let that fly at all. Not to mention he could go to jail for dating her, and seriously mess up his image.

Has he never seen To Catch a Predator?
Jul 12, 2012 9:59am
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jmog

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Jul 12, 2012 10:00 AM
Since it would be statutory rape here in Ohio, I suggest you go much farther than what you are now and really take care of this.

In Ohio if you are 18+ it is illegal to have sex with anyone <16.
Jul 12, 2012 10:00am
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Sonofanump

Jul 12, 2012 10:01 AM
This should be all you have to say:

"She becomes legal on her 16th birthday, wait until then dumbass."
Jul 12, 2012 10:01am
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queencitybuckeye

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7,117 posts
Jul 12, 2012 10:05 AM
The ass waxing thing is troubling, is the girl's father ETB?
Jul 12, 2012 10:05am
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Raw Dawgin' it

Just Ain't Care

11,466 posts
Jul 12, 2012 10:06 AM
Yeah that seems iffy. I was 17 and dated a 15 year old, some how that doesn't seem as bad ha
Jul 12, 2012 10:06am
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Wooball

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Jul 12, 2012 10:09 AM
The correct thing to do would be to turn your son into the property authorities. He made his choice to break the law, he should live with the consequences.
Jul 12, 2012 10:09am
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bigkahuna

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Jul 12, 2012 10:12 AM
Don't let it happen. There's a decent chance you'll be left to help fix the issues when shit goes down.
Jul 12, 2012 10:12am
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Rotinaj

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Jul 12, 2012 10:13 AM
Yea you need to put an end to it asap. 4 year gap isn't a big deal normally, but it definitely is in this case.
Jul 12, 2012 10:13am
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Belly35

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9,716 posts
Jul 12, 2012 10:15 AM
Want your kids a loser .. send his happy ass to the military .. he will learn to grow the fuck up

Can't get a girl his own age WTF up with that ... He a man kick his ass like one, you're part of the problem handle this like a man and do some asskicking . Physically kick his ass

He will respect you or move out ...what the problem
Jul 12, 2012 10:15am
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bigkahuna

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Jul 12, 2012 10:16 AM
I always felt like HS romances should be a max of 2 years age difference. Think about a 17 and a 14 year old or a 16 and 13. It just seems gross to me.
Jul 12, 2012 10:16am
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ernest_t_bass

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Jul 12, 2012 10:18 AM
Tagteam
Jul 12, 2012 10:18am
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TedSheckler

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Jul 12, 2012 10:21 AM
Lucky guy.
Jul 12, 2012 10:21am
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Steel Valley Football

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Jul 12, 2012 10:25 AM
Thanks for your opinions. He a stupid son of a bitch. He doesn't even have a drivers license. I take him to work every day.
Jul 12, 2012 10:25am
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jmog

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Jul 12, 2012 10:26 AM
Steel Valley Football;1224093 wrote:Thanks for your opinions. He a stupid son of a bitch. He doesn't even have a drivers license. I take him to work every day.
So you enable him...explains a lot...

Hope this helps! :)
Jul 12, 2012 10:26am
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ernest_t_bass

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Jul 12, 2012 10:26 AM
Steel Valley Football;1224093 wrote:He a stupid son of a bitch. He doesn't even have a drivers license. I take him to work every day.

parenting problem.
Jul 12, 2012 10:26am
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O-Trap

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Jul 12, 2012 10:27 AM
Depends. If by "date" you mean "rail," then no.

Technically, if he really wants to date her, he can do so without breaking the law.
Jul 12, 2012 10:27am
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queencitybuckeye

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Jul 12, 2012 10:32 AM
O-Trap;1224099 wrote:Depends. If by "date" you mean "rail," then no.

Technically, if he really wants to date her, he can do so without breaking the law.
True, but only slightly less creepy, IMO.
Jul 12, 2012 10:32am
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se-alum

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Jul 12, 2012 10:35 AM
Wooball;1224077 wrote:The correct thing to do would be to turn your son into the property authorities. He made his choice to break the law, he should live with the consequences.
I see what you did there...
Jul 12, 2012 10:35am
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Just Ain't Care

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Jul 12, 2012 10:36 AM
This goes back to the old saying "if there's grass on the field..." right?
Jul 12, 2012 10:36am
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Jul 12, 2012 10:38 AM
I don't think SVF has a 19 year old son.
Jul 12, 2012 10:38am
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Rotinaj

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Jul 12, 2012 10:39 AM
Raw Dawgin' it;1224111 wrote:This goes back to the old saying "if there's grass on the field..." right?
And if not turn er over and play in the mud!
Jul 12, 2012 10:39am
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jmog

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Jul 12, 2012 10:43 AM
Raw Dawgin' it;1224111 wrote:This goes back to the old saying "if there's grass on the field..." right?
The culture nowadays you don't really want grass on the field do you?
Jul 12, 2012 10:43am
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Tiernan

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Jul 12, 2012 10:44 AM
Isn't this fairly standard for NE Ohio? Her Daddy is probably furious because he aint gettin' it as regular now that she has a BF.
Jul 12, 2012 10:44am
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queencitybuckeye

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Jul 12, 2012 10:46 AM
justincredible;1224118 wrote:I don't think SVF has a 19 year old son.
That he identified the girl's father by name made me wonder if this was a reference to something I missed in current culture (which would be 99% of it).
Jul 12, 2012 10:46am